Son_of_surredu Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 Looks like he’s my friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tennisluvrredux Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 I know a few cases well, cheptha teerigga Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZoomNaidu Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 45 minutes ago, tennisluvrredux said: I know a few cases well, cheptha teerigga No, ippudey Vuuu.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naaperushiva Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 6 hours ago, BabuDEVUDU said: Recently I started looking for matches. Until this point in my life, I never had a thought about marriage life or how its going to be once I am married. But lately I've heard multiple sad stories from different people about how some desi women are abusing the laws to get US Visa or alimony etc. Like they marry some NRI, after coming to US, they get divorce as early as possible and go on their own with their BF who would be on student visa or similar. Or even worse, scamming NRIs for alimony as the laws are totally biased towards women when it comes to domestic violence, making husbands to bear for huge amounts of alimony. Usually the victims in such stories is some unlucky guy, so one might assume these kinds of things happens are common but are very rare cases, probably 1 in 1000 or something. But the owner of the poker club I daily play is currently facing the same charges and my ex-roommate is also a victim of similar case, seems to me that it happens more often than one thinks, definitely not 1 in 1000, makes me think what precautions one can take to avoid being in such a misery situation. "Wife ni baga chusko chalu" ilanti advicelu vaddu man. It is one thing to divorce your partner when you gave your marriage like 100 chances but you are vexed and lost hope that it's gonna work, it's totally a different thing to marry someone with pure intent of divorcing him for personal benefits such as alimony or visa, in which case entha manchiga chuskunna pette bokka petti 10denglthadi. Vennela movies lo Brahmi ni chusi navvukunna kani real life lo victims ni chusthunte feeling so sad. Google lo kodithe e story kanapadindi https://mensdayout.com/false-498a-cases-nri/ papam veeni badha aithe pagonikkuda rakudadu ra chari Roju road medha chaala accidents avuthaayi /ayinaayi varthalu vintaam ala ani driving cheyyatam maaneyyam gaa...idhi anthey mana jaagratthallo manam vundaali inka migilindhi aa devudiki vadhileyyali Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushabhi Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 3 hours ago, nokia123 said: maa extended circle to jarigina mucchata....ammayi ki BF unde college lo, but parents pelliki oppukole aa ababyi tho..diff cassette, weak finance and background ani reaons tho NRI ki icchi cheshinru... ammayi ikkadaki raagane MS chesthe, job chestha naaku intrest ante mogudu ok ani full encourage cheshindu....we will postpone matter ante kooda ok..we will stay like friends ani anukunnaru.... 2 years MS time pass ayyi poyindhi tharuvatha job vacchindhi aame ki vere location laa. after 6 months divorce notice pampindhi husband ki... ivvaka pothe harrasment case pedtha ani seppi bedhirinchindhi... venakala emi jarigindhi ante....parents NRI tho pelli fix cheyyagane lovers iddharu kalisi plot vesaru anta... Lover MS cheyyataniki US vacchindu..they have been in touch all along and calls have been going on a daily basis.. last ki aame BF tho settle ayipooyindhi US la after 2 years of free loading on boarding, lodging, food, shopping, MS fees...etc etc. ...thanks to NRI mogudu who was left is shock... Can he not collect proofs and produce them in courts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dabbakai Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 19 minutes ago, Rushabhi said: Can he not collect proofs and produce them in courts? entha proof chesina first abbai de tappu; jasleen kaur simple example. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nokia123 Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 2 hours ago, Rushabhi said: Can he not collect proofs and produce them in courts? emi proofs untayi baa ilanti vaatiki..... ayina aa ammayi edhuru harrasement cases pedithe boppi kaduthundhi....ayyinda salu le ani he left and moved on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nokia123 Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 6 hours ago, Swatkat said: Honestly bro kukka chavu chasthadhi vadukoni vadhilesinandhuku full negative karma teskapoindhi. Antha abaailadhey tappu ani finger point cheyataniki ready ga unde musalaama @Rushabhi e roju e thread ki adugupettadhu. atlemundadhu vayya....kontha mandhi ki ye karma thagaladhu enni papalu chesina..mana karma kaali valla thagilithe manaki dhoola theeripothundhi... