Meeru life lo self learnt lesson. Not the ones you were taught or heard

[Peddayana]

• life is tough , nothing is ever really easy and we may have to try multiple times sometimes to succeed (made my peace with this)
• life is full of tough choices , one example is to staying here for money and not being able to take care of parents back in India(Truly blessed are the ones who are rich and can be with parents/siblings/relatives either in India or here)
• do not trust anyone from office implicitly even if they are good friends , you will be surprised how quickly your opinions reach your boss etc , so be guarded when speaking about yourself..
• we will never stop being content , most of us are (*flawed?) this way , we want bigger car , bigger house , bigger bank balance etc , there is no end to this so we keep taking more stress to earn more money, however keeping some perspective and knowing what you truly need vs want can help in eliminating stress 
• raising kids is not as easy as everyone thinks
• take care after your health , 20's lo care teesukoka pothe 30's lo untundi pistha

[grogu]

parents leni void devudu kuda teerchaledu 

[DuvvaAbbulu]

1 hour ago, Epic said:

Be selfish in some aspects(you will know), learn to say NO!

I agree with you bro

[Sputnik]

• Not to expect anything from a second person.
• To be as resourceful as possible.
• Be grateful for what you have.
• Either adjust or take initiative to change. (no whining or complaining)
• No point in worrying about situations that are beyond one's control
• Keep the wolves away
• Forgive but don't forget
• Don't jump into a relationship just to make it look like "you have it all" to others

[RoadRomeo]

Temporary set backs are real, you cannot control everything, freewill is limited

[RoadRomeo]

Your choices to make success depends on the country also

[neo26]

Money >>>>> Relations (learnt this after getting deceived from my loved ones)

Had a setback financially while my peers were buying houses. Finally realised nothing is permanent in this Fxxxxng world (not even troubles). Stopped comparing myself to other's, l take care of my and find solace in my kids/music.

[DuvvaAbbulu]

6 minutes ago, Sputnik said:

• Not to expect anything from a second person.
• To be as resourceful as possible.
• Be grateful for what you have.
• Either adjust or take initiative to change. (no whining or complaining)
• No point in worrying about situations that are beyond one's control
• Keep the wolves away
• Forgive but don't forget

Baaga cheppav bro 

Monday mrng boost vachindhi naku 

Thanks

[jajjanaka_jandri]

1 hour ago, veerigadu said:

In my case

 

" A person can be good or bad, but if they are not hungry they won’t go anywhere in life. Hunger is core instinct.  It doesn’t necessary have to be with profession or money. It applies to everything in life"

I figured that everyone is commercial and selfish 

[Prasthaanam]

If you don't treat your girl well, she will look for another men

[veerigadu]

53 minutes ago, jajjanaka_jandri said:

I figured that everyone is commercial and selfish 

Its our Indian soceity mostly. I would rather call it as their insecurity. They dont even realise how selfish they come across due to their insecurities. They try to cover it up with greed. 

[veerigadu]

1 hour ago, Peddayana said:

• life is tough , nothing is ever really easy and we may have to try multiple times sometimes to succeed (made my peace with this)
• life is full of tough choices , one example is to staying here for money and not being able to take care of parents back in India(Truly blessed are the ones who are rich and can be with parents/siblings/relatives either in India or here)
• do not trust anyone from office implicitly even if they are good friends , you will be surprised how quickly your opinions reach your boss etc , so be guarded when speaking about yourself..
• we will never stop being content , most of us are (*flawed?) this way , we want bigger car , bigger house , bigger bank balance etc , there is no end to this so we keep taking more stress to earn more money, however keeping some perspective and knowing what you truly need vs want can help in eliminating stress 
• raising kids is not as easy as everyone thinks
• take care after your health , 20's lo care teesukoka pothe 30's lo untundi pistha

Very insightful. Without being negative you made your points clear anna. Nijamganeee @Peddayana vi

[RedThupaki]

Don't believe any one...even the one's who can be believed...its my own experience...

Problems to me is a very simple thing for others vice versaaa

 

[YeddiBK]

1 hour ago, Peddayana said:

• life is tough , nothing is ever really easy and we may have to try multiple times sometimes to succeed (made my peace with this)
• life is full of tough choices , one example is to staying here for money and not being able to take care of parents back in India(Truly blessed are the ones who are rich and can be with parents/siblings/relatives either in India or here)
• do not trust anyone from office implicitly even if they are good friends , you will be surprised how quickly your opinions reach your boss etc , so be guarded when speaking about yourself..
• we will never stop being content , most of us are (*flawed?) this way , we want bigger car , bigger house , bigger bank balance etc , there is no end to this so we keep taking more stress to earn more money, however keeping some perspective and knowing what you truly need vs want can help in eliminating stress 
• raising kids is not as easy as everyone thinks
• take care after your health , 20's lo care teesukoka pothe 30's lo untundi pistha

if you have freedom and have enough money to fulfil basic needs, then life is not tough at all..

life if tough for them who are born in poverty and constantly abused.. for whom its hard to follow social code and ethics but still try to do their best..

[chinnapillalabandi]

Never give utmost imp to your fnds or relatives at the cost of ur personal life.

They ll finally ditches u aftr settlement and dnt even care at ur difficult times

Experienced such instances and moved away

Only ur parents love n partner/kids are true. Other than that its myth