Damage done to oneself

[futureofandhra]

6 hours ago, Chinni0512 said:

Is it repairable. I lost the sense of me and not liking the person I have become. I did let people betray me, take advantage of me believing they will face their karma. Meanwhile I did fail myself. I am tired of staying strong and reading self help books. I do physical activities too. But the fact that nothing is gonna bring the time back is killing me. I worked hard for everything I ever wanted but failed this time. I did not learn how to live with the life I get rather the life I want.

Spammers please stay away. 

talk to mom n dad

they r the true gods they will guide  you in tough times

[Chinni0512]

1 minute ago, futureofandhra said:

talk to mom n dad

they r the true gods they will guide  you in tough times

Neither I can face it nor they can handle it

[Point]

5 minutes ago, Chinni0512 said:

Neither I can face it nor they can handle it

If you don’t mind me asking

is it related to one of these things below:

visa

health

money

career

love life or too ugly to get married(adding bit of humor here, but I don’t mean ugly maybe things are not working out in love or married life)

[Point]

6 hours ago, Dabbakai said:

aithe 

 

2 hours ago, pallibathani said:

ayite yendhi va 

Give respect. 

[futureofandhra]

2 minutes ago, Chinni0512 said:

Neither I can face it nor they can handle it

only solution is next steep

only mom n dad can help you towards that

 

i can understand u r pain but nothing is world loves you more than mom n dad 

 

i wonot saay do this do that , just taalk to them on solution

[Thokkalee]

7 hours ago, Chinni0512 said:

Is it repairable. I lost the sense of me and not liking the person I have become. I did let people betray me, take advantage of me believing they will face their karma. Meanwhile I did fail myself. I am tired of staying strong and reading self help books. I do physical activities too. But the fact that nothing is gonna bring the time back is killing me. I worked hard for everything I ever wanted but failed this time. I did not learn how to live with the life I get rather the life I want.

Spammers please stay away. 

Remember what the toughest or the most difficult thing you have faced Few years ago or when you were a kid? Does that pain you now as much as it did at that time?? I don’t think so!! 
Time has an amazing power to make us forget the pain.. the things that are paining you a lot now will soon be trivial things in the future.. 

No one’s life is as happy or without issues as it appears.. everyone goes through lot of issues, big and small, and they live through it.. they will learn to deal with them.. you can either choose to live in the past or dust up and move on with your life… you can either choose to see an issue in the rear view mirror or keep it in front of you all the time.. choice is yours..

Youtube lo Telugu geeks ani oka channel undi.. aa videos chusthu undu.. they are very good and inspiring.. 

[Varshini2020]

Probably you are being too critical of yourself. There may be several people you know who would love to be in your place. That said, you are not alone in these kinds of feelings. I always feel I am not lucky, nothing comes easy, I have to do 1$ work to get 10 cents result, there are no one who would pave the way for me. But to think of it, I made several mistakes because no one to guide, but that made me self reliant. No one handed me anything on a platter but that means you are the master of your life, not indebted to anyone.

Most people especially nri's would experience being taken advantage, learn your lesson and move ahead. No point dwelling over past, instead focus on present and future. As long as you are healthy, you can make it work all over again.

[Moon_Walker]

2 hours ago, Varshini2020 said:

Probably you are being too critical of yourself. There may be several people you know who would love to be in your place. That said, you are not alone in these kinds of feelings. I always feel I am not lucky, nothing comes easy, I have to do 1$ work to get 10 cents result, there are no one who would pave the way for me. But to think of it, I made several mistakes because no one to guide, but that made me self reliant. No one handed me anything on a platter but that means you are the master of your life, not indebted to anyone.

Most people especially nri's would experience being taken advantage, learn your lesson and move ahead. No point dwelling over past, instead focus on present and future. As long as you are healthy, you can make it work all over again.

Well said. Greatest lesson for me in life is learning on my own without any guidance or elders setting any kind of examples.

I cant recollect the number of humiliations and insults i faced from so called relatives and friends who wait desperately to pounce on you to let you down and bring down your confidence to the lowest level.

Not sure what kind of miracle guided me but that insults induced more fighting spirit in me to fight back and get ahead with my life plans. Today if i look back i am in lot stronger position to make decisions and i know who is scum and who is genuine. Hard lessons learnt in life but worth it at the end.

[Jatka Bandi]

14 hours ago, Chinni0512 said:

Is it repairable. I lost the sense of me and not liking the person I have become. I did let people betray me, take advantage of me believing they will face their karma. Meanwhile I did fail myself. I am tired of staying strong and reading self help books. I do physical activities too. But the fact that nothing is gonna bring the time back is killing me. I worked hard for everything I ever wanted but failed this time. I did not learn how to live with the life I get rather the life I want.

Spammers please stay away. 

You seem to be in pain. I get the feeling. Feel free to reach out over IM if you feel like talking to someone. Always there to lend an ear and share your pain. Wish you will find your way soon.

[chandrabhai7]

Lavdalo jyothi laxmi thread la undi.  Details eyakapotey

[Midnightsun]

6 minutes ago, chandrabhai7 said:

Lavdalo jyothi laxmi thread la undi.  Details eyakapotey

Crocodile tears

drwayers wet

[Dabbakai]

13 hours ago, Point said:

 

Give respect. 

respect evaru ivvale ippudu 

[Chinni0512]

On 2/9/2022 at 5:16 AM, futureofandhra said:

only solution is next steep

only mom n dad can help you towards that

 

i can understand u r pain but nothing is world loves you more than mom n dad 

 

i wonot saay do this do that , just taalk to them on solution

What if parents are also part of the problem

[Battu123]

vuu

[Balibabu]