What to look for in a Girl

[Simple123]

2 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

Marry a girl who loves you and has lots of money

Decent looking and doesn’t have to be super.

Money + drive unte chalu 

[summer27]

3 hours ago, BabuDEVUDU said:

Married DBians ki oka question. Intlo matches chusthunnaru, but I do not know what to look for, in a girl. 
 

“neku elanti ammay kavalo neku theliyada” ilanti replies vaddu man. Marriage ayna chala mandiki matches time lo ivi check cheskonunte bagundedi ane feeling untadi(only speculation). Alantivi emanna cheptharu ani. Me experiences ye maku life lesions. 
 

Or Matches chuse time Lo girl Lo oka aspect(like aasthi or andam or family or previous relationships etc etc) ki preference ichi konni years ayyaka “arrey appatlo e aspect kanna vere aspect ki preference ichi matches chusunte bagundu” ani anukovadam kani, ila emayna future bride grooms ki help ayye tips istharu ani Aasha.

 

PS : I’ve been in long relationships with multiple girls but still don’t know what to look for in a girl, and of course relationships are different from marriage as two families unite in a marriage 

first check if you like physical attributes (face, base, books, chubby, skinny, teeth, hair etc whatever makes you like in a girl). Do you get excited enough? adi lekapothe next step oddu..

Next look at her parents, how they react behave. Maryada istara..adjust ayye type ee na..etc., (2 reasons - if their behaviour is good ammayini baagane penchi untaru ani okadi. second repu ammayi konchem trouble create chesina vallu sardi cheptaru ane hope untundi)..

next check her behaviour..generally good unte chalu..

Rest is all about compromise..you can't get an ideal soulmate..

a/c temp ekkuva vs takkuva, cloths kinda padesama hanger ki esama..cold water bath vs hot water bath..sleep lo blanket full gaa cover chesukuntama, partial gaa na..coffee vs tea..street food vs home food..outgoing vs spending time at home..

ilaa oka million vishayllo differences definete gaa vastayi..inka adjust avutuu povadame marriage ante..

 

 

[summer27]

[iddaritho]

16 minutes ago, Simple123 said:

Money + drive unte chalu 

My wife looks like Swades heroine , only thing is she is little dark , after talking for 15 minutes, I decided she was my wife 

I saw 15 girls already , one of them is my dads friend daughter who is super with 10 crore property for her
 

 

how ever didn’t feel the vibe 

[Thokkalee]

Honestly, you cannot come to a conclusion on how the nature of the girl is by talking to her once or twice… it will take years to get an idea.. different situations bring out different behaviors in a human being… every person tends to be at their best behavior when meeting a new person.. 

so look at their outlook on life (job, career, settling in us if you are, parents ni chuskodam, etc etc) and see if you both sync up and decide on it.. 

same applies to the girl also.. 

[MysoreJackson]

Pelliki mundu me vallaki girl side valla meeda manchi opinion lekapothe asal cheskovadhu ... oka 3-4 months me parents  opinion chudadam best before wedding... leakpothe dimaak karaab tarvata...

both sides valla mast issues vastay... your parents cant tolerate if you spend time with in-laws, your wife will not tolerate if you talk to your parents... I think this is big factor for peaceful mind and life....  Also, after wedding make sure your parents/siblings talk to your wife frequently.. or else ee ladies ki automatically mind lo edo tirigi pichi pichi chestaru...

[aaresinacheddi]

4 hours ago, BabuDEVUDU said:

Married DBians ki oka question. Intlo matches chusthunnaru, but I do not know what to look for, in a girl. 
 

“neku elanti ammay kavalo neku theliyada” ilanti replies vaddu man. Marriage ayna chala mandiki matches time lo ivi check cheskonunte bagundedi ane feeling untadi(only speculation). Alantivi emanna cheptharu ani. Me experiences ye maku life lesions. 
 

