My dear Indian males, who were virgin until marriage while your partner wasn't, how did you get over the regret of not losing it before marriage?

[surfroshan]

I was recently talking to this girl(A) and we both like each other. She has had past relationships while I don't have any..I was busy chasing career. We are still in very initial stages of talking and haven't met in person yet.

Now as I get closer towards marriage and stuff, I hate myself for not dating and losing my virginity before.

How do I get over this regret?(Remember: I'm not at all disrespecting her for her past or anything. The regret is just on my side and trying to fix it). Sometimes this regret is very strong and I try to vent it out on things like aggressive driving. Today I was close enough to have an accident twice.

As soon as we both started talking, one of my other friend(B) is asking to spend time together on a evening(her message sounds more than spending time). I said no, right away as I have told the girl A that we both liking each other. If I go meet B, is it considered as cheating?

Please help..I'm not able to focus on work and not able to sleep.

[dallas_amaravathi]

Simple just duck and dump A and B marry C

[dallas_amaravathi]

Eee kaalam lo kooda love lovada antadendi ee erri fookodu

[kiran1012]

1 hour ago, surfroshan said:

I was recently talking to this girl(A) and we both like each other. She has had past relationships while I don't have any..I was busy chasing career. We are still in very initial stages of talking and haven't met in person yet.

Now as I get closer towards marriage and stuff, I hate myself for not dating and losing my virginity before.

How do I get over this regret?(Remember: I'm not at all disrespecting her for her past or anything. The regret is just on my side and trying to fix it). Sometimes this regret is very strong and I try to vent it out on things like aggressive driving. Today I was close enough to have an accident twice.

As soon as we both started talking, one of my other friend(B) is asking to spend time together on a evening(her message sounds more than spending time). I said no, right away as I have told the girl A that we both liking each other. If I go meet B, is it considered as cheating?

Please help..I'm not able to focus on work and not able to sleep.

Nee experience aa or lifted situation from other forum?

[surfroshan]

10 minutes ago, kiran1012 said:

Nee experience aa or lifted situation from other forum?

lifted

[kiran1012]

1 hour ago, surfroshan said:

I was recently talking to this girl(A) and we both like each other. She has had past relationships while I don't have any..I was busy chasing career. We are still in very initial stages of talking and haven't met in person yet.

Now as I get closer towards marriage and stuff, I hate myself for not dating and losing my virginity before.

How do I get over this regret?(Remember: I'm not at all disrespecting her for her past or anything. The regret is just on my side and trying to fix it). Sometimes this regret is very strong and I try to vent it out on things like aggressive driving. Today I was close enough to have an accident twice.

As soon as we both started talking, one of my other friend(B) is asking to spend time together on a evening(her message sounds more than spending time). I said no, right away as I have told the girl A that we both liking each other. If I go meet B, is it considered as cheating?

Please help..I'm not able to focus on work and not able to sleep.

Virginity gurunchi intha ekkuva feel ithe….ippudu vadu pelli chesukuna future lo iddaru kalisi undadam kastame. Unless he changes his mindset.

 

[surfroshan]

5 minutes ago, kiran1012 said:

Virginity gurunchi intha ekkuva feel ithe….ippudu vadu pelli chesukuna future lo iddaru kalisi undadam kastame. Unless he changes his mindset.

 

being a virgin important kada bro evaritho tirigina ammayni veedenduku cheskovali pelliki mundu cheste pelli tarvata cheyyadani guarantee enti

[surfroshan]

6 minutes ago, kiran1012 said:

Virginity gurunchi intha ekkuva feel ithe….ippudu vadu pelli chesukuna future lo iddaru kalisi undadam kastame. Unless he changes his mindset.

 

ive seen men who married women with previous affairs but i dont have respect for that kind of men tbh

[kiran1012]

5 minutes ago, surfroshan said:

being a virgin important kada bro evaritho tirigina ammayni veedenduku cheskovali pelliki mundu cheste pelli tarvata cheyyadani guarantee enti

Andharu ammayilu past relationship enduku cheptaru, unfortunately she told him. 

 sex kante emotional ga too much attached to ex is bigger concern.

[shaktimaan]

15 minutes ago, surfroshan said:

being a virgin important kada bro evaritho tirigina ammayni veedenduku cheskovali pelliki mundu cheste pelli tarvata cheyyadani guarantee enti

great thinking

[surfroshan]

3 minutes ago, shaktimaan said:

great thinking

haha r u mocking me or praising me?

[shaktimaan]

1 minute ago, surfroshan said:

haha r u mocking me or praising me?

praising anukunnav ante inka great thinking

[surfroshan]

4 minutes ago, shaktimaan said:

praising anukunnav ante inka great thinking

evari interest valladhi go with what u feel right good day my man

[shaktimaan]

Just now, surfroshan said:

evari interest valladhi go with what u feel right good day my man

you do you brother 🖖

[surfroshan]

Just now, shaktimaan said:

you do you brother 🖖

yea same to you 🤙