quest Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 On 5/18/2024 at 12:20 PM, CaptainMaverick said: have two kids as soon as you get married instead of waiting. a lot of couples are waiting for many reasons. Sometimes it's wife's choice, sometime it's the guy's choice. Don't make the mistake of waiting. Have kids, keep her busy. a very good advice bro. I used to say this... pelli ayyaka wife tho godavalu kontha serious avutunnayi anagaane go for a kid ani.. tarawata malli konchem atu itu unnaka 3 years gap lekunda 2nd kid.. marriage saved 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quest Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 41 minutes ago, RSUCHOU said: In that generation, women suffered more because of imbalance in the power equation. Odidudukulu definite ga common gane untayi. But, why no one wants to adjust annadaniki oka reason is the shift in the power balance ani naa uddesam. 100% true and power imbalance is must to keep the relationship or men are never meant to form a family.. we are polygamous by nature Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nenesuperni Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 On 5/18/2024 at 1:10 PM, tyrion123 said: I think should become more acceptable in Indian society .. much of latin poris in US do this ... they date and make babies ... then separate ... then marry some body else ... but atleast they will have kids ... rather than waiting for perfect partner, getting aged, then no fertility ... ivf. ... then divorce etc ... No fathers in the family is shown or said as major reason for so much sh!t and I personally feel a child must have both for them to grow. Accidents valla aythe ok , Kani intentionally chesthe kids will suffer the consequences 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nenesuperni Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 1 hour ago, RSUCHOU said: What made parent's marriage work is the dependence of the wife on the husband financially. A lot of the women from that generation suffered and did not speak up. The one good thing globalization brought in is to remove that barrier. But, on the flip side, it has thrown adjustment out of the window. A lot of the people that I know are searching for that elusive perfect compatibility and give up on adjusting and accepting spouse's idiosyncrasies. Kids are not a factor once they decide to divorce. There r women who want to chill but husband should earn or die while trying to earn to soothe their wishes and almost all wants ey no needs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaman Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 26 minutes ago, quest said: idi immature adive? pelli ayyindaa bro? kale.... y Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainMaverick Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 1 hour ago, RSUCHOU said: In that generation, women suffered more because of imbalance in the power equation. Odidudukulu definite ga common gane untayi. But, why no one wants to adjust annadaniki oka reason is the shift in the power balance ani naa uddesam. prapancham mottham alane undannaa....ippudu kuda west lo chusthe athivrusti....Islamic countries lo chusthe anavrusti...manavallu right balance lo unnaru...adi kuda last 10 years batti westernization of marriage valla imbalance avuthundi!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 1 hour ago, yemdoing said: ok but why ? zuckuu paisal isthada writers or mods ki ? I think the group is doing it ani naa guess. I don’t know how it works. May be to make their group popular. Whether they get paid or not, I am not aure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riashli Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 On 5/18/2024 at 9:42 PM, futureofandhra said: girls mothers ego Abbayilu amayakulu mari 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prasadgeek33 Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 6 hours ago, quest said: a very good advice bro. I used to say this... pelli ayyaka wife tho godavalu kontha serious avutunnayi anagaane go for a kid ani.. tarawata malli konchem atu itu unnaka 3 years gap lekunda 2nd kid.. marriage saved Save chesi, emi cheddamani? If one does not have compatibility how ever many kids you have, it will just end up being a costly divorce. divorce lo India or US abbayi ki eppudu bokke. Malli kids unte vallani chudalemu. In US if you get a divorce the guy will loose half of everything and including 401k. 99% the guy will lose the house. if you don’t like the person don’t have kids, just divorce before having kids. Kids make everything hard. marriage is not some sacred thing which we have to save. We have one life, live it. Have fun. the whole purpose of our life should not be to raise kids, save money and do lawn moving and talk about American real estate. Hell with this suburban life. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaktimaan Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 1 minute ago, Prasadgeek33 said: Save chesi, emi cheddamani? If one does not have compatibility how ever many kids you have, it will just end up being a costly divorce. divorce lo India or US abbayi ki eppudu bokke. Malli kids unte vallani chudalemu. In US if you get a divorce the guy will loose half of everything and including 401k. 99% the guy will lose the house. if you don’t like the person don’t have kids, just divorce before having kids. Kids make everything hard. marriage is not some sacred thing which we have to save. We have one life, live it. Have fun. the whole purpose of our life should not be to raise kids, save money and do lawn moving and talk about American real estate. Hell with this suburban life. patha kaalam madusulu...idisey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prasadgeek33 Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 Just now, shaktimaan said: patha kaalam madusulu...idisey Nijamga visugu vestundhi bhayya. Intilonchi bayati vachama andaru Edo pralayam vasthundi emo Annatu lawn moving chestuntaru. Inka matladite eppudu, real estate, Costco, house issues, jobs, India flight tickets, prices leka pothe movies. Inka emi topics undavu. Prathi okkadiki okate badha, Edo Sampadincheyali ani. Malli a money antha next gen ABCD gallu full enjoy chestaru. Mana valla motto, 2 kids, 2 jobs, 1 tesla or camry, lot of savings, a big belly and saving as much as possible. Goddu Madiri kasta padi emi chestaru. Life lo e rest ledu. Eppudu Edo oka yatana. Year ki 340K sampadistaru malli Glenlivet 12 minchi konaru, adi kuda Costco lone konali Ekkada 15 miles doramu lo unna Costco line lo nilabadi petrol kontaru. Pakkane unna gas station e Desi gadu podu. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaktimaan Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 7 hours ago, Prasadgeek33 said: Nijamga visugu vestundhi bhayya. Intilonchi bayati vachama andaru Edo pralayam vasthundi emo Annatu lawn moving chestuntaru. Inka matladite eppudu, real estate, Costco, house issues, jobs, India flight tickets, prices leka pothe movies. Inka emi topics undavu. Prathi okkadiki okate badha, Edo Sampadincheyali ani. Malli a money antha next gen ABCD gallu full enjoy chestaru. Mana valla motto, 2 kids, 2 jobs, 1 tesla or camry, lot of savings, a big belly and saving as much as possible. Goddu Madiri kasta padi emi chestaru. Life lo e rest ledu. Eppudu Edo oka yatana. Year ki 340K sampadistaru malli Glenlivet 12 minchi konaru, adi kuda Costco lone konali Ekkada 15 miles doramu lo unna Costco line lo nilabadi petrol kontaru. Pakkane unna gas station e Desi gadu podu. unfortunately I live in suburbia too and hate it you're spitting lots of facts which are true and it's like the old age saying, money can't buy class Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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