Meeku Ila helpless & hopeless ga anipistunda

[riashli]

11 minutes ago, jalsa01 said:

if its money related lite tesko, its the least you should be worried and you can stand for them if needed. Health ite be prepared for anything as they are getting old nothing in our hands personal gateskoni em use undadhu..

Try to enjoy this phase.. I think you are forgetting this good part..

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

[nokia123]

35 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Nuvvu student aa? Ee letha age lo ee kashtalu emiti? 

[Truth_Holds]

42 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Tallitandrula badyata pillala andari meedha untundhi kadha.

Looks like mee anna vadina ki mee tallitandrula badyata okkarey teesukovadam  istam lenattu undhi.

 

[usetime63]

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[riashli]

23 minutes ago, nokia123 said:

Nuvvu student aa? Ee letha age lo ee kashtalu emiti? 

Asst prof 

[jalsa01]

55 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Nu cheppina family prathi intlo untundi.. may be indi neeku kotha kavochu.. as long as your bro is on your parents side you keep quite and just listen!! Remember they are now your extended family.  Vallani kalisi undochu ani cheppu if they are living together, you can support financially if needed peace of mind untundi vallaki..

Srry Office issues are the least thing I bother abt and dont wanna listen at all.. edi kakapote inko company ede kaka pote stay at home unti you find a suitable position...

[johnydanylee]

35 minutes ago, riashli said:

Asst prof 

Aithe try to move to other institutions in same city.. Don't relocate

[DalchanChekka]

2 hours ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Work place lo evarni pattinchukoku. Diplomatic ga undu and don’t consider anyone as close friends. Form your support system outside work. Small ladies group form cheskondi when you can meet occasionally for lunches or go to spas, some activities to do together. 
Ask your family to deal their godavalu themselves. When you have no energy yourself, it can get really overwhelming to hear other people’s problems. As an overly empathetic person I can totally relate to this. Though it might feel selfish, you need to put yourself first and learn to say no.

Try to divide responsibilities at home as well. Self care is not selfishness.

[Thokkalee]

2 hours ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi.

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Think of your problems as a third person.. or even from your husband’s perspective.. you will have more clarity on how to handle.. be happy that you have a good husband and family.. 

just listen to your parents problems and don’t take sides.. may be they are using you to vent out their frustrations.. if they are living together, it is tough to go through these kind of issues for them.. you have to appreciate your brother for taking care.. 

office lo politics chala common.. alanti rumors  raakunda chusko.. try not to be close with the director in the public.. as the director has the habit of having affairs with colleagues at work place, it is common for everyone to suspect you as well.. 

how can you not have any friends? School or college or outside evaro okaru close friends untaaru kadaa… 

[leche]

19 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

Work place lo evarni pattinchukoku. Diplomatic ga undu and don’t consider anyone as close friends. Form your support system outside work. Small ladies group form cheskondi when you can meet occasionally for lunches or go to spas, some activities to do together. 
Ask your family to deal their godavalu themselves. When you have no energy yourself, it can get really overwhelming to hear other people’s problems. As an overly empathetic person I can totally relate to this. Though it might feel selfish, you need to put yourself first and learn to say no.

Try to divide responsibilities at home as well. Self care is not selfishness.

@riashli please follow. The most valuable advice ever period

[JavaBava]

3 hours ago, riashli said:

Problems amma vallave, I have no issues in my marriage.   Also lot of unhealthy competition at work. I have no friends, anduke expressing here

Adi asalu problem .. having no social life makes everything else worse. 

[JavaBava]

2 hours ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Idi inkoti. Vini vadileyali. Solve cheyyali anukovadam moorkhatvam ee issues chachedaka untay

[Anta Assamey]

[JavaBava]

2 hours ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

No one can stop gossips. We can only work hard and answer them with astounding success. 

[AryanAjay]

3 hours ago, riashli said:

Problems amma vallave, I have no issues in my marriage.   Also lot of unhealthy competition at work. I have no friends, anduke expressing here

kastalu manchollake ostai akka.. it will pass..