Why divorce rates are so high in love marriages?

[jiggubhai]

1 minute ago, Pulkapresident said:

Data comparing divorce rates within countries for arranged and love marriage are hard to come by. But in the U.S., between 40 and 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. In India, the divorce rate for all marriages is about 1 percent and it’s higher for love marriages than arranged ones there.

you are comparing across cultures vaa.. India lo divorce ki unna stigma US lo ledu.. that can easily explain the difference.

the correct comparison to do here would be: compare love marriages to arranged marriages within India 

[Pulkapresident]

3 minutes ago, jiggubhai said:

you are comparing across cultures vaa.. India lo divorce ki unna stigma US lo ledu.. that can easily explain the difference.

the correct comparison to do here would be: compare love marriages to arranged marriages within India 

India lone cheppedi, 

In India, the divorce rate for all marriages is about 1 percent and it’s higher for love marriages than arranged ones there.

[jiggubhai]

1 minute ago, Pulkapresident said:

India lone cheppedi, 

In India, the divorce rate for all marriages is about 1 percent and it’s higher for love marriages than arranged ones there.

Oh ok  didn’t read that through. How much higher anta? 1% divorce rate Uber all undi.. andulo differences should be tiny

[Pulkapresident]

2 minutes ago, jiggubhai said:

Oh ok  didn’t read that through. How much higher anta? 1% divorce rate Uber all undi.. andulo differences should be tiny

1.2% anta 

“Divorces are very high in love marriages”, noted the Bombay High Court in a 2012 case.

[futureofandhra]

bcoz in middle some idiot or stupid puts finger between them n spoils their love eventually one or other thinks there shud be more love towards others

[javadevthop]

Just now, futureofandhra said:

bcoz in middle some idiot or stupid puts finger between them n spoils their love eventually one or other thinks there shud be more love towards others

 nek yetla tels ra 

[futureofandhra]

Just now, javadevthop said:

 nek yetla tels ra 

nee bot gola ento

[javadevthop]

Just now, futureofandhra said:

nee bot gola ento

 inthaki future of andhra yendh ra 

[Thokkalee]

51 minutes ago, Pulkapresident said:

It seems love marriages have high divorce rates, even middle class families lo, inka inter caste, inter religion, inter racial stats chuste, marriage is bound to fail. Why is it so? 

Marriage requires commitment from both the people and they should be willing to work on their relationship lifelong… if one of them is not giving time or not invested in the relationship, sooner or later the other one also do not see any value in staying together… it cannot be one way for very long… 

For any two people to be together (parents with kids, friends, lovers, roommates or couples) they both have to compromise on lot of things… in case of parents and kids, parents usually compromise… even the best of the best friends have fights and they get back together… 

with arranged marriage, it starts with a sense of commitment and they start building the relationship by learning about each other. They also have the support system from parents to help them navigate through any issues…  with love marriage, they (think) understand each other first before committing.. when issues arise, they usually don’t have a support system to fall back on.. it is a downward spiral if one of them is not willing to make amends to their relationship…

Also, kids play a great role in keeping the relationship healthy and active.. they bring a sense of “ours” instead of mine and yours… life of couples without kids get monotonous and boring after few years.. 

[Battuflnm123]

19 minutes ago, javadevthop said:

 inthaki future of andhra yendh ra 

ni grudha ra fooka

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

1 hour ago, Ellen said:

Only Telugu people context cheptunna : Arranged marriage basically parents ki eduru cheppaleka, relatives ni face chese guts leka parents chese oka well calculated transaction toh rampant hypergamy chestaru and thus stay for the sake of such transactions. Love marriage vishyam lo if they were strong enough to make a decision and  convince family n relatives for marrying whoever they like against tradition, they are strong enough to take a decision about what's right for them when it's not working out. The point is any kind of marriage sucks after a while. It just depends on the person who is willing to remove the mask for the sake of society. 

100 percent agreed

 

[JustChill_Mama]

55 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Emo andi.. ee topic meedha ye vlog chudaledhu.. so no idea

Ante nuv inka us lo mahalakhsmi ni follow avvatledhannamata

 

[jambalhaatraja]

1 hour ago, Pulkapresident said:

It seems love marriages have high divorce rates, even middle class families lo, inka inter caste, inter religion, inter racial stats chuste, marriage is bound to fail. Why is it so? 

Marriage 3 types bhayya

Type 1 : Open your hole(mouth) and openly tell "I dont like you" and divorce

Type 2: Open the bottom hole for kids and sacrifice for life and keep telling in mind "I dont like you"

Type 3: "I dont like you" but I have no other options hence closing all my holes and living with you

annitlo hole common anukunnav ..kaadu "I dont like you" anedi common...

just 3-6 months enough for feelings to die in both husband and wife after marriage...kallu muskuni okasari hengi or hengicchukuni and have a kid...see that kid and live happily and dont see the shape out aina partner

[jiggubhai]

52 minutes ago, Pulkapresident said:

1.2% anta 

“Divorces are very high in love marriages”, noted the Bombay High Court in a 2012 case.

1.2% ki 1% ki teda entanta lol.. aa rightwar gadi thatha anukunta aa high court judge

[javadevthop]

36 minutes ago, Battuflnm123 said:

ni grudha ra fooka

chi padu nak sigg baba