riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 5 minutes ago, godfather03 said: Okay - sad to hear about your health situation affected due to this. Edaina particular ga trigger chesthunda? No particular trigger, he isn't bothered about anything or anyone, money iche daka keeps pestering us Quote
jpismahatma Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 3 minutes ago, riashli said: She also fights with him a lot, she even keeps him locked, he gets more aggressive, the moment she takes charge, he threatens of suicide.. he spends his pension in no time n keeps calling me n my husband for money... Anna daily bottle testadu, still it's not enough.. he is a heart patient, ma worry ade.. amma keeps crying that he keeps calling my husband for money n one day my family life will be disturbed, husband transfers money but doesn't say anything to me, atha garu also knows this issue. Everyone keeps telling me to take care of my health first but unable to unsee situations . He might drink with friends. Think of cutting that or avoiding places. Take to temple and make him Promise on god. A disaster is waiting to happen . It’s hard to not think about your dad. Try to divert your attention to improve your life. Somethings you cannot change. It. Quote
UmmNagarjuna Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 soorry to hear.. ikkada kante try in reddit groups like https://www.reddit.com/r/stopdrinking/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndia/comments/1dtfat0/looking_for_a_drug_and_alcohol_rehab_center_in/ 2 Quote
Pahelwan4 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 10 minutes ago, riashli said: She also fights with him a lot, she even keeps him locked, he gets more aggressive, the moment she takes charge, he threatens of suicide.. he spends his pension in no time n keeps calling me n my husband for money... Anna daily bottle testadu, still it's not enough.. he is a heart patient, ma worry ade.. amma keeps crying that he keeps calling my husband for money n one day my family life will be disturbed, husband transfers money but doesn't say anything to me, atha garu also knows this issue. Everyone keeps telling me to take care of my health first but unable to unsee situations I think he should be left alone. How old is he? Quote
vorey_peteruuu Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Mix b12, b6, thiamine, gaba, and omega 3 in his food. surely cravings should reduce all these supplies are available in powder or capsule form Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 7 minutes ago, Pahelwan4 said: I think he should be left alone. How old is he? 70 Quote
AndhraneedSCS Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 You should talk to your husband and have an open conversation with him. Make sure he knows that you don't encourage your father and that you are out of ideas about doing anything to stop this from happening. Is he under the influence even when he calls you and your spouse for money? Quote
Pahelwan4 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 3 minutes ago, riashli said: 70 Ya I think he should be left alone at this age. May be he thinks he is done with the life and doesn’t have much to do. Nothing helps at this age when they determined of something. It’s foolish to even think about it and waste your own health and your family’s 2 Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 2 minutes ago, AndhraneedSCS said: You should talk to your husband and have an open conversation with him. Make sure he knows that you don't encourage your father and that you are out of ideas about doing anything to stop this from happening. Is he under the influence even when he calls you and your spouse for money? He knows am not in favour of..but doesn't like me picking calls entire day.. he and my mother in law says, what if something happens to me, what will happen to kids, everytime I go for check up, dr says, my bp is close to stroke.. just that am unable to not bother, even tho my mother is like whatever happens will happen to father, u care for yourself Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 1 minute ago, futureofandhra said: What's the reason for his addiction Probably no responsibility or fear of anything, we are all settled Quote
Pahelwan4 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Just now, riashli said: He knows am not in favour of..but doesn't like me picking calls entire day.. he and my mother in law says, what if something happens to me, what will happen to kids, everytime I go for check up, dr says, my bp is close to stroke.. just that am unable to not bother, even tho my mother is like whatever happens will happen to father, u care for yourself What your mom said is true. I think your brother is also thinking same. You are worrying too much Quote
riashli Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 2 minutes ago, Pahelwan4 said: Ya I think he should be left alone at this age. May be he thinks he is done with the life and doesn’t have much to do. Nothing helps at this age when they determined of something. It’s foolish to even think about it and waste your own health and your family’s Why can't he think he has lovely grandkids, settled son & daughter, he can just eat, drink in limit n enjoy life, but threatening constantly is something bothering us Quote
siva604 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Apart from buying more drinks , there is nothing much you can do. That ship has sailed already. 1 Quote
siva604 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Apart from buying more drinks , there is nothing much you can do. That ship has sailed already. There is only one person you can control in life. That is you. We can’t control adults. Quote
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