have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites

[kevinUsa]

I am a 30 year old unmarried man working in IT with very good package. I have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites and have been getting many requests and 90% of them are from girls who are in India. After chatting with those girls, i come to know that they are just desperate to come to USA. Some of the girls i spoke to said that i should sponsor their masters education in USA and some said that they have no interest in working in USA and would like to stay at home after marriage . I felt that most of the so called potential matches are just interested in coming to USA and are using marriage as the ladder. So for experiment, one month ago i edited my details in matrimony and removed my salary and changed my location to India and guess what - NOT A SINGLE REQUEST i received. One of my friends had a arrange marriage and his wife came from India directly. He sponsored her masters education, supported her in every way and after she got a job, she is now asking for a divorce. Thats why i want to tell people who are working in USA to find their partners in US only instead of from India. You have high chances of finding a genuine match here

[Midnightsun]

38 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I am a 30 year old unmarried man working in IT with very good package. I have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites and have been getting many requests and 90% of them are from girls who are in India. After chatting with those girls, i come to know that they are just desperate to come to USA. Some of the girls i spoke to said that i should sponsor their masters education in USA and some said that they have no interest in working in USA and would like to stay at home after marriage . I felt that most of the so called potential matches are just interested in coming to USA and are using marriage as the ladder. So for experiment, one month ago i edited my details in matrimony and removed my salary and changed my location to India and guess what - NOT A SINGLE REQUEST i received. One of my friends had a arrange marriage and his wife came from India directly. He sponsored her masters education, supported her in every way and after she got a job, she is now asking for a divorce. Thats why i want to tell people who are working in USA to find their partners in US only instead of from India. You have high chances of finding a genuine match here

[baku_keku]

57 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I am a 30 year old unmarried man working in IT with very good package. I have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites and have been getting many requests and 90% of them are from girls who are in India. After chatting with those girls, i come to know that they are just desperate to come to USA. Some of the girls i spoke to said that i should sponsor their masters education in USA and some said that they have no interest in working in USA and would like to stay at home after marriage . I felt that most of the so called potential matches are just interested in coming to USA and are using marriage as the ladder. So for experiment, one month ago i edited my details in matrimony and removed my salary and changed my location to India and guess what - NOT A SINGLE REQUEST i received. One of my friends had a arrange marriage and his wife came from India directly. He sponsored her masters education, supported her in every way and after she got a job, she is now asking for a divorce. Thats why i want to tell people who are working in USA to find their partners in US only instead of from India. You have high chances of finding a genuine match here

looks like your story 

 

or thing that relates you most.

 

Remove Canada from your profile and see

[ARYA]

Happy married life 

[CanadianMalodu]

8 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

I am a 30 year old unmarried man working in IT with very good package. I have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites and have been getting many requests and 90% of them are from girls who are in India. After chatting with those girls, i come to know that they are just desperate to come to USA. Some of the girls i spoke to said that i should sponsor their masters education in USA and some said that they have no interest in working in USA and would like to stay at home after marriage . I felt that most of the so called potential matches are just interested in coming to USA and are using marriage as the ladder. So for experiment, one month ago i edited my details in matrimony and removed my salary and changed my location to India and guess what - NOT A SINGLE REQUEST i received. One of my friends had a arrange marriage and his wife came from India directly. He sponsored her masters education, supported her in every way and after she got a job, she is now asking for a divorce. Thats why i want to tell people who are working in USA to find their partners in US only instead of from India. You have high chances of finding a genuine match here

What do you think arranged marriage is about? Women on an average see men as resource gatherers, they seek security from such men. The general consensus in India is you are either born into a business family or really rich political families then matches come to you. Then comes beaurocrats of top echelons IAS, IPS etc, followed by US NRIs who on average make more than Indian counter parts. NRIs look for assets in terms of gifts and dowry. This is prevalent in landed gentry castes such as Reddies, Kammas, Rajus, Kapus more than other castes in Telugu states although other castes have it to some extent.  

Even if you love someone, say do you think they sheerly love you for who you're but not for what you're ? Let's say you're working in a MNC, and you make six figures in US then you proposed to your desi or other colleague, and they agreed. Sure it's love. Let's change a variable. Try flipping burgers or work at gas station for a living and do the same thing to the same girl or woman and you think things go in your favour ?Most likely not. Women American born raised who're free spirited are likely to give it a try but others most likely not again. 

All in all women or girls who marry,  will marry men with status, power or money not just for love.  This is why those that have these will have more choices than those that don't. 

Indians post liberalization have become as materialistic as west. You want to marry an Indian girl in an arranged marriage setup, look for a girl born and brought up in a tier II town setting with middle class family background with values rather than dowry or chasing ambition. You might get lucky. 

