Meeku Ila helpless & hopeless ga anipistunda

[Jatka Bandi]

4 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Looks like you are second guessing yourself about your achievements at work. You don't need anyone's validation. Understand, you cannot make everyone happy. Its how human's nature works. When we don't get what we want (lets say a promotion) we try to undermine the achievements of others and satisfy ego. As long as you and your dear ones know you did nothing wrong to get a promotion, don't care what others think. I know its easy to say but hard to ignore. But you don't have control over what they think. The more you try to prove them wrong, the more they think you did it.

Family issues are tough. My mom complains about me to my sister and abt sis to me. My sister complains abt mom to me and abt me to mom. I complain abt mom to sister and abt sister to my mom. We all laugh about it and openly say it. Its just listening to their frustrations, understanding POV and move on. 

If you and your husband lived with your in-laws in india and your brother lives in US, you would be calling him daily to complain about the struggles and problems. Dont take things to heart. Listen to them and see what you can do. I dont think you can solve their problems. Only they can solve their problems. If possible explain that to them.

[riashli]

7 hours ago, Sanjiv said:

Feel happy that you are better than many less fortunate people (like the handicapped ones).

Always put a SMILE (even if it is a plastic smile) on your face - it will change the world around you forever! You will look warm, friendly, become more approachable and fun to be around.

Nene disabled category lo ki vasta, delivery complication lo I lost 80% hearing, vision right side and had palsy, although palsy nundi recover ayina, hearing issue still persists. Moreover I spend part of my salary to orphanage. I understand importance of life but these days feeling hopeless. 

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

19 hours ago, riashli said:

Life lo problems never ending and u dont seem to find solution Ani.. 

At one point feel like giving up life

How do u deal with such situations?

Cbn ni choosthunte anipisthundhi

 

@psycopk la manasu rayi cheskoni undali

[riashli]

21 hours ago, DalchanChekka said:

Work place lo evarni pattinchukoku. Diplomatic ga undu and don’t consider anyone as close friends. Form your support system outside work. Small ladies group form cheskondi when you can meet occasionally for lunches or go to spas, some activities to do together. 
Ask your family to deal their godavalu themselves. When you have no energy yourself, it can get really overwhelming to hear other people’s problems. As an overly empathetic person I can totally relate to this. Though it might feel selfish, you need to put yourself first and learn to say no.

Try to divide responsibilities at home as well. Self care is not selfishness.

Godava ayina prati sari Purugula mandu pattukoni Naku video call chestaru. Evarini convince cheyalo artham kadu. Andaru correct anipistaru at the same time wrong kuda. Amma vallaki nenu money pampistanu every month, valla hospital bills na insurance lo cover chestunna although Anna vadina central govt employees, vallu hospital visits ki cab lu kuda Nene pay chestunna, chala yrs married life lo struggle chusi two yrs nundi things are on track, ippudu amma side nundi issues ekkuva ayinayi. Husband antunnaru, ee sari vallu call chesina prati sari property lo share adugu, Inka evari call cheyaru Ani, aasthi motham Mee Anna ki notifications neeku Ani. 

[EyBisa]

andariki problems vuntay 

u r not alone 

[perugu_vada]

4 hours ago, riashli said:

Godava ayina prati sari Purugula mandu pattukoni Naku video call chestaru. Evarini convince cheyalo artham kadu. Andaru correct anipistaru at the same time wrong kuda. Amma vallaki nenu money pampistanu every month, valla hospital bills na insurance lo cover chestunna although Anna vadina central govt employees, vallu hospital visits ki cab lu kuda Nene pay chestunna, chala yrs married life lo struggle chusi two yrs nundi things are on track, ippudu amma side nundi issues ekkuva ayinayi. Husband antunnaru, ee sari vallu call chesina prati sari property lo share adugu, Inka evari call cheyaru Ani, aasthi motham Mee Anna ki notifications neeku Ani. 

What he said is 100% right .. ah property ni sell chesi miku kavalsinantha money isthunta ani cheppali.. he might sound harsh but that is the reality 

[Konebhar6]

21 hours ago, Jatka Bandi said:

Edo life nerpinchina philosophy anna