7691 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Asking son in law for money to drink is the lowest a parent can go since it could spoil daughters married life. threatening to suicide is all next level. alcohol addiction and gambling are tough to get rid off and if a grown up ready to stoop low, there is nothing anyone can do. as someone suggested, join your father in some ashramam with proper security. And ask your husband not to give any money. cut him loose. Its ok to feel worst to do that to father but sometimes its the right thing to do. Quote
CanadianMalodu Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 8 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani I have a wild idea. Try him to smoke or ingest Cannabis or ganja. It should keep him away from Alcohol. Hook him to Cannabis when he gets the desire to consume alcohol. Get him to eat an Omelette made with Ganja. If you're a vegetarian then you can make him a ganja tea. I've experimented with Ganja, Alcohol in my prime youth during undergrad. Alcohol withdrawal will give you insomnia which is why you crawl back to it. Alcohol also makes you agitated where as Cannabis keeps you calm. When you're sufficiently stoned neither you want people to bother you nor you want to bother them. It increases hunger so your appetite goes up and then you get to sleep well too. This is my empirical observation. The consensus among scientific community is mixed. But why not give it a try, Instead of thinking it as a taboo. Quote
Konebhar6 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 12 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Accept it and move on. The early the better. Quote
aratipandu Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 5 hours ago, CanadianMalodu said: I have a wild idea. Try him to smoke or ingest Cannabis or ganja. It should keep him away from Alcohol. Hook him to Cannabis when he gets the desire to consume alcohol. Get him to eat an Omelette made with Ganja. If you're a vegetarian then you can make him a ganja tea. I've experimented with Ganja, Alcohol in my prime youth during undergrad. Alcohol withdrawal will give you insomnia which is why you crawl back to it. Alcohol also makes you agitated where as Cannabis keeps you calm. When you're sufficiently stoned neither you want people to bother you nor you want to bother them. It increases hunger so your appetite goes up and then you get to sleep well too. This is my empirical observation. The consensus among scientific community is mixed. But why not give it a try, Instead of thinking it as a taboo. anna...me canada lo legal anna cannabis...India lo therapeutic grade dorkadhu, naatu sarku dorkuddhi... musalodu pothadu atu itu aythe.. Quote
nuvvu_naakina_paalem Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 14 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Forced rehab With both psychiatrist and deaddiction treatment One of my doorapu relativr got better with this 1 Quote
Thokkalee Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 6 hours ago, CanadianMalodu said: I have a wild idea. Try him to smoke or ingest Cannabis or ganja. It should keep him away from Alcohol. Hook him to Cannabis when he gets the desire to consume alcohol. Get him to eat an Omelette made with Ganja. If you're a vegetarian then you can make him a ganja tea. I've experimented with Ganja, Alcohol in my prime youth during undergrad. Alcohol withdrawal will give you insomnia which is why you crawl back to it. Alcohol also makes you agitated where as Cannabis keeps you calm. When you're sufficiently stoned neither you want people to bother you nor you want to bother them. It increases hunger so your appetite goes up and then you get to sleep well too. This is my empirical observation. The consensus among scientific community is mixed. But why not give it a try, Instead of thinking it as a taboo. 1 Quote
ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 15 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Post in Indian expats me mummy ki daddy ki divorce ichayi ani salaha istharu 2 Quote
pakeer_saab Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 15 hours ago, riashli said: 70 my honest advice, wait for judgement day, till then do not think about it I dont think one can help someone who is addicted at age 70, only options is to let them leave this world on peace at age 70, there is no more optimism for them, it is hard to make them commit to anything this is the only option that has worked for many, I dont think its worth taking a lottery at age 70 as these ceremonys are very expensive https://www.vice.com/en/article/ayahuasca-a-possible-cure-for-alcoholism-and-depression/ Quote
pakeer_saab Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 10 hours ago, siva604 said: Apart from buying more drinks , there is nothing much you can do. That ship has sailed already. 55-60 is the last train to reform one self, i havent seen anyone changing after this age Quote
pakeer_saab Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 15 hours ago, riashli said: He hardly eats anything, just want to drink n sleep... He doesn't realise any relationships, emotions nor care for anyone how long is he been driking at such levels, is that recent or from long time? Quote
TeluguTexas Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 16 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Let him drink and say good byee forever! his liver will damaged due to excess drinking, finally you can be happy than to live in fear with a troubled person. Sorryy if it hurts you! Call police when he drinks and creates trouble, have him locked up in jail for 3 days for disturbing your lives, if he threatens to do harm, tell him to do it infront of police, go harsh Quote
praying Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 forced rehab is the only option, though sudden stop of alcohol will drive him crazy so he needs to be supervised... Some people recommended food changes, ganja, some medications but in extreme cases like your dad its not even worth trying... Tenali daggara edo natural rehab center undi and they handle these type of patients with best care possible.. do some research and join him.... @riashli Quote
praying Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 5 minutes ago, TeluguTexas said: Let him drink and say good byee forever! his liver will damaged due to excess drinking, finally you can be happy than to live in fear with a troubled person. Sorryy if it hurts you! Call police when he drinks and creates trouble, have him locked up in jail for 3 days for disturbing your lives, if he threatens to do harm, tell him to do it infront of police, go harsh he is her dad and he needs help. Edo darina poye danayya lekka police complaint ivvu, sachipomanu endi vayya idi... Quote
TeluguTexas Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 1 hour ago, praying said: he is her dad and he needs help. Edo darina poye danayya lekka police complaint ivvu, sachipomanu endi vayya idi... what help?? Is he a childd to not understand what he is doing?? enough is enough, na bidda ni family ni entha aina sathayisthaa aanukunte he is nothing short of a sadisttt, he must be punished the harsh way, appudu set Quote
praying Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 8 minutes ago, TeluguTexas said: what help?? Is he a childd to not understand what he is doing?? enough is enough, na bidda ni family ni entha aina sathayisthaa aanukunte he is nothing short of a sadisttt, he must be punished the harsh way, appudu set He is old and an addict, nothing less than a child at this point. He needs help, he needs care. neeku bothiga addiction ante telvanattu undi vayya, entha control chesukunna people can’t Quote
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