Ariyana Maturity Levels

[Peter123]

10 minutes ago, Shameless said:

I am in no way bothered by anyone's clothes or outfits bro...current trend ni follow avuthu osthunnaru kadha younger generation, so I don't have any issues seeing girls in minis...it's their choice if they feel comfprtable in what they are wearing...mana Indian society ki time paduthundhi bro to get adjusted....mostly media ne chedagoduthundhi manushulani itla biased ga matladi about dressing...evadaina direct ga neekendhuku nenu ae battalu vesukunte ani ante appudu thelusthundhi veellaki...

again, I am open to anything bro...

Good

have to go with time anthe, mana culture lo ilaga ledu ante sounds stupid and dumb, all i am saying is to maintain clarity bold vs homely ane madhyalo padipoyi, nenu bold ani cheppi even they dont like mini they do wear them, even they feel uncomfortable just to tag themselves bold they're wearing minis. Valaki nijam ga nachi and comfort unte ofcourse they shouldnt give a fku to anyone and go for it. 

[Peter123]

11 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

Bold and Homely is not defined by what one wears atleast.

 

ofcourse, but thats not the point here 

Point is being bold vs homely, i feel these ladies are stuck in between these. 

[Peter123]

9 minutes ago, Shameless said:

Aina desh maaruthunnappudu, vesh kuda maaruthadhi kadha bro 😎 

+1

[Peter123]

11 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

Ayina jaisa desh vaisa vesh ani chinnapude chepparu

Just dress according to your audience

em comment bro idi, doesnt make any sense 

whats your point here? ladies should only wear sarees and chudidhars ? 

 

[Shameless]

1 minute ago, Peter123 said:

Good

have to go with time anthe, mana culture lo ilaga ledu ante sounds stupid and dumb, all i am saying is to maintain clarity bold vs homely ane madhyalo padipoyi, nenu bold ani cheppi even they dont like mini they do wear them, even they feel uncomfortable just to tag themselves bold they're wearing minis. Valaki nijam ga nachi and comfort unte ofcourse they shouldnt give a fku to anyone and go for it. 

There is a lot different between girls outside and girls from the movie industry…most girls in the movie industry try to get attention so that they can survive for long…some wait for good opportunities but some like to do some skinny shows to attract men like RGV to become famous overnight…I’m talking about bold and homely outside movie industry in general bro…it all depends on how much that person is attractive to others…let’s take Anasuya, she knows how much she is revealing and she knows how to catch the pulse of audience…

I still don’t know what exactly is bold and homely as per the media…

[Sputnik]

Just now, Peter123 said:

ofcourse, but thats not the point here 

Point is being bold vs homely, i feel these ladies are stuck in between these. 

Life experiences, circumstances and the influence around mold women into either of those.

One is evolved into either of those and I don't think anyone can pretend to be what they aren't for long.

Some are always protected and they get to retain their innocence where as others learn hard lessons.

[Sputnik]

3 minutes ago, Peter123 said:

em comment bro idi, doesnt make any sense 

whats your point here? ladies should only wear sarees and chudidhars ? 

 

that's not the point. 

One can wear what they're comfortable wearing.

Also there is nothing wrong in adjusting a bit for elders in your family. Personal choice anthe.

[Shameless]

5 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

Also there is nothing wrong in adjusting a bit for elders in your family. Personal choice anthe.

I agree with you on this…our elders are not used to sudden change in culture or the dressing style…you can also call it as chaadhastham…I’m experiencing that now with my mom and dad 

[Peter123]

8 minutes ago, Shameless said:

There is a lot different between girls outside and girls from the movie industry…most girls in the movie industry try to get attention so that they can survive for long…some wait for good opportunities but some like to do some skinny shows to attract men like RGV to become famous overnight…I’m talking about bold and homely outside movie industry in general bro…it all depends on how much that person is attractive to others…let’s take Anasuya, she knows how much she is revealing and she knows how to catch the pulse of audience…

I still don’t know what exactly is bold and homely as per the media…

i am also not talking about celebrtities bro, just normal girls. 

