Relatives suddenly wanting bond | A red flag & selfish motive

[FReddy]

3 hours ago, Midnightsun said:

Hi All, 
A random question, I have first cousins (Indian-born US citizens) who have been here for the last 35+ years. I have been here in the USA for the past 10 years. In the past 10 years, I never got to talk to them or meet them. They never paid a visit or did not even come to the Airport to pick me up when I landed in the USA for the very first time in the same city where they lived.   Now all of a sudden they started to message me and behave like we are brothers and they want to improve the relationship. I don't have any grudge or love towards them.  I feel totally strange towards them. Honestly, I want to tell them without insulting them.  Being rude can be fulfilling but at the same time, it makes me a bad person. 
Any thoughts?  Should I ignore them?

no offence to ladies but I strongly have a feeling that this poster is a female..

males ila aalochincharu.. orey mava entha kalam aindi ra matladi ani vodilesi kalisipotharu.. only ladies aithene ila aalochistaru..  

[LadiesTailor]

4 minutes ago, Tellugodu said:

How exactly they are ignoring, adi kuda cheppu.

Not showing interest while I’m trying to make a conversation is the first thing I noticed baaa… slow ga nenu kooda hai  loki vachesaaa

[Sreeven]

4 hours ago, Midnightsun said:

Hi All, 
A random question, I have first cousins (Indian-born US citizens) who have been here for the last 35+ years. I have been here in the USA for the past 10 years. In the past 10 years, I never got to talk to them or meet them. They never paid a visit or did not even come to the Airport to pick me up when I landed in the USA for the very first time in the same city where they lived.   Now all of a sudden they started to message me and behave like we are brothers and they want to improve the relationship. I don't have any grudge or love towards them.  I feel totally strange towards them. Honestly, I want to tell them without insulting them.  Being rude can be fulfilling but at the same time, it makes me a bad person. 
Any thoughts?  Should I ignore them?

XPats nundi lepav ga

[ObiWan]

6 hours ago, Hyderabad_Developers said:

Airport ki enduku raale ani adugu

edhi, jathirathnalu lo cake enduku pettaley antadu, aa tone lona?

[Konebhar6]

6 hours ago, Midnightsun said:

Hi All, 
A random question, I have first cousins (Indian-born US citizens) who have been here for the last 35+ years. I have been here in the USA for the past 10 years. In the past 10 years, I never got to talk to them or meet them. They never paid a visit or did not even come to the Airport to pick me up when I landed in the USA for the very first time in the same city where they lived.   Now all of a sudden they started to message me and behave like we are brothers and they want to improve the relationship. I don't have any grudge or love towards them.  I feel totally strange towards them. Honestly, I want to tell them without insulting them.  Being rude can be fulfilling but at the same time, it makes me a bad person. 
Any thoughts?  Should I ignore them?

As people start getting old, they think more about relationships and want more companionship. If money is not involved then bury the past and start a new relationship. 

[psycopk]

thats oke.. statying connected is good... nuvvu enta vadu anna they are relatives.. and its not going to change.. see what you can do..vallu appudu mistake chesaru ani ipudu nuvvu ade cheste vallaki neku teda em untadi.. what ever their intentions are.. just hear it out

[Midnightsun]

2 hours ago, Sreeven said:

XPats nundi lepav ga

Yes

[Sanjiv]

bonus points for you both dwelling in the same city

(oh, reposted from xpats aa?)

[quest]

7 hours ago, Midnightsun said:

Hi All, 
A random question, I have first cousins (Indian-born US citizens) who have been here for the last 35+ years. I have been here in the USA for the past 10 years. In the past 10 years, I never got to talk to them or meet them. They never paid a visit or did not even come to the Airport to pick me up when I landed in the USA for the very first time in the same city where they lived.   Now all of a sudden they started to message me and behave like we are brothers and they want to improve the relationship. I don't have any grudge or love towards them.  I feel totally strange towards them. Honestly, I want to tell them without insulting them.  Being rude can be fulfilling but at the same time, it makes me a bad person. 
Any thoughts?  Should I ignore them?

keep an open mind and behave as if strangers are becoming friends...
if there are any flags, 10gey ani cheppu