 

[johnydanylee]

Single kingulam antoo vayinchukovatame 

[Tellugodu]

5 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

I am a 30 year old unmarried man working in IT with very good package. I have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites and have been getting many requests and 90% of them are from girls who are in India. After chatting with those girls, i come to know that they are just desperate to come to USA. Some of the girls i spoke to said that i should sponsor their masters education in USA and some said that they have no interest in working in USA and would like to stay at home after marriage . I felt that most of the so called potential matches are just interested in coming to USA and are using marriage as the ladder. So for experiment, one month ago i edited my details in matrimony and removed my salary and changed my location to India and guess what - NOT A SINGLE REQUEST i received. One of my friends had a arrange marriage and his wife came from India directly. He sponsored her masters education, supported her in every way and after she got a job, she is now asking for a divorce. Thats why i want to tell people who are working in USA to find their partners in US only instead of from India. You have high chances of finding a genuine match here

Own experience tho vachina wisdom words aa leka lifted from Reddit ? Either way, We can understand your pain bro. The main issue is abundance of supply in the market and they(Indian girls) have lots of choice, nuvu kakapothe inkoka yadava anthe. Finding a girl from US that too from your own community is difficult (unless you are teddy or kampa cassette). In this difficult situation one thing you can do to find the better prospect is to lower your expectations.  Maybe bit open up on your requirements. 
* There maybe some good girls who might ended up divorcing before because of abusing EX. 
* Canada 🇨🇦 antunav ante - decent family nunchi vachina Punjabi girls (open to other Indian communities- if they are family oriented). 
* try to take the assisted service in the one of the top matrimony site (and take there help based on your preference- they will get you some meetings arranged). 
* 1-3 years elder girl than your age ayna bit okay if she is as per your criteria in other aspects.

👆some of the ways my friends who got succeeded in getting married successfully in recent times following above strategy. Some got ended up with very good girls, One guy was lucky to even found a doctor match in US. 

In the current world, if you still wanted to be rigid with your requirements, then it’s hard (or impossible) to get married ra @kevinUsa. You need to come down to the reality and think alternative approach for the success. 

[kevinUsa]

4 minutes ago, Tellugodu said:

Own experience tho vachina wisdom words aa leka lifted from Reddit ? Either way, We can understand your pain bro. The main issue is abundance of supply in the market and they(Indian girls) have lots of choice, nuvu kakapothe inkoka yadava anthe. Finding a girl from US that too from your own community is difficult (unless you are teddy or kampa cassette). In this difficult situation one thing you can do to find the better prospect is to lower your expectations.  Maybe bit open up on your requirements. 
* There maybe some good girls who might ended up divorcing before because of abusing EX. 
* Canada 🇨🇦 antunav ante - decent family nunchi vachina Punjabi girls (open to other Indian communities- if they are family oriented). 
* try to take the assisted service in the one of the top matrimony site (and take there help based on your preference- they will get you some meetings arranged). 
* 1-3 years elder girl than your age ayna bit okay if she is as per your criteria in other aspects.

👆some of the ways my friends who got succeeded in getting married successfully in recent times following above strategy. Some got ended up with very good girls, One guy was lucky to even found a doctor match in US. 

In the current world, if you still wanted to be rigid with your requirements, then it’s hard (or impossible) to get married ra @kevinUsa. You need to come down to the reality and think alternative approach for the success. 

The topic is from. Indian expats 

But now I am thinking of it 

I have friend he is on work permit and zgirl being doctor agreed for marriage. Punjabi girl mbbs done plus ata. Now I am thinking that I am looking for girls in wrong places..lowda mana desi ammayilu specially Telugu girls have too much ego tinadaniki ginjalu levu kani requirements  matram million $ home unda ani asking 

 

 

[Tellugodu]

7 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

The topic is from. Indian expats 

But now I am thinking of it 

I have friend he is on work permit and zgirl being doctor agreed for marriage. Punjabi girl mbbs done plus ata. Now I am thinking that I am looking for girls in wrong places..lowda mana desi ammayilu specially Telugu girls have too much ego tinadaniki ginjalu levu kani requirements  matram million $ home unda ani asking 

 

 

Anduke kada ra, mana @Sucker uncle is a intelligent fellow, went after a blonde 👱‍♀️ girl and got married. He is now a rich tycoon in Tampa. Mana lanti youth should take some inspiration from him. 

[Sucker]

5 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

I am a 30 year old unmarried man working in IT with very good package. I have enrolled myself on various matrimonial sites and have been getting many requests and 90% of them are from girls who are in India. After chatting with those girls, i come to know that they are just desperate to come to USA. Some of the girls i spoke to said that i should sponsor their masters education in USA and some said that they have no interest in working in USA and would like to stay at home after marriage . I felt that most of the so called potential matches are just interested in coming to USA and are using marriage as the ladder. So for experiment, one month ago i edited my details in matrimony and removed my salary and changed my location to India and guess what - NOT A SINGLE REQUEST i received. One of my friends had a arrange marriage and his wife came from India directly. He sponsored her masters education, supported her in every way and after she got a job, she is now asking for a divorce. Thats why i want to tell people who are working in USA to find their partners in US only instead of from India. You have high chances of finding a genuine match here

Lol nenu yepudo chesa ee experiment fun kosam 

 

[Sucker]

7 minutes ago, Tellugodu said:

Anduke kada ra, mana @Sucker uncle is a intelligent fellow, went after a blonde 👱‍♀️ girl and got married. 

Ala time kudhirindhi Anna. Plan chesentha intelligence manaki ledhu anno. 

[perugu_vada]

congrats uncle .. break ichaava aithe final ga .. for aunty 

[Sucker]

5 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

congrats uncle .. break ichaava aithe final ga .. for aunty 

Vaadi bondha. Idhi vaadi story kaadhu. Yellado group la lepukosthadu ee chetha

[FReddy]

veedilo #18 candidate traits kanipistunnai.. evari requirements vallaki untai.. ila anumanam tho ammai US enter avadam kosame nannu cheskundi anukuntu relation start seste.. every moment ala negative gane aalochistadu..