riashli Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani 8 Quote
jpismahatma Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 This is your life ? Or you are cross posting from somewhere else? Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 Just now, jpismahatma said: This is your life ? Or you are cross posting from somewhere else? Na bonda, na life ne, Quote
appusri Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Counseling or rehabilitation centers try chesara? If your busband agrees, try rehabilitation. B'lore lo manchindhi undhi ani vinna. Some people really stopped. Some people stopped for a few months. Multiple visits may require for these people. Alcohol addict husband unte kashtame. I am sorrry for the kids who have to go through that environment daily. Quote
godfather03 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 6 minutes ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Are you and your dad in India? yes ayithe, break teesukoni India ki velli solve cheyadame…nuvvu US lo undi aayana India lo unte, set cheyalemu…siblings inka evaru lera? Quote
appusri Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 1 minute ago, godfather03 said: Are you and your dad in India? yes ayithe, break teesukoni India ki velli solve cheyadame…nuvvu US lo undi aayana India lo unte, set cheyalemu…siblings inka evaru lera? I think she is from India. Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 4 minutes ago, appusri said: Counseling or rehabilitation centers try chesara? If your busband agrees, try rehabilitation. B'lore lo manchindhi undhi ani vinna. Some people really stopped. Some people stopped for a few months. Multiple visits may require for these people. Alcohol addict husband unte kashtame. I am sorrry for the kids who have to go through that environment daily. Blore rehab lo already vesam nana ni, they asked us to take him away after 2 months, konni months controlled but again back to normal Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 2 minutes ago, godfather03 said: Are you and your dad in India? yes ayithe, break teesukoni India ki velli solve cheyadame…nuvvu US lo undi aayana India lo unte, set cheyalemu…siblings inka evaru lera? India ne, nenu Mumbai lo unta, amma vallu blore lo untaru with brother, he is also unable to control the situation, last week guntur vellaru, appati nundi mari ghoram 1 Quote
appusri Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 2 minutes ago, riashli said: Blore rehab lo already vesam nana ni, they asked us to take him away after 2 months, konni months controlled but again back to normal Sad. Try researching for the foods that can stop alcohol craving - like this. Dhaniki thaggattu intlo food habits change chesi choodu. https://compassionbehavioralhealth.com/7-foods-that-can-help-stop-alcohol-cravings/ Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 1 minute ago, appusri said: Sad. Try rereasching for the foods that can stop alcohol craving - like this. Dhaniki thaggattu intlo food habits change chesi choodu. https://compassionbehavioralhealth.com/7-foods-that-can-help-stop-alcohol-cravings/ He hardly eats anything, just want to drink n sleep... He doesn't realise any relationships, emotions nor care for anyone 1 Quote
jpismahatma Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 5 minutes ago, riashli said: Na bonda, na life ne, Sorry to hear that. Many people bring posts from elsewhere. looks like your dad has given up. How much does he drink ? What’s your mom doing ? Why are you constantly getting feeded about your dad without trying something from their side. Also your mom has given up too ? Addiction is not easy thing to give up. I lost few friends and relatives over 2 decades. Quote
godfather03 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 2 minutes ago, riashli said: He hardly eats anything, just want to drink n sleep... He doesn't realise any relationships, emotions nor care for anyone 6 minutes ago, riashli said: India ne, nenu Mumbai lo unta, amma vallu blore lo untaru with brother, he is also unable to control the situation, last week guntur vellaru, appati nundi mari ghoram Okay - sad to hear about your health situation affected due to this. Edaina particular ga trigger chesthunda? Quote
appusri Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 7 minutes ago, riashli said: He hardly eats anything, just want to drink n sleep... He doesn't realise any relationships, emotions nor care for anyone Hmm..edhi work kakapothe..there are some tablets, lunch/dinner lo kalipi ivvadame (theliyakunda), you may need to contact doctor for tablet and the dose. I have seen two people in family/relatives and one close friend who ruined their lives with this habit. Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 2 minutes ago, jpismahatma said: Sorry to hear that. Many people bring posts from elsewhere. looks like your dad has given up. How much does he drink ? What’s your mom doing ? Why are you constantly getting feeded about your dad without trying something from their side. Also your mom has given up too ? Addiction is not easy thing to give up. I lost few friends and relatives over 2 decades. She also fights with him a lot, she even keeps him locked, he gets more aggressive, the moment she takes charge, he threatens of suicide.. he spends his pension in no time n keeps calling me n my husband for money... Anna daily bottle testadu, still it's not enough.. he is a heart patient, ma worry ade.. amma keeps crying that he keeps calling my husband for money n one day my family life will be disturbed, husband transfers money but doesn't say anything to me, atha garu also knows this issue. Everyone keeps telling me to take care of my health first but unable to unsee situations Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 3 minutes ago, appusri said: Hmm..edhi work kakapothe..there are some tablets, lunch/dinner lo kalipi ivvadame (theliyakunda), you may need to contact doctor for tablet and the dose. I have seen two people in family/relatives and one close friend who ruined their lives with this habit. We tried this tabs too, it didn't help much, then we moved him to rehab 1 Quote
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