Why parents trusts relatives more than Kids who settled abroad

[huma]

Maa Parents aasti mottam chuttalu dobbu kellaru nearly 1.6 crore after their death, adagadaaniki velthi. Nuvvu abroad elli sampadinchav kada neekenduku aasti antunnaru. Maa property papers surity ga petti vaallu land konnaru. Maa parents guddiga nammaru vaallani didn't even think about me. Ippudu aasti mottam kaajesharu. I spent money for my parents treatment but both couldn't survive. They were looking after my parents but they took 5 times more than what they spent on the treatment of my parents around 16 lakhs. Bills adigite levu antunnaru. Dad ki drinking alvaatu undedi, drink cheyinchi aasti raayinchukunnaru. My parents were asking money from me and lending to others without telling me. Nobody returned that money after their death. People who cheated me the ones whom I respected the most. That is why I hate relatives.

[Sputnik]

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3 hours ago, Sputnik said:

Idhepudu jarigindhi

 

 

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8 hours ago, Sputnik said:

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9 hours ago, huma said:

Maa Parents aasti mottam chuttalu dobbu kellaru nearly 1.6 crore after their death, adagadaaniki velthi. Nuvvu abroad elli sampadinchav kada neekenduku aasti antunnaru. Maa property papers surity ga petti vaallu land konnaru. Maa parents guddiga nammaru vaallani didn't even think about me. Ippudu aasti mottam kaajesharu. I spent money for my parents treatment but both couldn't survive. They were looking after my parents but they took 5 times more than what they spent on the treatment of my parents around 16 lakhs. Bills adigite levu antunnaru. Dad ki drinking alvaatu undedi, drink cheyinchi aasti raayinchukunnaru. My parents were asking money from me and lending to others without telling me. Nobody returned that money after their death. People who cheated me the ones whom I respected the most. That is why I hate relatives.

Simple answer..because you moved far away from them physically and mentally …they know that you will not be able to go there in time if they have an emergency and they rely on people around them for daily needs, emotional needs and emergency needs 

[Joker_007]

10 hours ago, huma said:

Maa Parents aasti mottam chuttalu dobbu kellaru nearly 1.6 crore after their death, adagadaaniki velthi. Nuvvu abroad elli sampadinchav kada neekenduku aasti antunnaru. Maa property papers surity ga petti vaallu land konnaru. Maa parents guddiga nammaru vaallani didn't even think about me. Ippudu aasti mottam kaajesharu. I spent money for my parents treatment but both couldn't survive. They were looking after my parents but they took 5 times more than what they spent on the treatment of my parents around 16 lakhs. Bills adigite levu antunnaru. Dad ki drinking alvaatu undedi, drink cheyinchi aasti raayinchukunnaru. My parents were asking money from me and lending to others without telling me. Nobody returned that money after their death. People who cheated me the ones whom I respected the most. That is why I hate relatives.

90% of Indian parents are under the impression that they abandoned you once you came to US... unfortunately the Hindu culture is like this only, they have been told from their child hood that you need to work hard for your children and children will take care of you during Old age. You can do one thing fight for it by throwing away your mental peace or move on.

Find a local politician or somebody who is stronger than them and sell it for less amount. 

[kasi]

11 hours ago, huma said:

Maa Parents aasti mottam chuttalu dobbu kellaru nearly 1.6 crore after their death, adagadaaniki velthi. Nuvvu abroad elli sampadinchav kada neekenduku aasti antunnaru. Maa property papers surity ga petti vaallu land konnaru. Maa parents guddiga nammaru vaallani didn't even think about me. Ippudu aasti mottam kaajesharu. I spent money for my parents treatment but both couldn't survive. They were looking after my parents but they took 5 times more than what they spent on the treatment of my parents around 16 lakhs. Bills adigite levu antunnaru. Dad ki drinking alvaatu undedi, drink cheyinchi aasti raayinchukunnaru. My parents were asking money from me and lending to others without telling me. Nobody returned that money after their death. People who cheated me the ones whom I respected the most. That is why I hate relatives.

I totally blame it on you.....if ur father drinks, it your responsibility to care of thier/your finances

But you chose to step away from the responsibility, and the relatives took advantage

[huma]

9 hours ago, kasi said:

I totally blame it on you.....if ur father drinks, it your responsibility to care of thier/your finances

But you chose to step away from the responsibility, and the relatives took advantage

Try chesanu bro but they said that I am small and cant handle it. They were doing chits and other traditional savings but no one returned money that they got from them. One of the relative called me and said that he used to visit my parents in a cab spending 1000/- and asking me to give 50k

[kittaya]

21 hours ago, huma said:

Maa Parents aasti mottam chuttalu dobbu kellaru nearly 1.6 crore after their death, adagadaaniki velthi. Nuvvu abroad elli sampadinchav kada neekenduku aasti antunnaru. Maa property papers surity ga petti vaallu land konnaru. Maa parents guddiga nammaru vaallani didn't even think about me. Ippudu aasti mottam kaajesharu. I spent money for my parents treatment but both couldn't survive. They were looking after my parents but they took 5 times more than what they spent on the treatment of my parents around 16 lakhs. Bills adigite levu antunnaru. Dad ki drinking alvaatu undedi, drink cheyinchi aasti raayinchukunnaru. My parents were asking money from me and lending to others without telling me. Nobody returned that money after their death. People who cheated me the ones whom I respected the most. That is why I hate relatives.

All relatives are like that

[pahelwan1]

10 minutes ago, huma said:

Try chesanu bro but they said that I am small and cant handle it. They were doing chits and other traditional savings but no one returned money that they got from them. One of the relative called me and said that he used to visit my parents in a cab spending 1000/- and asking me to give 50k

Aa relative amma idi too much 

[kasi]

17 hours ago, huma said:

Try chesanu bro but they said that I am small and cant handle it. They were doing chits and other traditional savings but no one returned money that they got from them. One of the relative called me and said that he used to visit my parents in a cab spending 1000/- and asking me to give 50k

[huma]

6 hours ago, kasi said:

its true basically he owe us some money and dont want to return it

[huma]

On 8/31/2021 at 10:04 AM, pahelwan1 said:

Aa relative amma idi too much 

Correct bro

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