My dear Indian males, who were virgin until marriage while your partner wasn't, how did you get over the regret of not losing it before marriage?

[Konebhar6]

1 hour ago, surfroshan said:

being a virgin important kada bro evaritho tirigina ammayni veedenduku cheskovali pelliki mundu cheste pelli tarvata cheyyadani guarantee enti

Tiragatam veeru .... relationship/love veeru. 

Tirigee emmayilu...past affiars gurinchi chepparu ... 

Ammayi past relationship gurinchi cheppindi antee good. Manchi ammayi ayithe chalu. compatibility with that person is important. If both guy and girl like each other virginity is not important. Like @kiran1012 said its a bigger problem if she is emotionally connected to ex.

Mind set has to change. If someone cannot change mindset which is true in 99.9% cases, its better they do get married to a virgin or a girl who does not share her past relationships (if she had)... That way both are happy. 

[Paamu]

1 hour ago, surfroshan said:

being a virgin important kada bro evaritho tirigina ammayni veedenduku cheskovali pelliki mundu cheste pelli tarvata cheyyadani guarantee enti

No guarantee to anything uncle. Pelliki mundu clean undi pelli ayyaka affairs pettukuntaru both (all) genders. 

[surfroshan]

4 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Tiragatam veeru .... relationship/love veeru. 

Tirigee emmayilu...past affiars gurinchi chepparu ... 

Ammayi past relationship gurinchi cheppindi antee good. Manchi ammayi ayithe chalu. compatibility with that person is important. If both guy and girl like each other virginity is not important. Like @kiran1012 said its a bigger problem if she is emotionally connected to ex.

Mind set has to change. If someone cannot change mindset which is true in 99.9% cases, its better they do get married to a virgin or a girl who does not share her past relationships (if she had)... That way both are happy. 

avnu neti sanghika prasara madyamala valla ibbandulu inka ekkuvayinayi meeta nokkithe chalu andamaina yuvathi yuvakalu vichalavidiga labyamauthunnaru manasu shariralani panchukunenduku 

[surfroshan]

1 minute ago, Paamu said:

No guarantee to anything uncle. Pelliki mundu clean undi pelli ayyaka affairs pettukuntaru both (all) genders. 

andhukane manchi ammayini chakkaga vethukkuni chesukovali pelli pelli anedhi rendaksharala maate kaadhu sumi moodu mulla bandham kudanu

[Raja_Returns]

3 hours ago, surfroshan said:

I was recently talking to this girl(A) and we both like each other. She has had past relationships while I don't have any..I was busy chasing career. We are still in very initial stages of talking and haven't met in person yet.

Now as I get closer towards marriage and stuff, I hate myself for not dating and losing my virginity before.

How do I get over this regret?(Remember: I'm not at all disrespecting her for her past or anything. The regret is just on my side and trying to fix it). Sometimes this regret is very strong and I try to vent it out on things like aggressive driving. Today I was close enough to have an accident twice.

As soon as we both started talking, one of my other friend(B) is asking to spend time together on a evening(her message sounds more than spending time). I said no, right away as I have told the girl A that we both liking each other. If I go meet B, is it considered as cheating?

Please help..I'm not able to focus on work and not able to sleep.

Late cheyakunda massage parlor ki velli Sheelam pogottuko.

malli emina prob ayete @Sucker ni tag cheyaku

[kevinUsa]

12 minutes ago, Raja_Returns said:

Late cheyakunda massage parlor ki velli Sheelam pogottuko.

malli emina prob ayete @Sucker ni tag cheyaku

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[Konebhar6]

I used to visit my friends place and he used to take me to a bachelors adda for playing cards (timepass ones not professional).. They used to talk a lot about massage parlours ... etc etc. Full kathalu.. Not sure how much they did as they were scared of raids. One day a guy from india came for 3 weeks stay. He heard these stories, understood the opportunity, went to massage parlour, struck a deal, and got the girl from massage parlor to apartment when we were playing cards. A legend

 

[surfroshan]

5 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

I used to visit my friends place and he used to take me to a bachelors adda for playing cards (timepass ones not professional).. They used to talk a lot about massage parlours ... etc etc. Full kathalu.. Not sure how much they did as they were scared of raids. One day a guy from india came for 3 weeks stay. He heard these stories, understood the opportunity, went to massage parlour, struck a deal, and got the girl from massage parlor to apartment when we were playing cards. A legend

 

What?? Orgy???

[Konebhar6]

11 minutes ago, surfroshan said:

What?? Orgy???

Haha .. Nice thought. 2 Bedroom apartment. We were playing cards in hall and went out to give some space. It was a shocking moment for everyone as they never thought of what he did. They were scared to go to Parlor. 

[Kakynada]

1 hour ago, surfroshan said:

andhukane manchi ammayini chakkaga vethukkuni chesukovali pelli pelli anedhi rendaksharala maate kaadhu sumi moodu mulla bandham kudanu

chinnapudu sandi choosina ammiyi or chootala pilla ithey ne we will know ammy pure background, dating for 3-4 years another choice to know girl type good or bad

if not there is no other way anna to know good girl or bad 

[kiran1012]

16 minutes ago, Kakynada said:

chinnapudu sandi choosina ammiyi or chootala pilla ithey ne we will know ammy pure background, dating for 3-4 years another choice to know girl type good or bad

if not there is no other way anna to know good girl or bad 

Dating is a good choice to check compatibility and to know the likable and not so likable things of each.

[pavanjagan]

Live in relationship but don't commit and exit when you get bored

[Kakynada]

16 minutes ago, kiran1012 said:

Dating is a good choice to check compatibility and to know the likable and not so likable things of each.

ok