Depressed

[BejawadaChow]

13 hours ago, Spartan said:

incase H4 aite, Visa renewal deggara lo unte,

renewal ki apply cheyyak, India pada ani cheppu anni set aitai

H4 wife's ki anta cinema ledu, ekkada F1 chesina porila ke anta G Balupu untadi.

Almost everyone is in the same boat.

[Aquaman]

17 hours ago, Spartan said:

incase H4 aite, Visa renewal deggara lo unte,

renewal ki apply cheyyak, India pada ani cheppu anni set aitai

em ideas ivvi ani @csrcsr asking

[seemaraja]

4 hours ago, Aquaman said:

em ideas ivvi ani @csrcsr asking

I don’t know if its coincidence or not ! Nenu mental ga idhe sketch esukuntunna ! 

[Spartan]

49 minutes ago, seemaraja said:

I don’t know if its coincidence or not ! Nenu mental ga idhe sketch esukuntunna ! 

  go for it buddy... it works

approval ochaka 1 yr ye vachindi ani cheppu Trump ivvatam ledu ani

[Aquaman]

1 hour ago, Spartan said:

  go for it buddy... it works

approval ochaka 1 yr ye vachindi ani cheppu Trump ivvatam ledu ani

y putting petrol in his kapuram uncle ani @csrcsr asking

[lollilolli2020]

On 1/5/2025 at 12:11 AM, Spartan said:

incase H4 aite, Visa renewal deggara lo unte,

renewal ki apply cheyyak, India pada ani cheppu anni set aitai

H4 visa leni yedala ??

[lollilolli2020]

On 1/4/2025 at 10:09 AM, Kuralokarrepak said:

I am in the same boat, new year ki 2 familes(neighbors) ni invite chesa with her consent only and it’s a potluck. Intlo chinna argument valla, neighbors wife ki call chesi, we are cancelling the plan ani chepindhi. Thu deenama jeevitham, social ga move avudham ante e negative force tho life sucks anipisthadhi 

nee lanti jovial ID venakala intha manasika kshoba vundaa. 

[Spartan]

4 minutes ago, lollilolli2020 said:

H4 visa leni yedala ??

yedi unte adi renew cheyakudadu..

[krishnaaa]

On 1/3/2025 at 5:51 PM, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

Save enough, invest and go back.

Thats what I am doing

This country is for extroverts or lucky people who have close knit circle in the same neighborhood.

[seemaraja]

8 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

Save enough, invest and go back.

Thats what I am doing

This country is for extroverts or lucky people who have close knit circle in the same neighborhood.

Agree 💯 !!! 

[kompalokumpati]

The best advice you can give her and yourself is to not to take yourselves too seriously. Any topic, any matter, any thing...even sehex kuda ..don't take yourself too seriously ...ani lite ga chestha unte.....devudu oka roju thunder ⚡ esi... Ladoo kavala nayana antadu...

That's it. Game over. Pillalu, vala pala dabalu...mother in law will become a bureaucratic bich hijacking the director role of your family. 

Then 45ish ki in laws pikinaka, your kids will drain your energy until you're dead. Madhyalo life will give you enough chances to make new friends, but you need to be open to sacrificing a few things to knit new friendships. 

Second and third marriages ki psychopaths ekkuva thatultharu, especially in Indian pillalu cos they come with a bigger list of "do not and don'ts than do(s)". Offcourse you're can explore other ethnicities or just keep dating until 50. 

I would say, unless your current one is also a psycho, don't overthink it. "Laagincheyadame"

 

 

[seemaraja]

On 1/31/2025 at 12:07 AM, kompalokumpati said:

The best advice you can give her and yourself is to not to take yourselves too seriously. Any topic, any matter, any thing...even sehex kuda ..don't take yourself too seriously ...ani lite ga chestha unte.....devudu oka roju thunder ⚡ esi... Ladoo kavala nayana antadu...

That's it. Game over. Pillalu, vala pala dabalu...mother in law will become a bureaucratic bich hijacking the director role of your family. 

Then 45ish ki in laws pikinaka, your kids will drain your energy until you're dead. Madhyalo life will give you enough chances to make new friends, but you need to be open to sacrificing a few things to knit new friendships. 

Second and third marriages ki psychopaths ekkuva thatultharu, especially in Indian pillalu cos they come with a bigger list of "do not and don'ts than do(s)". Offcourse you're can explore other ethnicities or just keep dating until 50. 

I would say, unless your current one is also a psycho, don't overthink it. "Laagincheyadame"

 

 

Wow , great perspective anna 🙏