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  1. 2026 H1b is only active from Oct 1st, even if it's approved ee stamping ki velledu ?
    9 points
  2. Simple ga. They earn, they spend and donate some to charity. We earn for us, kids and next generations to come. They enjoy life better than us.
    7 points
  3. Why many working-class Americans (like farmers, plumbers, etc.) can seem happier or more content, even with less money: 1. Cultural Conditioning: "Pursuit of Happiness" In American culture, happiness is an internal goal, not just a result of achievements. People grow up being told it’s okay to be average, to take breaks, to enjoy small things. That creates lower performance pressure and more emotional resilience when things go wrong. 2. Pride in Work, Not Just Pay A plumber or truck driver in the U.S. is not socially looked down upon the way they might be in other cultures. They often take pride in their skills, independence, and hard-earned livelihood. This sense of self-respect matters a lot for emotional well-being, even if income is modest. 3. Less Comparison, Less Pressure Many working-class Americans live in tight-knit communities where everyone lives similarly. There's less constant comparison with someone who owns 5 houses or drives a Tesla. Social life is more grounded in people and relationships, not resumes or net worth. 4. Faith, Community, Simplicity Religion, local community groups, and family often provide a support system and meaning. Many are raised to accept life’s ups and downs with faith and humor. Simpler living often means fewer distractions, fewer expectations. 💻 Now contrast that with many Indian immigrants in IT in the U.S.: 1. High Achievement = High Pressure Many Indian immigrants in tech are highly educated, ambitious, and from families where success = status = worth. They carry pressure from family back home, immigration stress, and constant need to "grow" (career, house, kids, etc.). 2. Happiness is Postponed A lot of Indian professionals subconsciously adopt a mindset: “Let me just get the promotion, green card, house, then I’ll relax.” But that "then" keeps moving. This creates a cycle of chronic dissatisfaction, despite high material success. 3. Fear of Slipping Many immigrants feel: “I worked so hard to get here, I can’t afford to fall behind.” That breeds overwork, comparison, and less tolerance for failure — because they have more to lose, or feel they do. 4. Social Isolation Many Indians in the U.S. lack close friendships outside family and work. There may be fewer outlets for vulnerability, humor, or coping — unlike a small-town farmer who has coffee with friends every day. 5. Identity Conflict Many are caught between two cultures: – Not fully American – Not fully Indian anymore That can lead to a subtle identity void, where external success doesn't bring deep fulfillment. 🧠 A Key Insight: Happiness = Reality − Expectations Many Americans with modest lives have lower expectations, so disappointments don’t crush them. Many high-achieving immigrants have sky-high expectations, so even a small dip feels like failure. 🌱 So what can we learn? Money = comfort, not happiness. You can have peace of mind without millions, and you can have anxiety with a $200k salary. Let go of over-control. Learning from working-class American attitudes, we can embrace more flexibility, humor, humility, and faith. Rediscover community, relationships, and play. Deep conversations, hobbies, local involvement — these often make a bigger impact on happiness than a new car or title.
    5 points
  4. For Americans they only need house in America . For desis they need house (biggest) in USA + many houses in India + saving money for Amaravathi lands …. its all lot of pressure
    5 points
  5. Unlikely. Ai cannot be that dumb. So it wont replace politicians
    5 points
  6. Manavallu Singapore lo company petti dabbulu pattakellante,eeswaran needed no? Ee Heritage, Jyothi or AMRIKA lo IT mesthri ante manage cheyyochu, but Singapore kadha.
    4 points
  7. Step 1: Trump will propose 25% Step 2: Indian business tycoons under leadership of PM modi will beg for concession to mighty Trump Step3: He will finally settle for 15% and it will be projected as if he did a favor to 1.4 billion Indians. Step4: India is a great friend statement from Modi. Both Modi and Trump smiling pics Step5: Rahul Gandhi will still be an opposition leader and Modi will still be a PM. @jpismahatma and @Konebhar6
    3 points
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  9. Pisco uncle @psycopk and sai uncle got shocked at auditions given by @ARYA and @vetri_psyconandamuri
    3 points
  10. బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ లో మంత్రి ఉత్తమ్ పై మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి వెంకట్ రెడ్డి అగ్రహం బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ నుంచి అలిగి వెళ్ళిపోయిన మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి నాగార్జున సాగర్ డ్యాం గేట్లు ఎత్తడానికి బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ నుంచి హెలికాప్టర్ లో సాగర్ వెళ్లాల్సిన మంత్రులు ఉత్తమ్, కోమటిరెడ్డి, జిల్లా ఇంచార్జి మంత్రి అడ్లూరి లక్ష్మణ్ షెడ్యూల్ ప్రకారం ఉదయం 9 గంటల వరకే బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ కు చేరుకున్న మంత్రులు కోమటిరెడ్డి వెంకట్ రెడ్డి, అడ్లూరి లక్ష్మణ్ 10 గంటల వరకు రాని ఇరిగేషన్ మంత్రి ఉత్తమ్ తమను ఉదయం 9 గంటలకే ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ కు రావాలని చెప్పిన ఉత్తమ్ 10 గంటలకు ఎలా వస్తాడని కోమటిరెడ్డి ఆగ్రహం ఉత్తమ్ ఆలస్యంపై మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి తీవ్ర ఆగ్రహం, అలక బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ నుంచే అలిగి వెళ్ళిపోయిన మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి లేకుండానే నాగార్జునసాగర్ కు హెలికాప్టర్ లో బయలుదేరిన మంత్రులు ఉత్తమ్, లక్ష్మణ్. 2.5 hours travel ki helicopter endi ra babu..
