Never compromise on dowry unless it is a Love marriage

[DummyVariable]

37 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

There's a long way for equality to be practical. Articles lo chadavadam thappa peddaga equality aithe chudatle. There is patriarchy everywhere. We get bashed even for speaking against misogyny.

Examples here post karo

[Thokkalee]

1 hour ago, Iriswest said:

Aa old school mindset vaallu dowry icchi pucchukunnara? Sontha kashtarjitam etla aina karchupettukoni valla in laws ni. Ancestral property aithe he has something to ask for. India maaradu antav aithe.

Ammailu, nannu pelli cheskunevadu na character and personality chusi cheskovali, nenu icche katnam chusi kaadu ani fix ainappudu ee desam bagupadiddi.

Of course.. why would a son-in-law get a share in his father in laws properties even if it is ancestral? Many would support themselves saying that they are just following the tradition/custom.

There is another angle to this issue… girls also fight with their parents for their share and support their husband in this as they think that their parents wont give them anything except for the dowry… parents will give every penny will go to their sons.. 

solution to this: don’t give dowry for girls. Don’t take dowry for boys. Share the property equally between the kids (boys and girls)

[DummyVariable]

1 hour ago, Thokkalee said:

Of course.. why would a son-in-law get a share in his father in laws properties even if it is ancestral? Many would support themselves saying that they are just following the tradition/custom.

There is another angle to this issue… girls also fight with their parents for their share and support their husband in this as they think that their parents wont give them anything except for the dowry… parents will give every penny will go to their sons.. 

solution to this: don’t give dowry for girls. Don’t take dowry for boys. Share the property equally between the kids (boys and girls)

Dowry theesukomani Husband ki cheppi, divorce time lo teda vasthe 498 A pettochchu...

[TruthTruth]

24 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Of course.. why would a son-in-law get a share in his father in laws properties even if it is ancestral? Many would support themselves saying that they are just following the tradition/custom.

There is another angle to this issue… girls also fight with their parents for their share and support their husband in this as they think that their parents wont give them anything except for the dowry… parents will give every penny will go to their sons.. 

solution to this: don’t give dowry for girls. Don’t take dowry for boys. Share the property equally between the kids (boys and girls)

Girl working earning and getting equal share as brother from parents . Still boy parents demanding cash dinnem antaru ?

[DalchanChekka]

4 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

Examples here post karo

Even if both are working, majority of house hold chores are done by women. Still they would be compared against full time home makers  (how soft chapathis she makes or always has batter ready for idli/ dosa)and criticized for not being good enough.

Women of this generation have responsibilities of a man and choices of a women. Even if she brings equal to the table/sometimes more, patriarchy is still expected at the dining table. (some are expected to eat after)

Women with opinions are least tolerated and most labelled.

ee Db lo enni threads unnay alaa. Actresses or anchors raised by single moms will sleep around.

Those who sleep around are labelled sluts and those who don't are labelled lesbians.

Nobody sees their effort, how hard they or their mothers might have struggled.

Those raised with privilege are pathivrathas. Nothing against the privileged ones but why so much prejudice against the ones who worked their way till top. 

 

[Raazu]

Inka dowry expect chese beggers vunnara? Thu musti gallu

[Thokkalee]

3 hours ago, TruthTruth said:

Girl working earning and getting equal share as brother from parents . Still boy parents demanding cash dinnem antaru ?

Here girls at least have a choice as they are considerably more independent than a non-working girl… they can always choose not to marry that guy.. 

[DummyVariable]

6 hours ago, DalchanChekka said:

Even if both are working, majority of house hold chores are done by women. Still they would be compared against full time home makers  (how soft chapathis she makes or always has batter ready for idli/ dosa)and criticized for not being good enough.

Women of this generation have responsibilities of a man and choices of a women. Even if she brings equal to the table/sometimes more, patriarchy is still expected at the dining table. (some are expected to eat after)

Women with opinions are least tolerated and most labelled.

ee Db lo enni threads unnay alaa. Actresses or anchors raised by single moms will sleep around.

Those who sleep around are labelled sluts and those who don't are labelled lesbians.

Nobody sees their effort, how hard they or their mothers might have struggled.

Those raised with privilege are pathivrathas. Nothing against the privileged ones but why so much prejudice against the ones who worked their way till top. 

 

Ivanni US of A?? 

[DalchanChekka]

9 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

Ivanni US of A?? 

Doesn't really matter

[huma]

On 11/23/2021 at 10:08 AM, Raazu said:

Inka dowry expect chese beggers vunnara? Thu musti gallu

Dowry tells your worth man, nuvvu maatram eduru katnam ichina evaru pelli chesukoru

[Swatkat]

On 11/22/2021 at 5:49 PM, DalchanChekka said:

Even if both are working, majority of house hold chores are done by women. Still they would be compared against full time home makers  (how soft chapathis she makes or always has batter ready for idli/ dosa)and criticized for not being good enough.

Women of this generation have responsibilities of a man and choices of a women. Even if she brings equal to the table/sometimes more, patriarchy is still expected at the dining table. (some are expected to eat after)

Women with opinions are least tolerated and most labelled.

ee Db lo enni threads unnay alaa. Actresses or anchors raised by single moms will sleep around.

Those who sleep around are labelled sluts and those who don't are labelled lesbians.

Nobody sees their effort, how hard they or their mothers might have struggled.

Those raised with privilege are pathivrathas. Nothing against the privileged ones but why so much prejudice against the ones who worked their way till top. 

 

@anna_returns_1 mana maga jaathi ne edho antundhey. Oka sari ra

[Swatkat]

On 11/22/2021 at 6:08 PM, Thokkalee said:

Here girls at least have a choice as they are considerably more independent than a non-working girl… they can always choose not to marry that guy.. 

evaranna telisinolluntey cheppu naku @Raja_Returns ki.

[Raja_Returns]

2 hours ago, Swatkat said:

evaranna telisinolluntey cheppu naku @Raja_Returns ki.

ika kastame bro manaku pillani ivvadam

poni le at least office lu reopen avtunayi kotha githalani pattukovachu

[SarwaMangalam]

On 11/22/2021 at 5:49 PM, DalchanChekka said:

Even if both are working, majority of house hold chores are done by women. Still they would be compared against full time home makers  (how soft chapathis she makes or always has batter ready for idli/ dosa)and criticized for not being good enough.

Women of this generation have responsibilities of a man and choices of a women. Even if she brings equal to the table/sometimes more, patriarchy is still expected at the dining table. (some are expected to eat after)

Women with opinions are least tolerated and most labelled.

ee Db lo enni threads unnay alaa. Actresses or anchors raised by single moms will sleep around.

Those who sleep around are labelled sluts and those who don't are labelled lesbians.

Nobody sees their effort, how hard they or their mothers might have struggled.

Those raised with privilege are pathivrathas. Nothing against the privileged ones but why so much prejudice against the ones who worked their way till top. 

 

Emiti emiti job chesi, vanta chesi malli anadaru thinnaka wait chesi thinala .. a musti mohalaki cook cheyatame ekuva ante e fittings enti too bad too worst .. i don’t know who follow these rules but akali avthey plate teskkoni food serve cheskoni subharangana thinnama anthey no feelings no rules 

[Swatkat]

1 hour ago, Raja_Returns said:

ika kastame bro manaku pillani ivvadam

poni le at least office lu reopen avtunayi kotha githalani pattukovachu

Ropen ainavi poinav anav. Nenu waiting office reopening ki. Cut chesthey malla kotha variant inka na bhatku? Atleast nayanandham anna vastahdhi