Or Matches chuse time Lo girl Lo oka aspect(like aasthi or andam or family or previous relationships etc etc) ki preference ichi konni years ayyaka “arrey appatlo e aspect kanna vere aspect ki preference ichi matches chusunte bagundu” ani anukovadam kani, ila emayna future bride grooms ki help ayye tips istharu ani Aasha.

 

PS : I’ve been in long relationships with multiple girls but still don’t know what to look for in a girl, and of course relationships are different from marriage as two families unite in a marriage 

age entha bro needi

[NaCl]

4 hours ago, BabuDEVUDU said:

Married DBians ki oka question. Intlo matches chusthunnaru, but I do not know what to look for, in a girl. 
 

“neku elanti ammay kavalo neku theliyada” ilanti replies vaddu man. Marriage ayna chala mandiki matches time lo ivi check cheskonunte bagundedi ane feeling untadi(only speculation). Alantivi emanna cheptharu ani. Me experiences ye maku life lesions. 
 

Or Matches chuse time Lo girl Lo oka aspect(like aasthi or andam or family or previous relationships etc etc) ki preference ichi konni years ayyaka “arrey appatlo e aspect kanna vere aspect ki preference ichi matches chusunte bagundu” ani anukovadam kani, ila emayna future bride grooms ki help ayye tips istharu ani Aasha.

 

PS : I’ve been in long relationships with multiple girls but still don’t know what to look for in a girl, and of course relationships are different from marriage as two families unite in a marriage 

[Dabbakai]

1 hour ago, summer27 said:

first check if you like physical attributes (face, base, books, chubby, skinny, teeth, hair etc whatever makes you like in a girl). Do you get excited enough? adi lekapothe next step oddu..

Next look at her parents, how they react behave. Maryada istara..adjust ayye type ee na..etc., (2 reasons - if their behaviour is good ammayini baagane penchi untaru ani okadi. second repu ammayi konchem trouble create chesina vallu sardi cheptaru ane hope untundi)..

next check her behaviour..generally good unte chalu..

Rest is all about compromise..you can't get an ideal soulmate..

a/c temp ekkuva vs takkuva, cloths kinda padesama hanger ki esama..cold water bath vs hot water bath..sleep lo blanket full gaa cover chesukuntama, partial gaa na..coffee vs tea..street food vs home food..outgoing vs spending time at home..

ilaa oka million vishayllo differences definete gaa vastayi..inka adjust avutuu povadame marriage ante..

 

 

okasari painavi anni match ayyaka; vere matches chudataniki poku the moment you like the match dont look at other matches until it works out, workout kakapotey ne inkoti chudu; 4-5 chusi oka better di select chesta ani MEB lo akhil lekka ayipothav confusiion toh 

[summer27]

5 minutes ago, Dabbakai said:

okasari painavi anni match ayyaka; vere matches chudataniki poku the moment you like the match dont look at other matches until it works out, workout kakapotey ne inkoti chudu; 4-5 chusi oka better di select chesta ani MEB lo akhil lekka ayipothav confusiion toh 

This is the best suggestion.. Edo car or furniture oo shopping chesinattu inka better deal vastundemo ani aasa ki povaddu.. once you are ok just go ahead anthe..

[Thokkalee]

1 minute ago, summer27 said:

This is the best suggestion.. Edo car or furniture oo shopping chesinattu inka better deal vastundemo ani aasa ki povaddu.. once you are ok just go ahead anthe..

True to some extent.. but girls have more choices now than boys… they are looking for multiple options…  so don’t put all your eggs in one basket.. 😄

[Dabbakai]

6 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

True to some extent.. but girls have more choices now than boys… they are looking for multiple options…  so don’t put all your eggs in one basket.. 😄

ala choice lu vundabatte ammailu kuda abbaila laga 30+ tarvata kuda struggling. 

Desi lolli confessions chuste ori nayanoooooooooooo

[BabuDEVUDU]

1 hour ago, aaresinacheddi said:

age entha bro needi

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