Idaru same gender(gals) ani feeling ?

[beerboy17]

kids idaru same gender (gals) ani evaraina anukunnara ? i would raise them here in US only,  Just trying to understand will there be any difficulties esp if they are gals...emotionally or financially ?

 if this stupid sound absurd or hurts anyone..

[HER00]

Asalu em aduguthunnav?

[beerboy17]

Just now, HER00 said:

Asalu em aduguthunnav?

generally everyone prefer to have a boy and gal kada.. so incase ala avvakunta same gender (gals) aithey ani na question...

[JUST444FUN]

13 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

kids idaru same gender (gals) ani evaraina anukunnara ? i would raise them here in US only,  Just trying to understand will there be any difficulties esp if they are gals...emotionally or financially ?

 if this stupid sound absurd or hurts anyone..

Eeddaru girls unna okay kani 2 boys unnte very dangerous 

[JANASENA]

1 minute ago, JUST444FUN said:

Eeddaru girls unna okay kani 2 boys unnte very dangerous 

2 boys ela dangerous bro?

[JUST444FUN]

1 minute ago, JANASENA said:

2 boys ela dangerous bro?

If you are financially well of no problem . Otherwise they compare it to other parents and will ask you  Em pekav nuvvu.

daughter always takes care of her parents emotionally. That’s all you need in last stage.

 

[Kootami]

28 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

kids idaru same gender (gals) ani evaraina anukunnara ? i would raise them here in US only,  Just trying to understand will there be any difficulties esp if they are gals...emotionally or financially ?

 if this stupid sound absurd or hurts anyone..

three unna no diff vayya.  financially you have to plan and adjust your needs anthey . It doesnt matter boys or girls here. for me girls ayhtene istam, later life lo vallu vachinpovadamand they take care more . ee kalam lo boys ki kudaratledu as everybody is living their own life and they dont talk with parents as often as girls do.

 

moreover ekkada regardless of gender both will be independent

[evadkitelsu]

19 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

generally everyone prefer to have a boy and gal kada.. so incase ala avvakunta same gender (gals) aithey ani na question...

do you have a choice of how to make bro ?

[HugoStrange]

21 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

kids idaru same gender (gals) ani evaraina anukunnara ? i would raise them here in US only,  Just trying to understand will there be any difficulties esp if they are gals...emotionally or financially ?

 if this stupid sound absurd or hurts anyone..

neku kids unnara kaka? Kids gender is not a choice. Eddaru girls ee pudithe nuvu chesedi em ledu. You will love them regardless if they are boy or girl. My brother has both girls and he says he loves having both girls. US lo undi em matladuthunnav kaka, ee kalam lo girls can have financial independence. Financially girls ki konni ekkuva karchulu untai kani but they are worth it. You will have more fun moments in ur life to remember. Nee sthomatha entha unte antha baga penchuthav

[Kootami]

47 minutes ago, JUST444FUN said:

Eeddaru girls unna okay kani 2 boys unnte very dangerous 

motham three boys tho padali - from wife's perspective . one her mother-in-law's boy and two of her own. general ga ammayelu koncham tondaraga understand cheskuntaru and konchem lo konchem help chestaru oka age vachaka . ade boys aythey gola gola untadi illantha , vadu teenage vachaka vadi gola vadide....lol

[JANASENA]

12 minutes ago, JUST444FUN said:

If you are financially well of no problem . Otherwise they compare it to other parents and will ask you  Em pekav nuvvu.

daughter always takes care of her parents emotionally. That’s all you need in last stage.

 

[geeni83]

One boy 1 girl kante 2 boys or 2 girls untam better na opinion lo.. 2 boys gel well and 2 daughters gel well.. but not 1 boy and 1 girl.. both will have 2 different worlds . And also financially 2 same gender kids unte financially very little thakkuva avachu penchatam lo... ( accessories, clothes, jewelry can be shared between 2 )..

 

[beerboy17]

6 minutes ago, evadkitelsu said:

do you have a choice of how to make bro ?

i am not taking about choice.. do we have to plan their future differently.. financially ?

[Spartan]

anna ye generation lo bratukutunnav 

 

[beerboy17]

Just now, Spartan said:

anna ye generation lo bratukutunnav 

 

i know anna.. kani i have few friends here in US , they had thier first daughter now they are planning and they are desperate for boy , they are taking every precaution like healthy lifestyle just to get the boy, so i was thinking why are they so deperate .. i know every individual has their own opinion anna... i have another couple who had 2 boys and they are desperate for a gal... so why ppl are thinking this way  got triggered me yesterday