How do you treat your parents?

[Sputnik]

Like friends at this point.

May be like kids in future

[Galactus]

Growing up I had an idealized view of parents , that they can never do wrong , they always are good etc but I now know that they are just humans with flaws like me and everyone else

I send money when they need it for any big expenses (that run into thousands or lakhs) , give them cell phones, Ipads the usual stuff we do , but they sometimes act with selective amnesia especially in money matters 

they compare me (indirectly/subtle ways) with every tom , dick and harry , usually in money matters/education or something else on what those folks did...

feels bad man.jpeg

I know they care about me but I do not understand why they want me to live my life for them

(they expect me to do what they want rather than asking me what I would like to do)

em cheptham....this is a niratara prakriya ani niranjan garu pakka thread lo gyaan icharu...

dummy variable kooda confirm chesadu..

[Ellen]

3 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

 

May be like kids in future

Pelli ainaka all this dal won't cook. If u r a guy, the wife won't like dependency and will do nasa beram. If u r a girl forget about caring for parents, kanisam chance unnapudu nachinanni rojulu valla dagara undagalgina chaalu... Chuskovadam door ki baat

[Sputnik]

1 minute ago, Galactus said:

Growing up I had an idealized view of parents , that they can never do wrong , they always are good etc but I now know that they are just humans with flaws like me and everyone else

I send money when they need it for any big expenses (that run into thousands or lakhs) , give them cell phones, Ipads the usual stuff we do , but they sometimes act with selective amnesia especially in money matters 

they compare me (indirectly/subtle ways) with every tom , dick and harry , usually in money matters/education or something else on what those folks did...

feels bad man.jpeg

I know they care about me but I do not understand why they want me to live my life for them

(they expect me to do what they want rather than asking me what I would like to do)

em cheptham....this is a niratara prakriya ani niranjan garu pakka thread lo gyaan icharu...

dummy variable kooda confirm chesadu..

If they compare me with anyone, I will also start comparing them with Nagarjuna, Chiranjeevi and Female politicians who're their age group and ask them why didn't they make it big 

and we all laugh. Simple

[kiraak_poradu]

3 hours ago, Fish said:

Parents bathikunapude vaala aasthi raayinchukoni road meeda padesina son unnara meeku thelisina vaalu....how did they cope up with this 

why do parents bear even though son treat them like trash

I didn’t see kani treating bad I know. 
I feel sad for them but now a days parents are also changing and the should change keep back up after retirement like thellolu do

baada untadi parents ki but dayaneeyam ga chachi povadam kante last years lo they should live peacefully and comfortably 

i wish all parents should have good life’s after retirement 

 

[pakbanda]

4 hours ago, cellphone said:

i treat them like my friends. 

Taggindha active iyav

[jamesbond]

I stay with them.

[Raven_Rayes]

13 hours ago, Fish said:

Parents bathikunapude vaala aasthi raayinchukoni road meeda padesina son unnara meeku thelisina vaalu....how did they cope up with this 

why do parents bear even though son treat them like trash

awww sweetie.. :hugs: 

parents tho ekkuva involve avvaku.

I think girls are the best. without question.

next janma lo, I will be your dad (adopted daughter) because I'm gay. and I'll treat you like a princess. sarey na..

[Raven_Rayes]

I give a kiss to my mom's chubby cheeks every day. 

sometimes in front of her friends.

my mom is super chubby. I used to sleep with my hand on her cheeks. and I still can't stop myself from patting her cheeks.

money antava.. no problem aa vishayam lo. thought never even crossed my mind.

[filterKaapi]

13 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

I send money to my dad. He doesn’t need it, but wants to spend what I earn. Saves what he has. Idhem pichcho lol. 

lol.. maa thatha ki appatlo money pampe vadini.. aa money tho oka pedda tv and home theatre koni blu ray Pron chooddam modalettadanta.. his age was 75 yrs at that time.. nee yavva thuu

[modi_bhakth]

10 hours ago, Galactus said:

Growing up I had an idealized view of parents , that they can never do wrong , they always are good etc but I now know that they are just humans with flaws like me and everyone else

I send money when they need it for any big expenses (that run into thousands or lakhs) , give them cell phones, Ipads the usual stuff we do , but they sometimes act with selective amnesia especially in money matters 

they compare me (indirectly/subtle ways) with every tom , dick and harry , usually in money matters/education or something else on what those folks did...

feels bad man.jpeg

I know they care about me but I do not understand why they want me to live my life for them

(they expect me to do what they want rather than asking me what I would like to do)

em cheptham....this is a niratara prakriya ani niranjan garu pakka thread lo gyaan icharu...

dummy variable kooda confirm chesadu..

True

 

[Raven_Rayes]

1 minute ago, filterKaapi said:

lol.. maa thatha ki appatlo money pampe vadini.. aa money tho oka pedda tv and home theatre koni blu ray Pron chooddam modalettadanta.. his age was 75 yrs at that time.. nee yavva thuu

why are you guys bothered about money? what people do with it?

kasshhhhhhhhhhtapadi sampadinchaara? hehe..

[AndhraPickles]

Nenu ennisaarlu ichina nayapaisa teesukoru......but I've seen my friend's father and mother quarreling and bargaining with their son over calls for money..........may be each family has their own issues and responsibilities....

[Amrita]

I treat my parents like friends . My father is very chill and always gave freedom within his boundaries. He is def conservative in somethings but I understand it’s out of fear for security .  If I like a guy my parents are first ones to know . I hide nothing . 
 

Parents are not gods . They are normal human who does mistakes . I question their beliefs their conservativeness and sometimes their stupidity just like they question mine . Most part we have very good relationship but I don’t agree to everything they say or do .  Chinnappudu I kept my opinion for myself as I was scared to express now I express kunda baddal kotti . They feel I changed coming to US but I was like this ever since I know myself . 
 

Pandemic gave us opportunity to live together for more than 10 months . I realize I don’t fit in my family. I am not an ideal daughter my parents want who does things or follow things they say blindly singing Amma ni minchi daivamunnda  

Coming to money . It’s out of our equation . I never send  them money neither they send money .  Andaram same type too independent to even take a penny and it hurts self respect.  We spend for each other on occasions ( gifts , travel etc )