Lonliness and chiraku

[soldier]

1 hour ago, enigmatic said:

get used to it. 

Best advice take it or live with it 

[VictoryTDP]

4 hours ago, crscsr said:

Indians ki universal problem you are not alone.

nuvvu chepukunnavu manavallu chepukoru .

i recommend banging ur wife 2 or 3 times daily or divorce life will be happy

 

Nuvvena anna 

[VictoryTDP]

1 hour ago, Raja_Returns said:

Same boat anna kakapothe most eligible batchelors ni

ame cheyalo telyaka pakkinti aunty pillaltho apudapudu aunty tho kuda adukunta

Lucky you thaatha 

[sarvayogi]

5 hours ago, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

First understand that life is always tough in 30's . My 2c in random order

1)Start every day assuming its a bad day..If good happens then good for you. Dont think every day you will wakeup eat work and sleep happily. Madhyalo mast vastai.Be prepared for it.Smile every day logics pakkana pettu

2)Have responsibilities more than what you can bear. Automatic ga you get serious in life

3)Have daily , weekly , quarterly , monthly goals and strive to achieve them. 

4)Motivation videos all are trash. You have to self motivate. Be the best in your circle and keep improving your circle and you become the best version of you

5)Remember that you are here for a purpose . Understand whats that and groom yourself.

I can say a 100 more like this but some stupid fellow will crack an uppal balu joke. So I stop here

 

[Jalsa456]

5 hours ago, hydusguy said:

depending on location ..pickleball can be socialing game

Am playing pickleball sometimes daily twice some times weekly atleast 10 to 12 times made a lot new friends and social ga Chala happy ga undi yearly one or two breaks from work games have become more important than job for me last one year 

.. only worked 6 months this year and 6 months break chilling with pickleball and meetups and and few 5k runs and social gatherings and home improvements quite an interesting year for me 2023 .. this year begin lo I was also feeling same .. traveling also helps a lot had three international trips this year as well in break time

By chance Dallas lo prosper area ite cheaply happy to forward info and play we are fun play group not a serious beginner or intermediate level just for fun 

[Konebhar6]

6 hours ago, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

• Start watching games NFL, NBA. After 1-2 seasons you will be hooked to them. Its an addiction and good timepass.
• Make a list of things that make you happy and start doing those. Some self-love
• Take a vacation with your wife and let her know your expectations and how you feel and get to some agreements.
• Kids make a huge diff in life. You will get so busy, you wont be bored. You will appreciate your boring life now
• Go to Gym. Manchi figures kanipistharu. Inspiring and you will get your workout as well.

[jaathiratnalu2]

16 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

35 no kids? 

Kids vachaka loneliness and word marchipotav. If you enjoy raising kids you will be at bliss

Agreed bro .. 

@andhrasodabudi.. iam also in same boat ..without family n kids I will get bored . I’m introvert. Easily I won’t make friends .. Last 3 months family india ki vellaru.. First two weeks  Happy ga Vunanu .. last week India numchi vachharu .. asalu time ledu / saripovatan ledu .. 

Best part have a kid at least one .. definitely you will see happiness by while brining up and at the same time tensions .. if you are a single earner like me 

[FReddy]

14 hours ago, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

bro ye state lo untav? if you are in my state and city.. u can join our gang.. 

[pushparaj]

Enti bro bore antunnav ekkada okka second time ledhu

have kids or start new hobbies or travel

[andhra_jp]

15 hours ago, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

If you can afford and time permits do travel 

plan evening walks on daily basis

If you are staying in cold zone try to shift to warm state 

start reading books exploring topics u r not aware .. maybe try with history books and u and your wife can discuss about the new topics u learned..

practice yoga meditation and read some spirituality books like vivekananda , ramana maharshi ... u may not go towards spiritual path but some points told by them can be helpful to implement in our life

[pushparaj]

Have kids early ani saavagodtharu parents. Endhukante oka kotha perspective vasthadhi life lo

 

pillalu lekunna vasthadhi but you need to seek

 

nannu saavagodtharu e comment ki but I’m going to say anyway: while you are posting this, your wife might have looked at you and thought, this guy is so boring. He doesn’t plan anything for us. All my friends hubbies planned fun stuff. She might be going through boredom. just saying 

[andhrasodabudi]

15 minutes ago, andhra_jp said:

If you can afford and time permits do travel 

plan evening walks on daily basis

If you are staying in cold zone try to shift to warm state 

start reading books exploring topics u r not aware .. maybe try with history books and u and your wife can discuss about the new topics u learned..

practice yoga meditation and read some spirituality books like vivekananda , ramana maharshi ... u may not go towards spiritual path but some points told by them can be helpful to implement in our life

👏

[andhrasodabudi]

9 hours ago, sarvayogi said:

First understand that life is always tough in 30's . My 2c in random order

1)Start every day assuming its a bad day..If good happens then good for you. Dont think every day you will wakeup eat work and sleep happily. Madhyalo mast vastai.Be prepared for it.Smile every day logics pakkana pettu

2)Have responsibilities more than what you can bear. Automatic ga you get serious in life

3)Have daily , weekly , quarterly , monthly goals and strive to achieve them. 

4)Motivation videos all are trash. You have to self motivate. Be the best in your circle and keep improving your circle and you become the best version of you

5)Remember that you are here for a purpose . Understand whats that and groom yourself.

I can say a 100 more like this but some stupid fellow will crack an uppal balu joke. So I stop here

 

👌

[baabaa]

8 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

• Start watching games NFL, NBA. After 1-2 seasons you will be hooked to them. Its an addiction and good timepass.
• Make a list of things that make you happy and start doing those. Some self-love
• Take a vacation with your wife and let her know your expectations and how you feel and get to some agreements.
• Kids make a huge diff in life. You will get so busy, you wont be bored. You will appreciate your boring life now
• Go to Gym. Manchi figures kanipistharu. Inspiring and you will get your workout as well.

correct cheppavu bhayya. same feelings start ayyindi naku koda. 

Kids started playing basketball with tella/nalla kids and started watching NBA and now nenu/wife also started following so gives some purpose and fun to watch games. Cheap tickets vaste NBA games ki koda eltunamu and its good family fun experience. Telugu valu cheyaru kani its very fun. Majority of my telugu friends kaluste either real estate/consultancy/GC/CBN/KCR/Jagan topics tappa emi undadu.

Nenu chesedi to come out of mid life crisis nuvvu list ga cheppesavu

[LadiesTailor]

15 hours ago, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

Have a active life bro.. join gym iddaru kalisi vellandi.. outdoor walks or runs also helps to change the mood

if you are into travel.. go on long trips over the weekend.. every weekend oka place ki velli randi… 

have a habit bro.. and involve your wife in it.. kids okkate kaadu baa America  lo chana vunnayu to keep your life busy.. explore explore explore