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushabhi Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, nokia123 said: emi proofs untayi baa ilanti vaatiki..... ayina aa ammayi edhuru harrasement cases pedithe boppi kaduthundhi....ayyinda salu le ani he left and moved on Aa abbaye nenaithe revenge mode lo unta 24/7 aa betrayal ki. Of course mind lone bayata em peekalem 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabuDEVUDU Posted February 22, 2022 Author Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 9 hours ago, LadiesTailor said: Lite teesuko baa matches… pelli ki munde inne doubts vunte neeku work out avvadu… enjoy your single life 👍 Doubts kaadu ba, ilantivi unte emayna manam theskogala measures unte cheptharu ani, like okaru pettina comment "prenup agreement" theskodam ani. which I felt is not a bad idea. may be India lo aithe family tho deal cheyyali kabatti oppukokapovachu, but US lone marriage cheskune pani aithe, just prenup lantidi set cheskodam better ye kada anipinchindi, inka would-be feelings hurt avvadalu, trust break avvadalu antha prenup adagadam vallane ante em cheyyalem anuko, but just ilantive inkemayna unte married people will say no 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pallibathani Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 4 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said: I know a few cases well, cheptha teerigga sep bruh... gisontivi asal late seyodh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pallibathani Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, BabuDEVUDU said: Doubts kaadu ba, ilantivi unte emayna manam theskogala measures unte cheptharu ani, like okaru pettina comment "prenup agreement" theskodam ani. which I felt is not a bad idea. may be India lo aithe family tho deal cheyyali kabatti oppukokapovachu, but US lone marriage cheskune pani aithe, just prenup lantidi set cheskodam better ye kada anipinchindi, inka would-be feelings hurt avvadalu, trust break avvadalu antha prenup adagadam vallane ante em cheyyalem anuko, but just ilantive inkemayna unte married people will say no bruh oka sincere suggestion inko janma la pelli sesko gee janma la edisey nuv sesukunte ne life aame life padithath iga nu gaa frustration db meeda supisthav .. iga edisey sc lu susko va gammuna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jalsa01 Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 9 minutes ago, BabuDEVUDU said: Doubts kaadu ba, ilantivi unte emayna manam theskogala measures unte cheptharu ani, like okaru pettina comment "prenup agreement" theskodam ani. which I felt is not a bad idea. may be India lo aithe family tho deal cheyyali kabatti oppukokapovachu, but US lone marriage cheskune pani aithe, just prenup lantidi set cheskodam better ye kada anipinchindi, inka would-be feelings hurt avvadalu, trust break avvadalu antha prenup adagadam vallane ante em cheyyalem anuko, but just ilantive inkemayna unte married people will say no Ela ite neku pelli inatte.. ne bhayam asstests lo share adugutarana leka sincere relationship dorakadana.. if is second one u don't need prenup but need proofs to defend yourself anthe... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tennisluvrredux Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 Okay here goes, I will tell you 3 stories all happened to close friends Story 1: North Indian poradu daddy is a retired airforce general from Indian AF. Chaala senior level person and disciplined etc etc as you can imagine. Poradi base Chandigarh, aadane oka pamily from same background(punjabi hindu, not Sikh) ni choosi okammyiki ichi pelli chesaru pori well educated akkade locally MBA and all that done. Poradu already appatike GC unde so eemeki visa apply cheyadam kosam baaga tried finally applied and got her here on a visa. Pori ochina sandhi edo vishayam meeda naaku eeda idi nachale, adi nachale ani o okate nasugudu sare kotta kadaa edo adjust kaneeki time padathadi so antha set avuthadi in due course of time ani oorukunnadu. ayina ide tantu, poriki local univ lo admit kooda ippinchi edo thanaki interest unna program lo chadivistha unde. Idi ila undaga porodigi oka anna undetodu Florida la valla thana visit ki vellinappudu vaallu choodu idi konnaru, vaallaki avunnayi ivunnayi manakenduku gavi levu ani okate comparison ala annintiki comparisons chesi chesi abbayi thanaki sarayina sadupayalu kaliginchatle ani indirectly hinted to him. Ala chesi chesi finally ika neetho naaku nadavadu nee daari needi naa daari naadi ani tolded to him ika gatyantaram leka manodu sare neekem kavali ante nenu konni rojulu cousin kaadiki poyostha ani tolded and went to colorado. aada evado ex-boyfriend anukunta vaadu bhi student e akkada university vaaditho chetta pattalesukuni fullu ga tiriging, manodiki ela telusante doubt camed evadithono talking when he is not home ani so evaro private detective ni hired. Even proofs unna kooda ammayini adigithey she came clean, avunu vaade naa BF vaaditho ne naa future ninnu just GC kosam chesukunna ani finally blackmailed him saying nuvvu court ki pothey nannu harrass chesavani reverse complaint istha plus India lo 498a case estha nee ishtam ledante naaku 50k ichi divorce ivvu nenu naa darina potha ani. Mottaniki maa odu aameki 50k ichadu aame happily filed for U visa and got GC, and went to live in a live-in with that old BF. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tennisluvrredux Posted February 22, 2022 Report Share Posted February 22, 2022 Story 2 will post later. Typing cheyala chaala story untaadi ga anduke. Be patient vuuu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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