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[kevinUsa]

#relationadvice 

I am really curious how are people managing to stay with same partner for their whole life after marriage ? I am 25M , started dating an american from past 5 months but still whenever i saw another beautiful girl i am getting attracted to her , in the past i have an indian girl friend back then  i though may be americans are beautiful than indians thats why i am getting  attracted ( not all but some of them , i am not generalising here ) . But now my girlfriend is beautiful and she is doctor but still i am attracted to other girls, i am afraid i might cheat her in future . Is this feeling same for all mem or its just me ? Please, i need serious advices  . My co-workers  who are older than me and married they always go to strip clubs atleast twice a month and whenever i go to strip clubs with friends i see most of the customers are middle aged indians who are married, is it not technically cheating ?

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[Konebhar6]

5 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

#relationadvice 

I am really curious how are people managing to stay with same partner for their whole life after marriage ? I am 25M , started dating an american from past 5 months but still whenever i saw another beautiful girl i am getting attracted to her , in the past i have an indian girl friend back then  i though may be americans are beautiful than indians thats why i am getting  attracted ( not all but some of them , i am not generalising here ) . But now my girlfriend is beautiful and she is doctor but still i am attracted to other girls, i am afraid i might cheat her in future . Is this feeling same for all mem or its just me ? Please, i need serious advices  . My co-workers  who are older than me and married they always go to strip clubs atleast twice a month and whenever i go to strip clubs with friends i see most of the customers are middle aged indians who are married, is it not technically cheating ?

I had same feeling when I was 25 and later realized pretty much every man is like this. Its normal. When you find the right person (not just beauty wise) compatible with you, it will be different (for a while  )

Finally cheating or not cheating and upto what extent, comes down to how you are as a person. Konta mandi Mind lo, konta mandi physical gaa cheat chestaru... Depends on whether you consider going to a strip club, getting a massage with happy ending is considered cheating ... 

[baku_keku]

2 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

I had same feeling when I was 25 and later realized pretty much every man is like this. Its normal. When you find the right person (not just beauty wise) compatible with you, it will be different (for a while  )

Finally cheating or not cheating and upto what extent, comes down to how you are as a person. Konta mandi Mind lo, konta mandi physical gaa cheat chestaru... Depends on whether you consider going to a strip club, getting a massage with happy ending is considered cheating ... 

True ,

Men are pigs.. so you will be same at some point.

only this how far you can control and establish boundaries...

mind lo may be tough to control and establish boundary.. but physical ga atlest ..keep yourself in limits