shaktimaan Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 1 hour ago, Konebhar6 said: have seen ppl who have kids late struggle to raise them as well with low energy. it’s subjective, if a person is fit and takes care of themselves it won’t be a burden Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaktimaan Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 1 hour ago, Konebhar6 said: You may not feel this way about kids now but when you grow older, your view changes. I have a coleague (mentor/boss) who is 50 now and no kids. Says he never thought about them and did not think it will matter. He says he repents the decision a lot now. again it depends on the person, not everyone will repent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deadp0ol2 Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 7 hours ago, Thokkalee said: Matter in 1 line: Ammailu, Abbailu- thondaragaa Pelli cheskuni chaavandi!! Wrong thinking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartan Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 if given option for changing marriage back in past ...nenu 18 ke pelli cheskuni undalsindi anukunta 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 11 minutes ago, Spartan said: if given option for changing marriage back in past ...nenu 18 ke pelli cheskuni undalsindi anukunta We are talking about marriage uncle.. not first night.. 😄 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 28 minutes ago, shaktimaan said: again it depends on the person, not everyone will repent I think we are talking in general.. there are always exceptions… as a generation, most of them are getting married late, or staying single as they can’t find a person to marry; having late kids with more chances of kids with disabilities.. kids are more self centered as they get all the attention and they get everything they want on a platter… we will see the affects in the next generation.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 43 minutes ago, shaktimaan said: again it depends on the person, not everyone will repent Very true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 47 minutes ago, shaktimaan said: it’s subjective, if a person is fit and takes care of themselves it won’t be a burden True but in general most people are not. Even if they are fit, health problems and energy to raise kids will be less Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaktimaan Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 16 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: I think we are talking in general.. there are always exceptions… as a generation, most of them are getting married late, or staying single as they can’t find a person to marry; having late kids with more chances of kids with disabilities.. kids are more self centered as they get all the attention and they get everything they want on a platter… we will see the affects in the next generation.. its just a process of evolution. We no longer have to fight for survival and with good jobs and money flow people start thinking differently. West has seen this 30-40 years ago. Imo kids are not a necessity rather fruits of marriage or companionship. But marrying just to have kids is beyond stupid, we are not machines Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartan Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 27 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: We are talking about marriage uncle.. not first night.. 😄 marriage ante tondarga kids ye ani ardham anna by 20-22 iddarni kaneste aipotadi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Android_Halwa Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 45 minutes ago, Spartan said: if given option for changing marriage back in past ...nenu 18 ke pelli cheskuni undalsindi anukunta +1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 8 hours ago, shaktimaan said: its just a process of evolution. We no longer have to fight for survival and with good jobs and money flow people start thinking differently. West has seen this 30-40 years ago. Imo kids are not a necessity rather fruits of marriage or companionship. But marrying just to have kids is beyond stupid, we are not machines No kids anukunte it is fine.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futureofandhra Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 9 hours ago, shaktimaan said: its just a process of evolution. We no longer have to fight for survival and with good jobs and money flow people start thinking differently. West has seen this 30-40 years ago. Imo kids are not a necessity rather fruits of marriage or companionship. But marrying just to have kids is beyond stupid, we are not machines Machines don't produce life It's nature Every species on the planet does the same Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 20 hours ago, Rushabhi said: TLDR sperm counts are decreasing and can lead to miscarriages in women. Women are becoming less fertile in their 20s compared to grandmothers at 35. All due to chemicals, plastic in environment. ante ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollilolli2020 Posted April 15 Report Share Posted April 15 12 hours ago, Konebhar6 said: I have friends who got married early as well as late. I constantly hear cribbing from people who got married early. Ppl who got married late don't complain as much. I have seen ppl who have kids late struggle to raise them as well with low energy. Enjoy early life and get married into 30's and have kids before 35. In my experience ppl feel bad about marrying late and having kids late. below late 20's or early 30's lo kids pudithe its easier to raise them coz we are young; cant say the same when its in late 30's coz you cannot be as energetic as you were in your 20s or early 30s. this holds true with desi ppl who are in IT especially; and have minimal fitness levels. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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