Idaru same gender(gals) ani feeling ?

[Spartan]

Just now, beerboy17 said:

i know anna.. kani i have few friends here in US , they had thier first daughter now they are planning and they are desperate for boy , they are taking every precaution like healthy lifestyle just to get the boy, so i was thinking why are they so deperate .. i know every individual has their own opinion anna... i have another couple who had 2 boys and they are desperate for a gal... so why ppl are thinking this way  got triggered me yesterday   

just perspective anna

there will be no difference in raising any child

no pros or cons either way

valla feeling might be out of socitiel norms and family pressure nothing more than that

useless topic to spend time on it mentally

[Kootami]

8 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

i know anna.. kani i have few friends here in US , they had thier first daughter now they are planning and they are desperate for boy , they are taking every precaution like healthy lifestyle just to get the boy, so i was thinking why are they so deperate .. i know every individual has their own opinion anna... i have another couple who had 2 boys and they are desperate for a gal... so why ppl are thinking this way  got triggered me yesterday   

idi mostly india lo parents forcing and often they say tammudu vastey bagundu or tammude vastadu or vamsham ekkadithone end avvodu - this is the most disturbing of all vayya.

[Barney_Stinson]

imo 

evarina okate

50% parenting

35% pillala nature

15% fate 

i just made these up😀

[johnydanylee]

1 hour ago, JUST444FUN said:

If you are financially well of no problem . Otherwise they compare it to other parents and will ask you  Em pekav nuvvu.

daughter always takes care of her parents emotionally. That’s all you need in last stage.

 

Thokkale

Inka ye yugam lo unnaru ra babu 

[Newporagadu]

2 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

kids idaru same gender (gals) ani evaraina anukunnara ? i would raise them here in US only,  Just trying to understand will there be any difficulties esp if they are gals...emotionally or financially ?

 if this stupid sound absurd or hurts anyone..

I know many couples vallaki girls vunnaru they think US is safe ani .. kani ekkada vunde lolli ekkada vunnayi …

 

 

as parent give them healthy habits and life style and teach them how to be confident in every situation.. doesn’t matter Adhi girl la ledha boy .. teach them anthey 

[beerboy17]

6 minutes ago, Newporagadu said:

I know many couples vallaki girls vunnaru they think US is safe ani .. kani ekkada vunde lolli ekkada vunnayi …

 

 

as parent give them healthy habits and life style and teach them how to be confident in every situation.. doesn’t matter Adhi girl la ledha boy .. teach them anthey 

how to build confidence in them ? any tips suggestions bro

[beerboy17]

8 minutes ago, Newporagadu said:

I know many couples vallaki girls vunnaru they think US is safe ani .. kani ekkada vunde lolli ekkada vunnayi …

 

 

as parent give them healthy habits and life style and teach them how to be confident in every situation.. doesn’t matter Adhi girl la ledha boy .. teach them anthey 

atleast i feel US is better and safe bro imo... 

[shaktimaan]

1 hour ago, beerboy17 said:

i know anna.. kani i have few friends here in US , they had thier first daughter now they are planning and they are desperate for boy , they are taking every precaution like healthy lifestyle just to get the boy, so i was thinking why are they so deperate .. i know every individual has their own opinion anna... i have another couple who had 2 boys and they are desperate for a gal... so why ppl are thinking this way  got triggered me yesterday   

stay away from them

[Kootami]

19 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

how to build confidence in them ? any tips suggestions bro

Deniki confidence vayya ? 

[Konebhar6]

3 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

kids idaru same gender (gals) ani evaraina anukunnara ? i would raise them here in US only,  Just trying to understand will there be any difficulties esp if they are gals...emotionally or financially ?

 if this stupid sound absurd or hurts anyone..

2 girls or 2 boys, usually are very close or don't talk to each other. Extreme cases chusa nenu. 

1 girl 1 boy, mostly good relationship. Also they make better partners as they see the other gender at home. Girls knows how boys are and vice versa.

[Konebhar6]

53 minutes ago, beerboy17 said:

how to build confidence in them ? any tips suggestions bro

• Let them make their own decisions. Do not force your opinions on them from childhood.
• Let them pick their own clothes, let them eat on their own, let them do their chores from an early age. 
• When they do something wrong, listen to their perspective and tell them its OK and explain where they went wrong. 
• When they are running fast or going around in a store (small kids) do not say "padipothav, jagratta" or "pakkane undu lekapothe tappi pothav". Let them fall, let them make their own mistakes. They learn more and fast from their mistakes. Ala ani electric plug lo velu pedtha ani ante pirra meeda okkati veyyi. So every situation is different.
• Tell them Chandamama or other Moral stories and at the end ask what they have learnt. After you listen tell them what the moral is.
• Introduce strong characters to them via books or documentaries to inspire them.

[Pavanonline]

3 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

they are taking every precaution like healthy lifestyle just to get the boy

[Kakynada]

13 hours ago, beerboy17 said:

i know anna.. kani i have few friends here in US , they had thier first daughter now they are planning and they are desperate for boy , they are taking every precaution like healthy lifestyle just to get the boy, so i was thinking why are they so deperate .. i know every individual has their own opinion anna... i have another couple who had 2 boys and they are desperate for a gal... so why ppl are thinking this way  got triggered me yesterday   

healthy life style to get boy aaa 

[geeni83]

1 hour ago, Kakynada said:

healthy life style to get boy aaa 

Exactly nenu kuda same feel ayyaa daughters unna parents junk food tinnattaa? 🤓 lol