Suicide

[Konebhar6]

Meera antony - Vijay antony's kid committed suicide. She is in 12th grade and probably did this coz of stress of studies. Sad 

Parents have to keep an eye on the kid and keep asking how they are feeling. Talk to them if they are stressed out.

[ChandrannaChippa]

Just now, Konebhar6 said:

Meera antony - Vijay antony's kid committed suicide. She is in 12th grade and probably did this coz of stress of studies. Sad 

Parents have to keep an eye on the kid and keep asking how they are feeling. Talk to them if they are stressed out.

I don't trust the parents. 
if the small girl feels her parents can understand her pain she probably wouldn't take this step. 
 

i think she felt helpless. 

[Konebhar6]

5 minutes ago, ChandrannaChippa said:

I don't trust the parents. 
if the small girl feels her parents can understand her pain she probably wouldn't take this step. 
 

i think she felt helpless. 

Not sure, but it could be true. A lot of cases, parents put pressure on kids. Its changing now. second of all if kids are pressurized at schools, parents have to keep an eye. 

In studies, efforts are important that results. Not every kid has same intelligence. 

[Bendapudi_english]

Just now, Konebhar6 said:

Not sure, but it could be true. A lot of cases, parents put pressure on kids. Its changing now. second of all if kids are pressurized at schools, parents have to keep an eye. 

In studies, efforts are important that results. Not every kid has same intelligence. 

Marks ravatame important kadhu anna, ma school lo studies lo average guys are more successful than merit guys.

[dasari4kntr]

14 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Meera antony - Vijay antony's kid committed suicide. She is in 12th grade and probably did this coz of stress of studies. Sad 

Parents have to keep an eye on the kid and keep asking how they are feeling. Talk to them if they are stressed out.

stress..levels alane vuntayi…

naa pg time lo …naaku student loan ichhina bank manager ichhina  stress debbaki naaku kooda alanti thoughts vachhai appatlo…

[Midnightsun]

Blockages in energy chakras are real

some have blockage in heart chakra..

some have it in root chakra,,, financial problems,,

Some have it blocked by child sex abuse..

all these lead to ptsd aftr adolescene.. depression etc

[reality]

peers and social media spoil the current generation kids, for the most part… its critical now more than ever that parents should behave like friends to kids and openly discuss sensitive topics… nullify the ill-effects of peer-stupidity by engaging them in extracurricular activities, encouraging them to flourish in their innate interests.

[Konebhar6]

11 minutes ago, Bendapudi_english said:

Marks ravatame important kadhu anna, ma school lo studies lo average guys are more successful than merit guys.

Its very true. I have found ppl with good communication/collaborative skills and emotionally smart get more successful.  

I keep telling my kids the same when I go for a walk with them or enjoying an icecream at a local diary farm. I keep asking how they are feeling in school. Even though we put no pressure on kids, we still see that there is peer pressure. So i tell them do only what you are interested in and do it with full sincerity. 

My kid procrastinates a lot. She is smart enough to understand that its stopping from reaching her potential. Because I am very easy going with her, she tells that to me. I just tell her you know the problem, put a solution. I don't yell at her or use this in any other arguments. 

[Konebhar6]

13 minutes ago, Midnightsun said:

Blockages in energy chakras are real

some have blockage in heart chakra..

some have it in root chakra,,, financial problems,,

Some have it blocked by child sex abuse..

all these lead to ptsd aftr adolescene.. depression etc

Are blockages in heart chakra and root chakra by birth? Are these physical in nature or soul related? Throw some light on chakra as well. 

[Midnightsun]

1 minute ago, Konebhar6 said:

Are blockages in heart chakra and root chakra by birth? Are these physical in nature or soul related? Throw some light on chakra as well. 

I have limited knowledge .. 

there is more information .. its another dimension thing outside intellect

[Tryad]

7 minutes ago, reality said:

peers and social media spoil the current generation kids, for the most part… its critical now more than ever that parents should behave like friends to kids and openly discuss sensitive topics… nullify the ill-effects of peer-stupidity by engaging them in extracurricular activities, encouraging them to flourish in their innate interests.

nuvvokadivi.. parents kay em telidu.. telusukovatam interest ledhu.

vaallem free ga maatladthaaru kids tho. lite. most parents are arrogant and think they know what's better for their kids.

depression ki clinical reasons kooda untaay. manam judge enduku cheyyatam.

[Tryad]

Just now, Midnightsun said:

I have limited knowledge .. 

there is more information .. its another dimension thing outside intellect

ikkada kooda kyamedy chestunnav choodu

[Midnightsun]

Just now, Tryad said:

ikkada kooda kyamedy chestunnav choodu

Comedy endi saami.,

memory intellect ki teliyanivi unnai,,, naku telvadu 

[Konebhar6]

19 minutes ago, dasari4kntr said:

stress..levels alane vuntayi…

naa pg time lo …naaku student loan ichhina bank manager ichhina  stress debbaki naaku kooda alanti thoughts vachhai appatlo…

Absolutely agree. That's y parents have to keep checking with kids on their stress levels.

I typically know this with my kids food habits, moods, change in behavior, getting annoyed easily, yelling at moms, etc. I typically take her to her fav food place and have a conversation.   

[reality]

1 minute ago, Tryad said:

nuvvokadivi.. parents kay em telidu.. telusukovatam interest ledhu.

vaallem free ga maatladthaaru kids tho. lite. most parents are arrogant and think they know what's better for their kids.

depression ki clinical reasons kooda untaay. manam judge enduku cheyyatam.

arrogant ga unte kudaradhu… thats why I said, behave like friends. Chala poisonous ga unnaru peers iyyalrepu…