Hector8 Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 asalu kids chaduvu ki money enduku pettali anukuntaro mana janalu US lo US students ki loans bane vastay.... loan tisukoni payment parents kattochu kada.... or else poralle kattukuntaru ippudu fee motham katti aa poralla life meme poshinchinam ani chupinchukodanikaaa inka indian mentality lo undakunda think abt ur self first 1 Quote
kakatiya Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 Just now, friesNfrappe said: Bachelors ka? I don’t think so. Even if they get, it will be like 1k-2k off per sem but not full free ride. Chala kontha mandiki vasthadi free rides. No man..they give almost full fee waiver..even for medical colleges..but Indian students only chose harvard medical, berkely prestegious ones.. Quote
NiranjanGaaru Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 Just now, kakatiya said: No man..they give almost full fee waiver..even for medical colleges..but Indian students only chose harvard medical, berkely prestegious ones.. Oh.... Interesting Quote
NiranjanGaaru Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 32 minutes ago, kitkat said: I took a break from DB, back again now with some confusion going in my mind.... A friend (he was my coworker) in 40s/middle age, he has 2 daughters(10th and 7th grade), his wife is homemaker. he called me yesterday...he started saying that he needs to find a better job as his daughter will start college in 2 yrs and his earnings are not enough when she starts college, he said he can't move to another location, his mother sick in india, how he can't visit her now. even if he visits, he can't stay more than 2,3 weeks due to family obligations.... endi bhayya edi....40s lo kuda ela untee..40s lo job search endi baa...enni days work chesi mari kids college fee ki dabbu takkuva etc where are we going..what are we striving for.... ani oka question bothering me. just go with the flow anukuntunna but........ sharing a though here! See man, what that kid wants to study adhi chepu mundu, after that where she wants to settle E rendu clarity vasthe anni clarity vastai It's not a big deal, a vuncle ni antha tension padodhu ani chepu Quote
Galactus Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 Ikkade unte 40's enti , 50's lo kooda job change ki ready ga undali , ikkada life anthe kids ki colleges ki fees here are very expensive , two jobs aithe tappa you can not afford , not kidding so scholarship ye dari or start a fund now and keep saving for their college ahead If not , choose a normal state school where fees are not high sky , the trend I'm seeing is that desi parents try their best to send kids to expensive and reputed schools... Quote
nokia123 Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 33 minutes ago, kitkat said: I took a break from DB, back again now with some confusion going in my mind.... A friend (he was my coworker) in 40s/middle age, he has 2 daughters(10th and 7th grade), his wife is homemaker. he called me yesterday...he started saying that he needs to find a better job as his daughter will start college in 2 yrs and his earnings are not enough when she starts college, he said he can't move to another location, his mother sick in india, how he can't visit her now. even if he visits, he can't stay more than 2,3 weeks due to family obligations.... endi bhayya edi....40s lo kuda ela untee..40s lo job search endi baa...enni days work chesi mari kids college fee ki dabbu takkuva etc where are we going..what are we striving for.... ani oka question bothering me. just go with the flow anukuntunna but........ sharing a though here! india lo unde vallu NRI'a baaga rich...balisinollu anukuntaru... ikkada ground reality emo itla untadhi... US vacchina for 2-3 years untadhi manam baagane sampadisthunnamu ani...pamily perigi salary adhe range lo continue aithe mellaga gaa reality thelusthadhi....manam middle class ye ikkada ani inka veetiki additional gaa every now and then job searching and vacchina job ni nilabettaniki technology lo upgrade avvatam okati.. poni venakki podhama ante akkada software bathukulu inka adhavanam gaa unnayi chasss..emi jeevitham vayya idhi... 1 1 Quote
Hector8 Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 1 minute ago, Galactus said: Ikkade unte 40's enti , 50's lo kooda job change ki ready ga undali , ikkada life anthe kids ki colleges ki fees here are very expensive , two jobs aithe tappa you can not afford , not kidding so scholarship ye dari or start a fund now and keep saving for their college ahead If not , choose a normal state school where fees are not high sky , the trend I'm seeing is that desi parents try their best to send kids to expensive and reputed schools... aa mentality tho india aina us aina ekkadunna okkate Quote
Galactus Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 8 minutes ago, Hector8 said: aa mentality tho india aina us aina ekkadunna okkate yes , telisinde kada , we live poor and want best for next gen types antha , but hey , evadi gola vadidi Quote
Hector8 Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 5 minutes ago, Galactus said: yes , telisinde kada , we live poor and want best for next gen types antha , but hey , evadi gola vadidi aa porallu https://old.reddit.com/r/ABCDesis/search?q=narcissistic&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all lo nundi https://old.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/search?q=indian&restrict_sr=on daka post chestaru 1 1 Quote
friesNfrappe Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 14 minutes ago, Galactus said: Ikkade unte 40's enti , 50's lo kooda job change ki ready ga undali , ikkada life anthe kids ki colleges ki fees here are very expensive , two jobs aithe tappa you can not afford , not kidding so scholarship ye dari or start a fund now and keep saving for their college ahead If not , choose a normal state school where fees are not high sky , the trend I'm seeing is that desi parents try their best to send kids to expensive and reputed schools... dumb decision..unless parents can afford without loans (even then its dumb) Quote
Galactus Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 18 minutes ago, friesNfrappe said: dumb decision..unless parents can afford without loans (even then its dumb) agree , I know a case where Parents spend 100k per year for their kid's college wonder how long it will take for the kid to earn that amount of savings.. Quote
Galactus Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 19 minutes ago, Hector8 said: aa porallu https://old.reddit.com/r/ABCDesis/search?q=narcissistic&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all lo nundi https://old.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/search?q=indian&restrict_sr=on daka post chestaru normal , desi parents never change bro Quote
MagaMaharaju Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 25 minutes ago, Hector8 said: aa porallu https://old.reddit.com/r/ABCDesis/search?q=narcissistic&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all lo nundi https://old.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/search?q=indian&restrict_sr=on daka post chestaru LOL Quote
kitkat Posted January 21, 2021 Author Report Posted January 21, 2021 bros, my thought is for my friend (he sure somehow will pay for his daughter college fee here in US..thats how indian parents are). 40s, 50s lo job search...enni years work chesina still not stable financially....middle age lo jobsearch ela untundoo emo. living in US in middle age--is it right decision. ofcouse india lo life is not easy or cheap, bummer laa undi. erukkupoyamemo.... Quote
ForEverJava Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 3 hours ago, friesNfrappe said: +11 @kitkat US lo college tuition is too much .. India is the best option oka 4 years and MS kavalante she can do it here.. ledha community college for 2 years (less money) and then state school for the last two.. if u go for college rep, the fees is unbearable .. if the kid is super super smart then she can get a free ride but if she is an average student then CC and 4 year state school is better option. Your frnd probably knows this, but discuss with him again and may be he can think on it. Instate tution fee is not that expensive..like in michigan MSU(michigan state university) costs about 25 to 30k per year.. if instatate kakapote appudu almost double avuddi.. Quote
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