DB members with kids

[Sputnik]

1 minute ago, Shameless said:

While we both were in the group for a few weeks, they trained us on being a sponsor...there a few books that we need to read in order to become a sponsor...I am enjoying it coz I am helping them distract their addicted life to setting up goals and how they can reach them...

so you were an addict earlier?

[Dilraju11]

Do not have kids if you cannot show love dummies 

[Shameless]

1 minute ago, Sputnik said:

so you were an addict earlier?

I am not but my wife has been volunteering for so many years in my kid's school and even the school district in my town...one of her friend's requested her if she can volunteer to help kids who are in deep trouble...she started and she thought I would enjoy too, and she referred me to the group...she is into spanish and I am into english...

[Sputnik]

Just now, Shameless said:

I am not but my wife has been volunteering for so many years in my kid's school and even the school district in my town...one of her friend's requested her if she can volunteer to help kids who are in deep trouble...she started and she thought I would enjoy too, and she referred me to the group...she is into spanish and I am into english...

cool

[Shameless]

4 minutes ago, YeddiBK said:

so  for them.. I also feel some people are so sensitive and have high expectations.. they will suffer and make the loved ones suffer.. for example there are two kids A and B. A's parents are 90% into other things and have only 10% interest for kids and B's parents show about 50% interest towards their kids.. depending on their mindset and personality B may be feeling more sad than A.

kids watch everything and they follow the footsteps of their parents...compared to the kids here, our kids in India are less prone to any addiction other than alcohol...but most kids here are exposed to all kinds of addiction and they don't realize that they are doing bad..

[YeddiBK]

1 minute ago, Shameless said:

kids watch everything and they follow the footsteps of their parents...compared to the kids here, our kids in India are less prone to any addiction other than alcohol...but most kids here are exposed to all kinds of addiction and they don't realize that they are doing bad..

yes, agree.. 

[Sputnik]

Just now, Shameless said:

kids watch everything and they follow the footsteps of their parents...compared to the kids here, our kids in India are less prone to any addiction other than alcohol...but most kids here are exposed to all kinds of addiction and they don't realize that they are doing bad..

It takes a village to raise a child antaaru.

Kids abroad are very lonely. Better to have two kids instead of one.

Hopefully they will be there for each other in future.

[Shameless]

Just now, Sputnik said:

It takes a village to raise a child antaaru.

Kids abroad are very lonely. Better to have two kids instead of one.

Hopefully they will be there for each other in future.

both indian parents ayyundi and they don't have any family/relatives closeby then it's better to engage the kid/s in some activities and be with them...naa situation lo naa kid ki too many cousins who live in the same area...almost every weekend he meets all of them either at my house or theirs, so he is always active either indoors or outdoors...hatsoff to my wife that she enrolls him in almost every activity he likes...winter time lo ice skating training ki veltham...I hate the cold but she says it's just for an hour baby, so I just keep quiet...

[a_sagittarian]

1 hour ago, sri_india said:

, can't play with me naaa ... antha busy untaraa janalu life lo 

Kids tho adukodam kastam when we have mental tensions in mind. And grown ups ki aa chinna chinna games mida patience undadu. Most dads won’t spend time with kids 

[k2s]

7 minutes ago, Shameless said:

both indian parents ayyundi and they don't have any family/relatives closeby then it's better to engage the kid/s in some activities and be with them...naa situation lo naa kid ki too many cousins who live in the same area...almost every weekend he meets all of them either at my house or theirs, so he is always active either indoors or outdoors...hatsoff to my wife that she enrolls him in almost every activity he likes...winter time lo ice skating training ki veltham...I hate the cold but she says it's just for an hour baby, so I just keep quiet...

You are lucky to have great spouse bro. 

[Shameless]

2 minutes ago, a_sagittarian said:

Kids tho adukodam kastam when we have mental tensions in mind. And grown ups ki aa chinna chinna games mida patience undadu. Most dads won’t spend time with kids 

I faced that problem when my kid was3 years old...whenever I feel like I can't concentrate on his games with him, I would take him to the nearby mall and he would play in the play area with other kids...but enni hours aadukunna kuda he still used to have great energy leves...kids andharu anthe anuko... 

[Shameless]

Just now, k2s said:

You are lucky to have great spouse bro. 

luckily we both love kids and she is the one who is always pushing me to be active than lazy...10 years lo learnt a lot from her... 

[Shameless]

5 minutes ago, k2s said:

You are lucky to have great spouse bro. 

thanks bro...I have never seen anyone in this DB at least talk about their partners whether good or bad...there is nothing wrong in sharing...we are not revealing our personal identities right...I don't always say to my wife that she is doing a great job but at least I feel happy when I am sharing here...

[Spartan]

19 minutes ago, Shameless said:

both indian parents ayyundi and they don't have any family/relatives closeby then it's better to engage the kid/s in some activities and be with them...naa situation lo naa kid ki too many cousins who live in the same area...almost every weekend he meets all of them either at my house or theirs, so he is always active either indoors or outdoors...hatsoff to my wife that she enrolls him in almost every activity he likes...winter time lo ice skating training ki veltham...I hate the cold but she says it's just for an hour baby, so I just keep quiet...

same boat.

[Sputnik]

6 minutes ago, Shameless said:

thanks bro...I have never seen anyone in this DB at least talk about their partners whether good or bad...there is nothing wrong in sharing...we are not revealing our personal identities right...I don't always say to my wife that she is doing a great job but at least I feel happy when I am sharing here...

what if they're not interested