Thokkalee Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 46 minutes ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said: 1) SSA Disability comes into picture and take this kind of stuff for citizens( This person in USA from 15 years, kids age 10 years so assuing they are citiznes) 2) This lady doesnt have job but how can she stay in USA? she is going to based on his friends comments so assuming she might have greencard 3) Yes she cant work as full time she needs to take care of kids, but usually they will be sent school on morning where like this parents can work but hypothetically she may not want to do odd jobs as after living good life no one does walmart hourly jobs 4) We all have psympahty towards fmily and we all did what we can that doesnt mean that father left kids in middle of ocean just planning on buying million homes but cant affoar 1000$ a year for insurance is pathetic 5) This case is just a example where we have some valid points, but again some loop holes but the bottom line is dont pour all your money for one person, think before you does, 200k minchi ivali ante oka valid reason vundali. Ade antunnaanu.. if you have a good story, more people will be moved and donate to the go fund… aa fund initiation and limit setting antha friends chesthaaru… mostly aa family shock lo untadi unsure of their future.. also if someone has a home, it is highly unlikely that their home is paid off.. they still have to pay the mortgage for a couple of decades depending on where they are with their payments… there will definitely be economic hardship if the primary earner is gone.. At the least, we can be sympathetic towards them for their loss.. just don’t insult the dead guy and his family for their situation.. Quote
ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU Posted October 12, 2023 Author Report Posted October 12, 2023 2 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: Ade antunnaanu.. if you have a good story, more people will be moved and donate to the go fund… aa fund initiation and limit setting antha friends chesthaaru… mostly aa family shock lo untadi unsure of their future.. also if someone has a home, it is highly unlikely that their home is paid off.. they still have to pay the mortgage for a couple of decades depending on where they are with their payments… there will definitely be economic hardship if the primary earner is gone.. At the least, we can be sympathetic towards them for their loss.. just don’t insult the dead guy and his family for their situation.. 1) You can re-sell the home and rent the home and move to small home rather than online mercy of strangers 2) Mrs kuchi is shock yes we all know, once she out of shcok will she said I dont want this much only 100k enough for me? dont think so any one will do that 3) We can have sympathy and this quesitons for the future gofund raisers who never insure and hoping for mercy on others. Quote
Thokkalee Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 5 minutes ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said: 1) You can re-sell the home and rent the home and move to small home rather than online mercy of strangers 2) Mrs kuchi is shock yes we all know, once she out of shcok will she said I dont want this much only 100k enough for me? dont think so any one will do that 3) We can have sympathy and this quesitons for the future gofund raisers who never insure and hoping for mercy on others. If maintaining the payments on the house becomes difficult, they may sell the house.. who are we to decide that? Sunayana dumala started an ngo/foundation with that money and is doing some kind of social service in Florida.. I agree that everyone should take term/life insurance if you have a family.. unfortunately, many don’t take it.. they rely on employer insurance.. 1 Quote
pakeer_saab Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 2 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said: Lets take autsm kids story Father got million dollars house but dont have enough money nor think of his life insurance while he is healthy? really? I felt pity reading at that mothers and kids tough story but zero liability on father is not good. and its society responsbility of their kids? Okadu google chesi 1,5 million avudhi antadu. DO he knows for Autism kids govt pays all services and on top of it they pady 2000$ monthly. There are kids in Indian street who dotn have basic needs never fulfilled and died due to hunger who knows what disbailitues they have. Matter in one line, along with your home buy some insurance and This TANA NATA Need to certify and bring awareness that gofunds are used to quick help like sending bodys to shifting families not securing all their futures, there are reall need for lot of people help them instead. which govt pays $2000 ra gootley for special need kids , provide a source Quote
ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU Posted October 12, 2023 Author Report Posted October 12, 2023 18 minutes ago, pakeer_saab said: which govt pays $2000 ra gootley for special need kids , provide a source To be eligible for SSI benefits, children with autism must: Meet the SSA's definition of disability Have deficits in social interaction Have significantly restricted, repetitive patterns of behavior, interests, or activities Have income and resources that fall within the program's limits If approved, families could receive around $750 per month that can be spent on any of their child's or family's daily living needs. Other benefits for autistic children include: Child Tax Credit Working Tax Credit In-Home Supportive Services (IHSS) Supplemental Security Income, or SSI, is a monthly government payment through Social Security which is designed to support people who are aged (65 and older), blind, or disabled. Individuals with autism may be eligible to receive SSI to help support them financially. Quote
ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU Posted October 12, 2023 Author Report Posted October 12, 2023 39 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: If maintaining the payments on the house becomes difficult, they may sell the house.. who are we to decide that? Sunayana dumala started an ngo/foundation with that money and is doing some kind of social service in Florida.. I agree that everyone should take term/life insurance if you have a family.. unfortunately, many don’t take it.. they rely on employer insurance.. More info please. and for 1st point. >>If maintaining the payments on the house becomes difficult, they may sell the house.. who are we to decide that? When they came to market for mercy be ready to get all questions, can you post wearing all gold in gofund and mercy? no right. Quote
Thokkalee Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 1 hour ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said: More info please. and for 1st point. >>If maintaining the payments on the house becomes difficult, they may sell the house.. who are we to decide that? When they came to market for mercy be ready to get all questions, can you post wearing all gold in gofund and mercy? no right. https://foreverwelcome.org/ again, when you lose someone in your family, you don’t start a go fund.. your friends do it, hoping to help you.. they put whatever photos they have with them.. obviously they are taken at a happy moment.. the family doesn’t pose for a photo when they are mourning their loss.. 1 Quote
Vaaaampire Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 2 hours ago, Thokkalee said: If maintaining the payments on the house becomes difficult, they may sell the house.. who are we to decide that? Sunayana dumala started an ngo/foundation with that money and is doing some kind of social service in Florida.. I agree that everyone should take term/life insurance if you have a family.. unfortunately, many don’t take it.. they rely on employer insurance.. edited Quote
Thokkalee Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 16 minutes ago, Vaaaampire said: edited I am not surprised.. valladi love marriage.. he married against his parents wishes.. he is a Brahmin and she is from a lower caste.. may be she doesn’t even have a good relationship with her in laws.. she must be selfish to not share anything with her in laws, which I don’t support.. na circle lo chala mandi ammailu ki valla in laws tho assalu relation ledu.. na friends ki india vellaali ante bhayam as their wives don’t want to go to his parents house and wife doesn’t talk to his parents.. India vellinapudu they just go to their respective houses and spend with their parents.. some guys go separately, wife with kids in summer and husband in winter… I was so shocked to hear that they are not in talking terms at all.. Quote
Vaaaampire Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 1 minute ago, Thokkalee said: I am not surprised.. valladi love marriage.. he married against his parents wishes.. may be she doesn’t even have a good relationship with her in laws.. she must be selfish to not share anything with her in laws, which I don’t support.. na circle lo chala mandi ammailu ki valla in laws tho assalu relation ledu.. na friends ki india vellaali ante bhayam as their wives don’t want to go to his parents house and wife doesn’t talk to his parents.. India vellinapudu they just go to their respective houses and spend with their parents.. some guys go separately, wife with kids in summer and husband in winter… I was so shocked to hear that they are not in talking terms at all.. inlaws tho issues prathi intlo undevey. sunaina & her husband had some issues with conceiving and were planning to go for IVF( she herself said somewhere) and may be had issues with inlaws during that phase. sharing her hard earned money is upto her. But she should have shared some money which she got from gfm. Her inlaws were in need of financial support 1 Quote
Thokkalee Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 17 minutes ago, Vaaaampire said: inlaws tho issues prathi intlo undevey. sunaina & her husband had some issues with conceiving and were planning to go for IVF( she herself said somewhere) and may be had issues with inlaws during that phase. sharing her hard earned money is upto her. But she should have shared some money which she got from gfm. Her inlaws were in need of financial support I totally agree!! in laws tho issues - I noticed that some in the current generation woman are preferring to not maintain good relations with in laws as they are more happy that way, not having to deal with them or listening to them.. one of my friends wife makes fun of my wife for maintaining a good relationship with my mother 🤦♂️.. my wife is a bit old school that way.. Quote
Vaaaampire Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 3 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: I totally agree!! in laws tho issues - I noticed that some in the current generation woman are preferring to not maintain good relations with in laws as they are more happy that way, not having to deal with them or listening to them.. one of my friends wife makes fun of my wife for maintaining a good relationship with my mother 🤦♂️.. my wife is a bit old school that way.. ur lucky man. Wife’s relationship with husband’s parents is the most complicated part. Better to maintain peace and shouldnt force anyone to bond 1 Quote
Thokkalee Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 2 minutes ago, Vaaaampire said: ur lucky man. Wife’s relationship with husband’s parents is the most complicated part. Better to maintain peace and shouldnt force anyone to bond Yeah bro.. we ignore peace when we are young.. but realize the importance of it when we have a family and kids and extended family.. 1 Quote
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