calling Married vuncles and about to get married youths

[friesNfrappe]

16 minutes ago, PilliBeta said:

Yes, close to 65. 

[Thokkalee]

Separate accounts.. we know each other’s passwords.. credit cards separate.. no questions asked on expenses... autopay payments.. I manage the finances.. major expenses we discuss and take decisions... basically, we don’t have that feeling of your money and my money... so no fights on money issues.. 

[friesNfrappe]

According to me if husband and wife both working:

husband will take care of all basic needs rent and wife will buy all the food and pay bills.

Each person shuld be responsible for their own expenses like car, shopping and loans 

If one person has no job, then the spouse will take care of everything which is obvious. 
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or

they can open a joint account and deposit 50% salary and use that for rent, bills and food. The rest 50% for personal 

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or

wife or husband can transfer all the money to one account and one person will manage everything 

 

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I personally prefer 2nd option

[kidney]

5 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Separate accounts.. we know each other’s passwords.. credit cards separate.. no questions asked on expenses... autopay payments.. I manage the finances.. major expenses we discuss and take decisions... basically, we don’t have that feeling of your money and my money... so no fights on money issues.. 

so  antavu

[Rushabhi]

2 minutes ago, friesNfrappe said:

According to me if husband and wife both working:

husband will take care of all basic needs rent and wife will buy all the food and pay bills.

Each person shuld be responsible for their own expenses like car, shopping and loans 

If one person has no job, then the spouse will take care of everything which is obvious. 
——-

or

they can open a joint account and deposit 50% salary and use that for rent, bills and food. The rest 50% for personal 

———

or

wife or husband can transfer all the money to one account and one person will manage everything 

 

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I personally prefer 2nd option

Started out as 2nd. Trust increase ayye koddi ended up as 3rd but separated who pays what since one person paying everything is a burden. 

[Shameless]

3 hours ago, kidney said:

Married vuncles:  Both working vunnaru kadha... How u couple solve individual financial pay

about to get married youths (say me): Bride side adigaro ledhothelidhu kaani SSN, PaySlips ani yeshalu yesthe... I blocked them.. Did u guys face same

I manage both of our paychecks and finances in the house...I also do carry the cards with me...my just takes some cash with her and asks me when needed...we do have arguments over money once a while only for overspending but nothing serious though...

[BuridiBaaba]

19 minutes ago, ammoru_talli said:

Option 4: I would prefer taking $2000 pocket money and give full control to husband. 

ni salary entha 2001 dollars aa?

[friesNfrappe]

4 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Started out as 2nd. Trust increase ayye koddi ended up as 3rd but separated who pays what since one person paying everything is a burden. 

Nice. Yes, that’s how it should be. Basically one person shuld pay for rent, car and insurance and the other food, bills and save a certain % for emergency. Eddaru working aithey savings kontha varaku bagane avrhayyi so it shuldnt be a problem.

[Rushabhi]

I would suggest unless you are very sure about the person you are marrying separating out your finances and securing your finances. I heard a lot of horror stories about blindly trusting spouse. Do not do that. Maybe after a few years you can adjust according to how your spouse manages finances. Also discuss finances, debts and other things before marriage itself. Financial struggles is one of the major causes of divorces

[friesNfrappe]

1 minute ago, BuridiBaaba said:

ni salary entha 2001 dollars aa?

She is goddess, ninnu 1000 sarlu konagaladhu ..dandam petukoni google lo job ipinchu thalli ani mokkuko🙏🏽😇😆

[ammoru_talli]

4 minutes ago, BuridiBaaba said:

ni salary entha 2001 dollars aa?

Unlimited. 

[yemdoing]

3 hours ago, LadiesTailor said:

Have individual account for both and one joint account... split your income and put like 50 to 70% on joint account and use this for all your household and common expenses so you have some financial flexibility when it comes to your personal responsibilities... same applies on other side... 

a vattakayalu yemi udakav.

rule is: Husband income tho home will run as this family is husband responsibility. Dantlo yemanna migilithey that will go into savings. Savings ani cheppi india lo parents ki chelli pelli ki or brother business ani pampisthey kosi karam pedatharu. Savings ante vacation ki kids future ki etc.. 

Wife salary antha thana accoutn lo untayi. yentha balance undhi ani adigina, kosi karam pedatharu.

Nuvvu cheppinattu joint account lo 50% income vesi house chesthey those wives are godess ani spartan telling.

[Thokkalee]

11 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

I would suggest unless you are very sure about the person you are marrying separating out your finances and securing your finances. I heard a lot of horror stories about blindly trusting spouse. Do not do that. Maybe after a few years you can adjust according to how your spouse manages finances. Also discuss finances, debts and other things before marriage itself. Financial struggles is one of the major causes of divorces

Arranged marriage aithe, it takes some time to build that trust for the couple... 

If only one of them have personal responsibilities towards their parents/family, that will cause lot of friction.. 

[Thokkalee]

11 minutes ago, yemdoing said:

a vattakayalu yemi udakav.

rule is: Husband income tho home will run as this family is husband responsibility. Dantlo yemanna migilithey that will go into savings. Savings ani cheppi india lo parents ki chelli pelli ki or brother business ani pampisthey kosi karam pedatharu. Savings ante vacation ki kids future ki etc.. 

Wife salary antha thana accoutn lo untayi. yentha balance undhi ani adigina, kosi karam pedatharu.

Nuvvu cheppinattu joint account lo 50% income vesi house chesthey those wives are godess ani spartan telling.

[Deadp0ol2]

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