Why Divorce is such a social stigma in our culture

[bhaigan]

1 hour ago, DesiPokiri said:

How do you know if they don’t regret without being in their shoes uncle? 
 

if they don’t regret why so much depression and loneliness in this country uncle so much that they need to consult psychiatrist for everything ? 

You are wrong uncle, India has highest depression  in the world but various other factors

[DesiPokiri]

3 minutes ago, bhaigan said:

You are wrong uncle, India has highest depression  in the world but various other factors

lol you are so wrong uncle. We dont see autistic people much in india like many here and also our culture makes us to meet during some fests and make us united unlike being depressed here. 

An average american is dumb and depressed than any other in the world and these guys moved to materialistic life long ago.

[johnydanylee]

Couples lo okariki istam lekapoinaa divorce teesukovachu...

No alimony...No settlements ani law pass cheyandi

100 ki 99 kaapuralu koolipotaaii..1st day movie tickets line ni minchipotaaii courts daggara queues

 

[bhaigan]

24 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

lol you are so wrong uncle. We dont see autistic people much in india like many here and also our culture makes us to meet during some fests and make us united unlike being depressed here. 

An average american is dumb and depressed than any other in the world and these guys moved to materialistic life long ago.

anduke various other factors anna bhayya

here is the report

https://www.usnews.com/news/best-countries/articles/2016-09-14/the-10-most-depressed-countries , this is 5 years old report

1.China

2.India

3.US

[pakeer_saab]

11 hours ago, veerigadu said:

Dheeenamma badava. Work out avvakapothe li8888 theesukoni happy happy ga separate Avali.
 

Love da lo soceity kosam sagam mandhiiii jeeevitham mottham yedusthuuuu bathukutharuuuu. Mogggalllooooo Telugu samajaaaaam ra ayya. Okkkaaa Manchiii quality ledhu soceity lo. Edhaina manchi unte only family system lo ne undhi. Not in soceity level 

first of all evadi M vaadi kadukkovali..which most folks already do except few

divorce comes with lot of obligations, many try to play the wait game worsening this even further, but there are many example where couples realized their mistakes and living happily although this being less percentage

everyone specially indians invest everything in marriage and family leaving very little for themselves personally, so thing like divorce becomes emotional and life shattering even they will try to avoid until death, there comes the confusion

telugu samajam already matured, divorce is pain even for Americans, looks like you never had such kind of discussions with Americans at work or residence, you are only seeing shades of black about your own culture,, wait for your own marriage and kids, then you will understand how life puts a person in a spot

stop judging others and live your life as long as it seems good

[DesiPokiri]

4 minutes ago, bhaigan said:

anduke various other factors anna bhayya

here is the report

https://www.usnews.com/news/best-countries/articles/2016-09-14/the-10-most-depressed-countries , this is 5 years old report

1.China

2.India

3.US

ee reports annu kulfi reforts uncle. 2k or 3k sample tho theesevi.. plus us news link e ante nammable lol

[pakeer_saab]

5 minutes ago, bhaigan said:

anduke various other factors anna bhayya

here is the report

https://www.usnews.com/news/best-countries/articles/2016-09-14/the-10-most-depressed-countries , this is 5 years old report

1.China

2.India

3.US

the poorest people in India are the most happiest, these happiness index crap does not measure the real happiness human experience on daily basis, they measure by material wealth which is only thing west has

humans need way more than material wealth

[Peddayana]

13 hours ago, veerigadu said:

Dheeenamma badava. Work out avvakapothe li8888 theesukoni happy happy ga separate Avali.
 

Love da lo soceity kosam sagam mandhiiii jeeevitham mottham yedusthuuuu bathukutharuuuu. Mogggalllooooo Telugu samajaaaaam ra ayya. Okkkaaa Manchiii quality ledhu soceity lo. Edhaina manchi unte only family system lo ne undhi. Not in soceity level 

times chala changed man recently , now seeing more divorces for small reasons if they are not happy

kids unte it becomes complex and usually there will be adjustments but that too will change in future.

but as you said stigma is still there , people edo second grade vallani choosinattu choostharu divorced ante , vellu edo superior annattu, it could have failed for a number of reasons , judging and gossiping lo first untaru janalu

[Peter123]

4 hours ago, DesiPokiri said:

How do you know if they don’t regret without being in their shoes uncle? 
 

if they don’t regret why so much depression and loneliness in this country uncle so much that they need to consult psychiatrist for everything ? 

how do you know that they regret. Do you know the merican culture. 

psyhiatrist thing is there everywhere, isnt it ? its about personal behaviour, the point here whether youre happy or not, 

we are only discussing about marriage relationhsip, here they just walk out, if they arent happy

India we do not have a choice, and suffer for life not being happy with patner, the girl or boy is not to be blamed, but the society and parents yes. 

 

[Raven_Rayes]

1 hour ago, pakeer_saab said:

the poorest people in India are the most happiest, these happiness index crap does not measure the real happiness human experience on daily basis, they measure by material wealth which is only thing west has

humans need way more than material wealth

Yeah the highest level of self actualization is to love your country and defend hindutva like enlightened beings. 😂😂😂

In reality self actualized individual shows the middle finger to his country, and every country on earth. Lol

[Raven_Rayes]

First question. 

What is culture? Why do you care about a particular culture, including western culture? 

All cultures are crap and constantly changing. If yours is not changing, dump it. Simple. 

[DesiPokiri]

1 hour ago, Peter123 said:

how do you know that they regret. Do you know the merican culture. 

psyhiatrist thing is there everywhere, isnt it ? its about personal behaviour, the point here whether youre happy or not, 

we are only discussing about marriage relationhsip, here they just walk out, if they arent happy

India we do not have a choice, and suffer for life not being happy with patner, the girl or boy is not to be blamed, but the society and parents yes. 

 

Who is stopping you to take divorce in india too? 

[griz]

eppudo poyayi aa rojulu.. pelli seskunnolake seriousness undatla.. prati sinna vishayaniki divorce ee.. 

 

[Peter123]

51 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Who is stopping you to take divorce in india too? 

topic sidelined  do not get to personal dude, we are only discussing in general. Behave yourself

 

 

[DesiPokiri]

5 minutes ago, Peter123 said:

topic sidelined  do not get to personal dude, we are only discussing in general. Behave yourself

 

 

Behave yourself aa? What did I do to you uncle? I just said who is stopping you