Did you plan for kids when you are ready or when your parents or peers are ready?

[sarvayogi]

honest truth is many go for kids out of insecurity..as late aite you will get indirect looks from desi community like...wire undi kaani current ledu...vishayam ledu ... so many get some treatment some injections some medication and become parents first

desi community will treat a father or shapeout mom more preciously even than a nobel prize winner

[DesiPokiri]

Just now, friesNfrappe said:

I can only imagine, raising a kid or human is like living ur whole life all over again .. such a great responsibility..

Kids are part of life, kids are not one’s whole life is my philosophy. 
 

vaadi school kosam usa lo undatam kaadhu, nuvvu ekkada unte vaadi school akkada untadhi 

[no01]

15 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Problem is many don’t go for kid for the joy of having kid anna, they instead plan kids for the sake of the pressure without knowing why they are having kids 

antha plan chesi, full mental ga prepare ayyake kid ante, 40yrs vachina ah so called mental preparedness raadu. Tharuvatha vachina inka no use....mana side ok, but wife side she cant bear a child after certain age. 

So kids vishayam lo, ey age ki manaku full confidence vasthundi ane hard pass rule ekkada ledhu. Most likely once you crossed 45 - 50yrs, appudu pakka anipisthadi manaku kids leru....life is not full ani.