Meaning of 225 in sex life

[JaiBalayyaaa]

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Hi everyone , 
Thank you for your responses in this group. I’m 27 and my husband is 31. We have been married for 4 years .
I’m traveling to India for a short trip with my baby today and started reading our intimate diaries for last 4 years to kill time in flight journey . Something caught my attention during my reading .

Little bit of background: we both use a diary each year to capture our beautiful moments in marriage everyday . Only positive things and no negative news what soever . 
We start with a Greek letter on top ( for privacy) if we had a good time in bed that day . More Greek letters if we had multiple times . Asterisk on top if we had a extra good time . 

Now , back to current situation : I observed we had more than 225 days with a greek symbol on top in the first year . Then second year I became pregnant and we had “that” till 2 days before my delivery . So , more than 200 days in second dairy as well.

Now we have a one year baby . These days I see a lot of changes in him . He is always tensed , always looking ways to invest . always talking about baby and his future . He is working out more saying he needs to be healthy during baby’s growth . He already has a 4 pack abs. He is still working out and eating lot of fruits and vegetables. Always in some hurry and thoughts .
So, last year baby was born and no one as there to help , we did it all . so, 3rd dairy has many pages with lots of happy times and memories but the special symbol on top reduced significantly ( hardly 100). 
4th year , I’m traveling to India for one month . So , this year will be less too.
I’m thinking what happend to him suddenly ? We did too many crazy and bad things in bed first 2 years.. But , now he is a different person .

What should I do ? Is it his age ? Is it his work promotion ? Or is it the focus on baby? How to improve ? Any medicines ? Or he is thinking about somebody else ( highly unlikely ) , or my physical changes ? 
Please help. I want him to relax , be jovial and funny and sometimes silly again and still be a great father .

[yemdoing]

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58 minutes ago, JaiBalayyaaa said:

Admin: please reject if inappropriate and not relevant . 

Hi everyone , 
Thank you for your responses in this group. I’m 27 and my husband is 31. We have been married for 4 years .
I’m traveling to India for a short trip with my baby today and started reading our intimate diaries for last 4 years to kill time in flight journey . Something caught my attention during my reading .

Little bit of background: we both use a diary each year to capture our beautiful moments in marriage everyday . Only positive things and no negative news what soever . 
We start with a Greek letter on top ( for privacy) if we had a good time in bed that day . More Greek letters if we had multiple times . Asterisk on top if we had a extra good time . 

Now , back to current situation : I observed we had more than 225 days with a greek symbol on top in the first year . Then second year I became pregnant and we had “that” till 2 days before my delivery . So , more than 200 days in second dairy as well.

Now we have a one year baby . These days I see a lot of changes in him . He is always tensed , always looking ways to invest . always talking about baby and his future . He is working out more saying he needs to be healthy during baby’s growth . He already has a 4 pack abs. He is still working out and eating lot of fruits and vegetables. Always in some hurry and thoughts .
So, last year baby was born and no one as there to help , we did it all . so, 3rd dairy has many pages with lots of happy times and memories but the special symbol on top reduced significantly ( hardly 100). 
4th year , I’m traveling to India for one month . So , this year will be less too.
I’m thinking what happend to him suddenly ? We did too many crazy and bad things in bed first 2 years.. But , now he is a different person .

What should I do ? Is it his age ? Is it his work promotion ? Or is it the focus on baby? How to improve ? Any medicines ? Or he is thinking about somebody else ( highly unlikely ) , or my physical changes ? 
Please help. I want him to relax , be jovial and funny and sometimes silly again and still be a great father .

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1 hour ago, yemdoing said:

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1 hour ago, yemdoing said:

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51 minutes ago, nuvvu_naakina_paalem said:

I’m if the number was significant. Maybe he has been a yoga , strict diet ( calories , carbs check, and checks details on nutrients) and meditation for last 10 years . Our house has a very peaceful interiors and we practice Buddhist principles . Maybe everything helped . I’m if the number sounded bragging . I thought it was just above normal . I don’t know why everyone are making fun. Also, we have been in love before marriage for 4 years . Everything helped? I don’t know until everyone focused on numbers . I’m I’m talking real experience of us

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My boyfriend who is married with a child keeps telling me to come to his home and tell his wife the truth about us. His wife knows about our relationship and she has gone to a limit to put a police complaint on her own husband in india so that her husband can go back to India. Thankfully his wife loose the battle of lodging a fake complaint but he is still not ready to believe that this complaint was lodge by his wife's brother. My bf is super scared on legal matters which i now got to know. His highly dependent wife has clearly put across that she will not divorce him. I was being called by my boyfriend's sister to his home to talk on what we want to do with this extra marital relationship. I am in an abusive marriage. And my husband knows about him and hence the abuse has increased. I solely blame my bf for my physical abuse. Now, my bf wants me to convince his wife that i am in an abussive marriage and that we both want to marry. This is already done once and his wife is adamant on not leaving him. He keeps insisting me to sit and talk with his wife again and he wants me and his wife to decide who will leave him and who will stay with him. Yesterday to counter back on this plan, i asked him that what if your wife asks you " Who do you want to stay with?". He got angry on me and told me that than sit at home quietly and take husband's abuse. Don't come to my Home ever. Basically he asked me to back off. Then after lot of arguments, he mentioned I don't want either of you. I want to be single and happy.

