calling Married vuncles and about to get married youths

[Rushabhi]

8 minutes ago, kidney said:

artham kaalae sis... meeku em experience from matrimony agents 

Maadhi max joint accounts lone untayi. Konchem chillara matram individual accounts lo untay antunna.

[No_body_friends]

option one:

1. maintain split wise
2. every month 25th settle the balance
3. write names on foods to have clarity in fridge

option 2 :

1. complete bend and give full control to wife
2. take 200$ pocket money from her
3. all happies

option 3:

1. use joint account to pool home expenses
2. be very clear about your family liabilities, personal expenses and future plans

[LadiesTailor]

1 hour ago, SinN0mbre said:

idem pathaaparam.. okavela okariki job pothe? Sick ayyi medical karchulayithe? 

Dude marriage ayyaka personal expenses vuntayu like taking care of family back in India or friends ki help cheyyadam lantivi... veeti kosam personal money kavali kada anduke aa 30 % personal account lo.. and use that money to buy gifts for spouse also... 70% money lo anne adjust chesukovochu

[krishnaaa]

It depends on the couple.

There is no one size fits all.

But make sure that both parties are involved.

 

Avoid silly stuff like splitwise, paying rent alternatively etc.

If it is leading there, you need to question yourself regarding your spending habits.

Is your spending habit more important than your family?

 

In my view, only those who can't handle money spend like fools, just like when a homeless guy gets a lottery.

Almost all rich people I saw spend wisely. They enjoy the freedom it gives them.

[PilliBeta]

1 hour ago, SinN0mbre said:

2 pilli pillalu anaadalu avuthayanta.. vaatikosam kalisi vuntunnaru

Good post

[Spartan]

gattiga matladite..spouse ki bank account ledu..  

password kuda teliyadu for login...

cc: @PilliBeta

[TOM_BHAYYA]

2 hours ago, kidney said:

Married vuncles:  Both working vunnaru kadha... How u couple solve individual financial pay

about to get married youths (say me): Bride side adigaro ledhothelidhu kaani SSN, PaySlips ani yeshalu yesthe... I blocked them.. Did u guys face same

Asking W2s anna, Jan lo generate aithadhi ani delay sesthunna ippudu oka match ki

[PilliBeta]

5 minutes ago, Spartan said:

gattiga matladite..spouse ki bank account ledu..  

password kuda teliyadu for login...

cc: @PilliBeta

Ento anta na meeda falling....my husband wants to retire when his balance alone without the money I earn reaches a specific amount. That's why he pays rent alternatively so that he can track when he can retire. 

[Spartan]

2 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

Ento anta na meeda falling....my husband wants to retire when his balance alone without the money I earn reaches a specific amount. That's why he pays rent alternatively so that he can track when he can retire. 

[Thokkalee]

10 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

Ento anta na meeda falling....my husband wants to retire when his balance alone without the money I earn reaches a specific amount. That's why he pays rent alternatively so that he can track when he can retire. 

Why retire so early?? Is he close to becoming a senior citizen?

[PilliBeta]

1 minute ago, Thokkalee said:

Why retire so early?? Is he close to becoming a senior citizen?

Yes, close to 65. 

[kidney]

8 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

Yes, close to 65. 

[Thokkalee]

8 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

Yes, close to 65. 

👍

So many people talk about early retirement... and they are very hard workers.. not sure what they do an entire day when there is no work to do ... 

[ganesh]

Separate accounts.. I take care of everything, in case I need additional money will ask her to  make a transfer

[ammoru_talli]

1 hour ago, No_body_friends said:

option one:

1. maintain split wise
2. every month 25th settle the balance
3. write names on foods to have clarity in fridge

option 2 :

1. complete bend and give full control to wife
2. take 200$ pocket money from her
3. all happies

option 3:

1. use joint account to pool home expenses
2. be very clear about your family liabilities, personal expenses and future plans

Option 4: I would prefer taking $2000 pocket money and give full control to husband.