Life all about kids

[shaktimaan]

19 minutes ago, lollilolli2020 said:

serious ga 20-20 match lu aadi em velagapedthav

manaki personal interests and hobbies laantivi leva bhayya

[Raja_Returns]

ilanti threads chusthe ma lanti 25 years valla ki mamuluga pack avatle taruvatha maku kuda ide situation ani

next time sensitive ani title lo mention cheyandi bro's.

memu post open cheyam

 

[perugu_vada]

1 minute ago, baabaa said:

Weekend kids sports/activities pettakonda if we go for cricket, problem is kids will start doing iPad/TV the whole weekend. Ade valu vala activities lo busy unte they will keep physically running. 
Nothing wrong with either one of them just that manaki emi kavali ani. We have ppl who have back to back kids activities on weekend and others who just leave kids/wife at home for cricket weekend and inti lo pillalu tv/ipad chusta untaru.

Once boys start growing up if you don’t put them in sports Roblox lanti chetta start chestaru. 

thats wrong .. weekends kuda activities ki ani thippithe .. definite ga at one point .. parents will feel stressed out .. weekends family time laga setup cheskovali .. like going out as a family alaa .. apudu kuda activities ante inka when else parents will have time ? activities levu ante ipad/phone/tv ivvatam anedi parents chesey thappu ... avi lekpaothe inka intlo em cheyalera kids ? its just an excuse parents give .. especially where both parents are busy at work 

[EyBisa]

5 minutes ago, Raja_Returns said:

ilanti threads chusthe ma lanti 25 years valla ki mamuluga pack avatle taruvatha maku kuda ide situation ani

next time sensitive ani title lo mention cheyandi bro's.

memu post open cheyam

 

[phatposts]

i think kids got used to your presence and chauffeuring around a bit too much. 

Slowly cut down schedule and you set your schedule too. Unfortunately naaku sports evi raavu i feel very bad to date. Unna interest and skill ni sampeyyaku kids peru cheppi. Week lo oka poota nee interest ki ketayinchu. Then you can take care of them well rest of the time.  Same applies to your spouse too. Oka few hours mana paatiki manam unte reset avtundi. 

Ade grind lo nadipinchali ante evvarikaina kashtame.

[lollilolli2020]

1 minute ago, perugu_vada said:

kids activities ani mundhu parents take so much pressure by placing them in so many after-school activities .. which is not needed at all .. mana ki time unchukovali .. ledante rojantha road meedha ne undaalsi ostundi

ee activities oo kuda cheppu; 

@Sucker ki shopping, neeku and @csrcsr ki poker and mandu 

[lollilolli2020]

31 minutes ago, shaktimaan said:

manaki personal interests and hobbies laantivi leva bhayya

vunnai 
 ante weekend kotha restaurant laki velli break ivvadam; 
pavitra masam kada ekkada haleem baguntadoo velli taste cheyadam does it constitutes hobbies ??
Weekend saturday or Sunday mutton curry + bagara kummi oka sleep vesi; evening costco ki poyi gas and groceries konukoni osta; as a family man intakante emuntayii bro. 
 

[lollilolli2020]

51 minutes ago, LungiLingaraju said:

Mari neeku 22 years unnapud evadu vayya kids ni kanamannadi… 30 old ante Etla saar.. 

late 30's ani poet meaning emo. 

[baabaa]

1 hour ago, perugu_vada said:

thats wrong .. weekends kuda activities ki ani thippithe .. definite ga at one point .. parents will feel stressed out .. weekends family time laga setup cheskovali .. like going out as a family alaa .. apudu kuda activities ante inka when else parents will have time ? activities levu ante ipad/phone/tv ivvatam anedi parents chesey thappu ... avi lekpaothe inka intlo em cheyalera kids ? its just an excuse parents give .. especially where both parents are busy at work 

Example ivvu bro. 13 yr old boy and 11 yr old boys and we want them have ipad/tv for not more than two hr per day on sat and sunday. Emi family activity chestavu cheppu waking up at 9AM on Sat. If you say go to mall and family outing adi only one weekend kada. I am guessing nuvvu living in austin so maybe hiking on trails but adi koda bad/hot weather appudu not possible and every weekend hiking ki ellaru. Kids will go for one or two weekends and get bored with us. So parents put them in tennis, swimming, basketball and other sports meetups that way they play matches with similar aged kids/friends and are busy physically. 

Again, yavari istam valadi bro.

[perugu_vada]

3 hours ago, baabaa said:

Example ivvu bro. 13 yr old boy and 11 yr old boys and we want them have ipad/tv for not more than two hr per day on sat and sunday. Emi family activity chestavu cheppu waking up at 9AM on Sat. If you say go to mall and family outing adi only one weekend kada. I am guessing nuvvu living in austin so maybe hiking on trails but adi koda bad/hot weather appudu not possible and every weekend hiking ki ellaru. Kids will go for one or two weekends and get bored with us. So parents put them in tennis, swimming, basketball and other sports meetups that way they play matches with similar aged kids/friends and are busy physically. 

Again, yavari istam valadi bro.

Naku inka kid into 1st grade ye .. so antha idea lefu .. 

[papampasivadu]

5 hours ago, Raja_Returns said:

ilanti threads chusthe ma lanti 25 years valla ki mamuluga pack avatle taruvatha maku kuda ide situation ani

next time sensitive ani title lo mention cheyandi bro's.

memu post open cheyam

 

anna...pandagalu, public holidays teesesi kadhu anna, kalipi cheppu..

[Konebhar6]

On 3/20/2024 at 2:56 PM, Newporagadu said:

Life has changed a lot these days … eppudu chusina kids chutu tiruguthundhi… I used to play  cricket a lot every weekend till 2021 .. now stopped everything,,, we  just take care of kids activities…kids age 8 & 6 both boys …I am older 30 so naku life vundali kadha ani some time i ignore their activities and go for playing volleyball or so … says daddy today we missed this class ani ..okkasari adhi vennagane I feel like am I doing wrong ?… not taking care of kids anipisthundhi and guilty feel avuthuna…  which is killing me inside..

You schedule your activities around your kids activities and prioritize. Boys need their dad during this age. Don't feel like burden, rather enjoy the time. You wont get this time back. 

Put a schedule and share some of the activities with wife so that you dont feel like a burden for both of you.