I need your help to understand this guy's mindset. You think he is playing games? I know he is super afraid of his wife. His wife highly manipulates him which i his he is not aware. She in fact generated a wrong kundali to a pandit when they wanted to get married. So her manipulation began right before they got married. I feel she has going herself a free money making machine. On the contrary, when he talks to me he speaks with full aggression and confidence for having me in his life. I know he loves me but i also feel he loves his wife too. He has in fact, cried for me whenever i've gone through abuses. I highly feel his wife does some kind of black magic. When he is with his wife he talks to me as if he doesn't trust me at all. But when he is with me, he makes me feel as if i am his wife. I am so confused because i don't want to build any more expectations as he broke my t trust once. What his intentions are? To one side he says i take you as my wife and to other side he will have vacations and trips planned with his wife and family. My gut feeling says, he has no balls to stand for anyone in his life. Recently i got pregnant with him and lost a baby after my first trimester. At that time he did not support me. I was all by myself fighting and struggling to bring that baby in the world. But God had different plans. Can you please help me understand this guy's mindset or intention?

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7 hours ago, JaiBalayyaaa said:

Admin: please reject if inappropriate and not relevant . 

Hi everyone , 
Thank you for your responses in this group. I’m 27 and my husband is 31. We have been married for 4 years .
I’m traveling to India for a short trip with my baby today and started reading our intimate diaries for last 4 years to kill time in flight journey . Something caught my attention during my reading .

Little bit of background: we both use a diary each year to capture our beautiful moments in marriage everyday . Only positive things and no negative news what soever . 
We start with a Greek letter on top ( for privacy) if we had a good time in bed that day . More Greek letters if we had multiple times . Asterisk on top if we had a extra good time . 

Now , back to current situation : I observed we had more than 225 days with a greek symbol on top in the first year . Then second year I became pregnant and we had “that” till 2 days before my delivery . So , more than 200 days in second dairy as well.

Now we have a one year baby . These days I see a lot of changes in him . He is always tensed , always looking ways to invest . always talking about baby and his future . He is working out more saying he needs to be healthy during baby’s growth . He already has a 4 pack abs. He is still working out and eating lot of fruits and vegetables. Always in some hurry and thoughts .
So, last year baby was born and no one as there to help , we did it all . so, 3rd dairy has many pages with lots of happy times and memories but the special symbol on top reduced significantly ( hardly 100). 
4th year , I’m traveling to India for one month . So , this year will be less too.
I’m thinking what happend to him suddenly ? We did too many crazy and bad things in bed first 2 years.. But , now he is a different person .

What should I do ? Is it his age ? Is it his work promotion ? Or is it the focus on baby? How to improve ? Any medicines ? Or he is thinking about somebody else ( highly unlikely ) , or my physical changes ? 
Please help. I want him to relax , be jovial and funny and sometimes silly again and still be a great father .

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7 hours ago, JaiBalayyaaa said:

Admin: please reject if inappropriate and not relevant . 

Hi everyone , 
Thank you for your responses in this group. I’m 27 and my husband is 31. We have been married for 4 years .
I’m traveling to India for a short trip with my baby today and started reading our intimate diaries for last 4 years to kill time in flight journey . Something caught my attention during my reading .

Little bit of background: we both use a diary each year to capture our beautiful moments in marriage everyday . Only positive things and no negative news what soever . 
We start with a Greek letter on top ( for privacy) if we had a good time in bed that day . More Greek letters if we had multiple times . Asterisk on top if we had a extra good time . 

Now , back to current situation : I observed we had more than 225 days with a greek symbol on top in the first year . Then second year I became pregnant and we had “that” till 2 days before my delivery . So , more than 200 days in second dairy as well.

Now we have a one year baby . These days I see a lot of changes in him . He is always tensed , always looking ways to invest . always talking about baby and his future . He is working out more saying he needs to be healthy during baby’s growth . He already has a 4 pack abs. He is still working out and eating lot of fruits and vegetables. Always in some hurry and thoughts .
So, last year baby was born and no one as there to help , we did it all . so, 3rd dairy has many pages with lots of happy times and memories but the special symbol on top reduced significantly ( hardly 100). 
4th year , I’m traveling to India for one month . So , this year will be less too.
I’m thinking what happend to him suddenly ? We did too many crazy and bad things in bed first 2 years.. But , now he is a different person .

What should I do ? Is it his age ? Is it his work promotion ? Or is it the focus on baby? How to improve ? Any medicines ? Or he is thinking about somebody else ( highly unlikely ) , or my physical changes ? 
Please help. I want him to relax , be jovial and funny and sometimes silly again and still be a great father .

Aunty ki Samantha kanna ekkuva S3x drive unnattundi! 
 

 

[idibezwada]

225 out of 365 aa..ademanna daily routine aa raa ayya

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1 hour ago, idibezwada said:

225 out of 365 aa..ademanna daily routine aa raa ayya

 

Anduke adi legendary post indi aa group lo.. 100-150 itself is a great number

[JaiBalayyaaa]

1 hour ago, idibezwada said:

225 out of 365 aa..ademanna daily routine aa raa ayya

Enni days are normal antaav

[JaiBalayyaaa]

1 hour ago, idibezwada said:

225 out of 365 aa..ademanna daily routine aa raa ayya

Aunty ni group lo same question adigithe, this is her response. 

7 hours ago, JaiBalayyaaa said:

I’m if the number was significant. Maybe he has been a yoga , strict diet ( calories , carbs check, and checks details on nutrients) and meditation for last 10 years . Our house has a very peaceful interiors and we practice Buddhist principles . Maybe everything helped . I’m if the number sounded bragging . I thought it was just above normal . I don’t know why everyone are making fun. Also, we have been in love before marriage for 4 years . Everything helped? I don’t know until everyone focused on numbers . I’m I’m talking real experience of us