Meeku Ila helpless & hopeless ga anipistunda

[kevinUsa]

Vent it on your husband 

[Balibabu]

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[perugu_vada]

Change the job work related antunav kabatti .. work is never beyond and above one’s peacefulness , especially when u are financially well settled 

bring ur parents to u for a month or so, so that mi brother family ki konchem rest and privacy ostundi .. if u are worried about them. 

[sri_sri999]

7 hours ago, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhacFEUG__w

[sri_sri999]

On 9/22/2023 at 9:28 AM, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

Edi ekkado chadiva srikrishnudini okaru ee question adigaru bagà success ayyi Happy ga vunnavadiki and baga kastalalo vundi chanipodamannukunee vaadiki eddarini cool chesadaniki okka padam lo cheppamante ayana cheppindi " Nothing last forever" if you are lucky enjoy, if you are unlucky wait for your turn nothing long forever

[Sanjiv]

12 hours ago, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

Feel happy that you are better than many less fortunate people (like the handicapped ones).

Always put a SMILE (even if it is a plastic smile) on your face - it will change the world around you forever! You will look warm, friendly, become more approachable and fun to be around.

[perugu_vada]

27 minutes ago, sri_sri999 said:

Edi ekkado chadiva srikrishnudini okaru ee question adigaru bagà success ayyi Happy ga vunnavadiki and baga kastalalo vundi chanipodamannukunee vaadiki eddarini cool chesadaniki okka padam lo cheppamante ayana cheppindi " Nothing last longer' if you are lucky enjoy, if you are unlucky wait for your turn nothing long longer

[Konebhar6]

12 hours ago, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

I feel you. Its the problem with growing up and having to take decisions in life. Problems are there in everyone's life and how you handle them defines you. 

I let people (closed ones) do what they want to and be there in both their success and failure. There are times you feel helpless coz of situation with closed ones. If there is something I can do, I will do. Else time is the solution. 

If I feel frustrated, I go for a hike/walk/gym alone and clear my mind. My mom/sister are very strong emotionally. I talk to them and clear my mind. They may not help but they listen well and give some pointers if possible. If the problem is them, then I keep it to myself and evaluate what I can/cannot do with the focus on not hurting them. 

[Konebhar6]

11 hours ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

Looks like you are second guessing yourself about your achievements at work. You don't need anyone's validation. Understand, you cannot make everyone happy. Its how human's nature works. When we don't get what we want (lets say a promotion) we try to undermine the achievements of others and satisfy ego. As long as you and your dear ones know you did nothing wrong to get a promotion, don't care what others think. I know its easy to say but hard to ignore. But you don't have control over what they think. The more you try to prove them wrong, the more they think you did it.

Family issues are tough. My mom complains about me to my sister and abt sis to me. My sister complains abt mom to me and abt me to mom. I complain abt mom to sister and abt sister to my mom. We all laugh about it and openly say it. Its just listening to their frustrations, understanding POV and move on. 

If you and your husband lived with your in-laws in india and your brother lives in US, you would be calling him daily to complain about the struggles and problems. Dont take things to heart. Listen to them and see what you can do. I dont think you can solve their problems. Only they can solve their problems. If possible explain that to them.

[venky7]

i dont think you will listen to anyone in your life. nijamga vini unte me husband definitely manchi points cheppe untaru, ikkada janalu cheppinattu.

so first change that attitude rest all will fall in place.

you have to trust someone atleast when things not working- this applies to people like you who have little confidence about themself and in decision making.

[Kakynada]

no chaice deel with it 

[kakatiya]

17 hours ago, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

You r not alone.. ghar ghar ki kahani

[Jatka Bandi]

16 hours ago, riashli said:

Oka phase end avvaka munde another starts. I feel cursed, oka meal kuda peaceful ga tinindi gurthu ledu. 

Just feel like Rajnikanth and have that swag.   You will be ok. Life happens.

[Jatka Bandi]

16 hours ago, riashli said:

Ide main, first half of the yr Nana was sick, now amma. But continuous ga amma,nana, anna, vadina godava padutu untaru, they keep calling me and telling all the issue. Nenu etu solve cheyalo artham kadu. Into nundi phone vaste oka shiver vastundi. 

Work place lo kuda too many politics. Naku andari kanna ekkuva increment vachindi anta. Whole team gossips that I have affair with the director. He has an affair with a close friend of mine who isn't part of this organisation. Nenu evariki cheppagalanu idi. Moreover nenu oka book and two reasearch articles publish chesanu ee yr.  My content gets circulated all over India. Nenu increment deserve cheyana? Hod personal grudge tho students mundu nannu ghoram ga insult chestundi 

iva nee problems? Silly. Remember a thing. Health is the most valuable asset. Ippudu neeku health issue vundanuko inka situation ela vuntundo aalochinchuko. Let that sink in. Be happy you are healthy. Take them as distractions. Janala gurinchi assalu pattinchukoku. They will go to any level to support their failures. Report chesi oka saari, nee pani nuvvu chesuko. HOD male or female?

workplace lo affair pettukunna aa kinky gaadu evadamma? Workplace is India or US?

[FrustratedVuncle]

17 hours ago, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

Akka don't think too much. Just keep calm and follow your heart.