North india lo girls roam out in minis and no one gives a Fkuc, they're comfortable in those ane kadha

I think women should wear her outfit if she likes it and is comfortable to, be it any outfit sarees, kurtis, jeans shorts anything. But she is scared for the fact what if people judge me if i wear shorts, on ther other side they enocurage or give videos saying that there is nothing wrong in wearing mini dresses. Its like a confusion state. 

I just hope that this confusuion in them clears the fuk out  and be happy with what they want to and wear to. 

Example : Divorce, even if she wants to, she is just not able to cos of society sh1t and parents sh1t. 

Dresses: if she wears western outfits she will be tagged as Bari teginchindi. 

No matter how many movies like PINK, vakkel saab convey the message, nothing has been changed or will change,

 

 

 

[Sputnik]

Just now, Shameless said:

I agree with you on this…our elders are not used to sudden change in culture or the dressing style…you can also call it as chaadhastham…I’m experiencing that now with my mom and dad 

anthe kada.

I have seen in my own family. US lo different ga dress up avtharu

India velithe back to roots.

Bottu, poolu types 

[Peter123]

15 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

that's not the point. 

One can wear what they're comfortable wearing.

Also there is nothing wrong in adjusting a bit for elders in your family. Personal choice anthe.

adjusting - why should they adjust ? this is the basic point bro,.. 

you mentioned about comfort - what if a women says she is comfot in shorts, tanks, but her parents object to it ? 

comfort and adjust are 2 diff words, they just cant go along. 

adjust in partners also - no matter they like it or not they have to adjust for the sake of elders

[Sputnik]

2 minutes ago, Peter123 said:

adjusting - why should they adjust ? this is the basic point bro,.. 

you mentioned about comfort - what if a women says she is comfot in shorts, tanks, but her parents object to it ? 

comfort and adjust are 2 diff words, they just cant go along. 

adjust in partners also - no matter they like it or not they have to adjust for the sake of elders

adhe antunna bro

naku idhe comfort ivve veskunta ante veskoni adhi oka ammai choice

there are others who adjust as well and adhi aa ammai choice. Nobody is forcing her here as well. she is doing it to please her people and doing it happily.

evarini judge cheyakudadhu

[Peter123]

12 minutes ago, Shameless said:

I agree with you on this…our elders are not used to sudden change in culture or the dressing style…you can also call it as chaadhastham…I’m experiencing that now with my mom and dad 

just to mention because of these elders theyre are so many lives that got fukad up bro. 

nothing to blamed elders here, they're just bound to society and just going with it, problem is its not right all the time. 

India lo even today many girls get marry cos their parents ask them to do, parents em care cheyaru cos they want to get rid of the soicety and relatives pressure on them, bali iyedi evaru the guy or the girl. Ilanti cases lo whom do you blame, society or parents but clear fact the life of that girl or guy is gone totally wrong. 

India lo more than 50% of women even tho they dont like their hsbands, they will not say it, cos they feel that they have to live for their kids, same with men to wife, Ikkada person to be blamed is Indian parents and their BS, and society and their BS.  Evadi badha vadidhe but bali iyendi kondare

 

 

[Peter123]

12 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

adhe antunna bro

naku idhe comfort ivve veskunta ante veskoni adhi oka ammai choice

there are others who adjust as well and adhi aa ammai choice. Nobody is forcing her here as well. she is doing it to please her people and doing it happily.

evarini judge cheyakudadhu

I mean acting cheyalsina pani emi ledu, they should go with whatever they're comfort with. 

But india lo ala kadu ga situaion most of the girls do like to wear western outfits, but its just not possible cos of the society, these days some women are upto it, some are still confused, and most of them are scared. 

 

[Shameless]

8 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

anthe kada.

I have seen in my own family. US lo different ga dress up avtharu

India velithe back to roots.

Bottu, poolu types 

Maa parents tho video call lo she wears mangalsuthram and other times depends on what clothes she wears…my wife likes to wear chudidhar to show my parents…I said it’s not mandatory but she says it doesn’t hurt her if my parents are happy seeing her in traditional clothes, after all it’s a few minutes video call once a month kadha antadhi