Children are big trap in the married life

[nightcrawler]

20 hours ago, Rone123 said:

Inka pillalu lekapothe, em pikaniki your purpose on this earth? bhoomi ki bharam tappithe, bathikina chachina okate, alanti bathuku enduku bathakatam?

Wrong statement . Some get kids easily 

some have health issues .. 

daniki brathakatam waste ani generic cheyodhu

[Rone123]

2 minutes ago, nightcrawler said:

Wrong statement . Some get kids easily 

some have health issues .. 

daniki brathakatam waste ani generic cheyodhu

Yes, those are exceptions. Norm and exceptions ki difference gurthinchali. Asalu pillalu waste ane valaku nenu ichina answer,  biological problems etc anevi exceptions.

Exceptions thiskuvachi core argument ni mislead cheyavadhu,

 

[huma]

1 hour ago, quickgun_murugun said:

Ammayilu kuda adey feel avtharemo 

Ledu , vaallaki exciting life nachadu they want life which has full of drama where they are the main character who can tackle all situations which can’t be achieved practically therefore they are in frustration all the time 

[huma]

1 hour ago, anna_vendy said:

Kaka if you are married are you ok your wife sleeping with someone else? 

My ex wife is happily married to your dad before you were born kaka and sleeping well with him after that I lost trust in marriage and didn’t marry but we are in touch so all good 👍 

[Pandubabu]

koncham early ga US vachina , MS cheyadaniki vachina mana lanti batch lu , manaku life antha thelisipoindhi no pelli ,no Pellam,  no kids ani over acting chestharu , at late age they realize no thella pilla falling for our Karri face , India velli 35 years old brown girl ni cheskoni , same cycle koncham late ga start chestharu..

[DesiPokiri]

1 hour ago, Rone123 said:

Yes, those are exceptions. Norm and exceptions ki difference gurthinchali. Asalu pillalu waste ane valaku nenu ichina answer,  biological problems etc anevi exceptions.

Exceptions thiskuvachi core argument ni mislead cheyavadhu,

 

Asalu kids ee life lo purpose ani feel avtunnava nuvvu?
 

Lekapothe anthaminchi emi podavaleka life lo adhe pedha purpose and accomplishment la feel avtunnava? 

[BommaliNinnodhala]

Ego is the trap between any relation— wife and husband lo atleast one person ego pakkana pedthe trap breaks — 

[DesiPokiri]

10 minutes ago, Pandubabu said:

koncham early ga US vachina , MS cheyadaniki vachina mana lanti batch lu , manaku life antha thelisipoindhi no pelli ,no Pellam,  no kids ani over acting chestharu , at late age they realize no thella pilla falling for our Karri face , India velli 35 years old brown girl ni cheskoni , same cycle koncham late ga start chestharu..

Marriage is good I agree as you are searching for your life partner who can travel with your during your difficulties and share your happiness. Kids are a different topic, one can have a peaceful life without kids too 

[Rone123]

30 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Asalu kids ee life lo purpose ani feel avtunnava nuvvu?
 

Lekapothe anthaminchi emi podavaleka life lo adhe pedha purpose and accomplishment la feel avtunnava? 

Yuga yugaluga vunna system adi, danni Nuvu okadivo, inko 10 members kindle chesthe system ki em loss vundadu. Marry, have kids, take responsibility, enjoy. Intakannna pikedi emiledu. Of course kondaru other route lo great avachu, but andaru ala avaleruga. 
 

Thinadam, tiragadam, tagadam is better life than kids ani blanket statements ekado kalidi😂

[DesiPokiri]

4 minutes ago, Rone123 said:

Yuga yugaluga vunna system adi, danni Nuvu okadivo, inko 10 members kindle chesthe system ki em loss vundadu. Marry, have kids, take responsibility, enjoy. Intakannna pikedi emiledu. Of course kondaru other route lo great avachu, but andaru ala avaleruga. 
 

Thinadam, tiragadam, tagadam is better life than kids ani blanket statements ekado kalidi😂

Evari life vadidhi uncle, andaru née lage kids kanesi inka peekesam anukoleru ga, some enjoy world travelling, some enjoy adopting, some hate kids and like to live life on their own terms and hire a nurse at the end. Kids kante better ee nurse lu.

but you still didn’t answer that why you feel kids is the sole purpose of life in world, coz you don’t have one 

[Manishican]

What is correct or wrong? It daal depends on one's perspective. Do whatever makes you happy. We are not even a speck in this universe.

[psycopk]

6 hours ago, Kakynada said:

generation change brother,,, inka nuvvu ye age lo unnavo,,, 

i am talking about current gen kids,,, especially ones raised in foreign countries, i have seen cases myself where kids got job, next day out of house, USA lo 

India lo matram untunara enti??

[Kakynada]

20 minutes ago, psycopk said:

India lo matram untunara enti??

hmm undaru, but konchem ina hopes untayi, why many desi uncles sedn their kids to india after middle school in USA ? 

middle school tarvatha estart asalina sh1t in USA, nothing to be blamed its the culture, for instance high school lo tarvatha if they talk to their friends that they're living with parents its a shame for them kind of feeling, basic ga rekkalu vachaka inilo undadu, this is something that desi or any kids feel pressure of, ante samajaniki answer cheppukovali why still saying with parents after high school? 

Now your point, india lo kids ila untara ?high school do they feel pressure that they have to go out of home ? 

What i am sayin is konchem difference untadi, US and India when rasing kids right, ? Like food, BF/GF culture, bad kids ithey smoke dope ? inka bad kids ithey drink, drugs etc etc, 

My friend who came US 94 lo, raised his 2 sons US lo, after college each earnings 135k, never found job close to home, they went away and working some other states, far from mom dad,  sometime they call and text anthe... 

[Thokkalee]

To each their own.. yevadiki nachindi vadu cheyadame… if you want to be single, convince your parents.. just don’t marry someone for the sake of parents and ruin their life.. 

If you are married and have kids, that doesn’t mean you have to stop caring for yourself (exercise/grooming etc).. or stop going on trips.. 

[huma]

On 5/14/2022 at 8:47 AM, DesiPokiri said:

Pillalni kani nee life lo purpose fulfill aindhani feel avtunnava? 
What is that purpose and who decides that purpose? Did god tell you to have kids for a purpose? 

Rone123 gadini baaga 10gav