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1 hour ago, LadiesTailor said:

Divorce Ichey bro… if you are not comfortable with his affairs.. 

ledu manishi manchodu nannu baga choosukuntadu I love him anukunte give him another year or so 

Kid is involved..he is good father but addicted to extramarital. He says to live my whole live raising kid.

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36 minutes ago, Romeo143 said:

Kid is involved..he is good father but addicted to extramarital. He says to live my whole live raising kid.

I will tell you from my friends experiences, it may sound harsh but okkasari alavatu padithe maararu… unless they break something on their own like family relations or health etc…

kid vunte its complicated yeah… give him a chance to change.. 

Posted
13 hours ago, Romeo143 said:

Husband in extramarital affair since 1 yr. 
denied when caught first, but later caught red handed. Now he says he won’t do and asks to trust and not divorce. Can men forgive and live same way of women commits infidelity why men ask women to forgive and forget?? How can they live normally again? Without thinking abt the affair? It is possible? 

 

Divorce him… kid unna sare

U guys r not happy together anuko evad aapaled

I dont think U wanted to make a decision based on ppl from a online forum… nak thelsi Ur head already made a choice just do it.

Posted

Unfortunately, this is something you have to decide for yourself. Take a decision that works better for you and the kid.

Posted
15 hours ago, Romeo143 said:

Husband in extramarital affair since 1 yr. 
denied when caught first, but later caught red handed. Now he says he won’t do and asks to trust and not divorce. Can men forgive and live same way of women commits infidelity why men ask women to forgive and forget?? How can they live normally again? Without thinking abt the affair? It is possible? 

 

Depends on the situation of the woman and her beliefs. If woman is financially independent and free spirited she may divorce the husband. If not she's more traditional and financially dependent on husband she has to stay back in the marriage.  It also depends on where you live. US or west it's easier for woman to divorce and squeeze husband for alimony. If her visa status is tied to her husband then she is compelled to stay back. Furthermore, woman can also have grudge against the husband and can back with her version of infidelity. If they have kids, then woman looses her marriage value and then stays back. Exceptions are elite families where debauchery is common and don't raise any eye brows.

Posted
3 minutes ago, CanadianMalodu said:

Depends on the situation of the woman and her beliefs. If woman is financially independent and free spirited she may divorce the husband. If not she's more traditional and financially dependent on husband she has to stay back in the marriage.  It also depends on where you live. US or west it's easier for woman to divorce and squeeze husband for alimony. If her visa status is tied to her husband then she is compelled to stay back. Furthermore, woman can also have grudge against the husband and can back with her version of infidelity. If they have kids, then woman looses her marriage value and then stays back. Exceptions are elite families where debauchery is common and don't raise any eye brows.

google chesa lol

Posted
9 hours ago, kakatiya said:

Mods Kotha program start chesinatlunnaru 

This is why you need to preserve female dB accounts by moderating properly. Lot of spammers harrased female accounts and threw them out.

 

There is one female ID who harassed halwa anna and made him a goat

Posted
20 hours ago, Romeo143 said:

Husband in extramarital affair since 1 yr. 
denied when caught first, but later caught red handed. Now he says he won’t do and asks to trust and not divorce. Can men forgive and live same way of women commits infidelity why men ask women to forgive and forget?? How can they live normally again? Without thinking abt the affair? It is possible? 

 

Like many said, its difficult to change a man's behavior. Avakasalu raaka, chala mandi ki Extra marital affair undavu, but avakasam vasthe almost 95+% ready.

Problem is if the person falls in love with other person. If not, if he is a good person and a good dad, you can control him only emotionally. Shame of society and parents and fear of losing family/kids are the only means to put him in control. Only if he fears he will lose family and if "family Love> his desires" he will change. 

Also give him what he desires outside. 

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as a senior member of expat group my sincere advise divorce ichesai period

ledu kudaradu ante 1st me modugu ruchi marigina danni pattukoni ku@tha ramp adiyyi.

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