    3 points
  11. LOL I wish this all to be true… never imagined Chiranjeevi family could be so powerful
    3 points
  12. AI agents nammukuni code raste PK toka pattukuni godari eedinatte naa copilot silent gaa oka module ni lepsindhi, adni nenu lazy gaa vundi suusukokunda approve chesa (chee naa bathuku) until manual tester find it out raised it as critical bug
    3 points
  13. Pretty much all desis who are in US for past 10 yrs are millionaires as well.
    3 points
  14. On a lighter note, she seems to be gentlewoman (drawyer lekunda pants)
    2 points
  15. Even vacations are done differently by desis and amrikis .. We have a check list. We need to see all the places (vista points, attractions nearby). We kinda make it stressful. We get up early and go around till evening to complete checklist. You look at an amriki in a beach. Enjoy a beer, let children play in sand and they go to sleep. Or have a conversation. We cook food and carry there (Its OK for hygiene but not for cost). They eat whatever they can find.
    2 points
  16. We derive happiness from earning. Their happiness correlates with having fun. Its cultural. We align more with Chinese people in this regard. People on western hemisphere including Mexicans know how to enjoy life. Even though their income levels are not that high.,
    2 points
  17. @ARYA anniya entha manchodu ante tanu chesevi anni ila flow lo cheppestu untadu avi telsi akkum bakkum tommy tho usko anta papam anniya anniya emo magalla veta, tommy emo rapa rapa veta ento ee prapancham
    2 points
  18. Aa ID naadi ayithe or if I have duplicate id in this DB, enni butulu tittukuntavo tittuko. Oka vela naadi kakapothe as usual nuvvoka leki nayaluvi ani anukunta.. Nuvvu RPG oo arya no leka halwa no.. or some other id .. who cares?. Original ID lo raleni daddamma vi. Stock scam ento cheppu ante answer ubdadu… let’s see how much guts you got. @psycopk @Hitman @argadorn @dalapathi @Tellugodu @Kootami @pichhipullayya @SaradaChinnodu @csrcsr @Spartan @krishnaaa @vkk I know you wake up everyday to get my attention tagging me in 100s of messages with nonsense. I ignore but today I am replying. Enjoy the attention you got today.
    2 points
  19. @vetri_psyconandamuri ninnu lowlife scum antunte chustu unnava anthele two ids neeve kada, nee burra ki ardam ayi undadu ela react avvalo vetri anniya AI ni adugu ilanti situation lo ela react avvalo
    2 points
  20. kamalhasan amitabh indias best actors enduku antaro telusa india lo janaalu ne acting chudaledu Jagan anniya ki oscar neeku bhaskar vachevaraku poratam cheyochu anniya deenike ga anniya AFDB star comedian ayyav mothaniki oka vishayam oppukunnav anniya needi entha lowlife scum life ani
    2 points
  21. I noticed her profile. She is just influencer. Potta podisthe she cannot do simple programming.
    2 points
  22. arey naa perulo eddy ledura chindi chor.. aa panulu mee tanda gajji gaallake sontham ra..
    2 points
  23. Rei @Jatka Bandi….endi ra ie panulu ? Sillara yedhava….chota mota commissions nundi ekanga pedda game ae adutunava ?
    2 points
  24. Kootami prabhutva pani teru ela undi 1) baledu 2) asalu baledu 3) chedalam ga undi 4) all the above 🤣🤣🤣 t
    1 point
  25. Agreed. All these years he faked development and this time he appears to be genuine like everytime.
    1 point
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  27. He got 134k subscribers. He is getting paid to cry on youtube.
    1 point
  28. Mana Cops mida eega valanivvaru. Chiru is blessed
    1 point
  29. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2NBRoSxCRl/
    1 point
  30. 30 sec lo inko 3 cases https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMsKGxNvO_F/?igsh=emVwbGJkem5raDY0
    1 point
  31. Anna mana app ki first customer 🤣 https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMsZM7xpGht/?igsh=MWQzbTBrZHF3bjE0dw==
    1 point
  32. God bless you, Aunty
    1 point
  33. @ARYA ila red handed ga dorikipoyadu antava? akkum bakkum chi kotti poyi untadi anthe ayi untadi le anniya emo taadi la untadu, tommy emo potti ga unnadu ayina sare tommy dhe ante anniya lo matter ille, anduke tommy chudu etta navvutnado gif lo
    1 point
  34. Galeez kukka🤣🤣🤣Halwa bhayya di nee notlo undaa🤣🤣🤣mari teeyave pathivratha valli🤣🤣🤣
    1 point
  35. Ade neelo nachedi valli sister🤣🤣🤣though very rarely, you seem to accept your stupidity 🤣🤣🤣but the same couldn't be said about your alter ego halwa bhayya🤣🤣🤣malla usko🤣🤣🤣
    1 point
  36. Ronth malayalam good movie. Cops story
    1 point
  37. 🤣🤣🤣 Multiple personalities amaze me yaa 🤣🤣🤣manave questions and answers
    1 point
  38. @Coconut is fake errifook pakodi gadu beggar ni pattinchukoku anna
    1 point
  39. Langa land lo langa lepukoni dancing anta
    1 point
  40. Stay away from apartments for investments. There is oversupply. Invest in US stock market.Much better returns.
    1 point
  41. We need CBN to start wealth generation not just in Andhra but all over India. I think, Modi resign alochana varaku vachindi ante deeni venakala politicap chanakya scheme pakka vunde vuntadi…
    1 point
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