lollilolli2020 Posted April 15 Author Report Posted April 15 Just now, CanadianMalodu said: Kevin posts vere level, double masala untadhi. Not these family storiesš vunnaiĀ neekosam oka @kevinUsaĀ level story erukocha, I hope it lives up to his ranku standards.Ā I came to the USA to pursue my master's in 2017. It was my first time away from home, and I felt vulnerable, missing my family and parents deeply. After arriving in the U.S., I met a man who was six years older than me. He was intelligent and seemed to have a better understanding of the worldāwhile I had come straight from graduation, naive and unaware of how the world worked. He was married back in India, but he didnāt tell anyoneānot even his roommates. He told me his wife would join him after he completed his master's and got a job. Gradually, he began making advances toward me, which became increasingly physical and sexual. I found comfort in that. We entered a sexual relationship, and he told me he needed physical comfort because he was away from his wife and wanted someone to fulfill that need. I didnāt have feelings for him, but I welcomed the sexual attention, as it helped calm my anxious and overwhelmed mind. We ended up in a āfriends with benefitsā relationship that lasted almost a year. Eventually, though, I don't know how, his wife found out. As expected, everything turned chaotic. He placed the entire blame on me, saying I had pursued him. I donāt know what other lies he told or how he defamed me, but he once mentioned that his wife was naive and trusted him blindly, so she would believe whatever he said. I suspect he had a plan to emotionally manipulate me. He used to ask things like, āYou're falling in love with me, right?ā and when I said no, heād respond, āDonāt lie⦠Iām just that irresistible.ā After the incident, reality hit me hard. I realized I had been a homewreckerāthe very thing I never wanted to be. So, I decided to end the relationship completely and move on. Since it had been emotionless, it was easier to walk away, but I knew my character had taken a hit because of the choices Iād made. Now, we have no contact. Through mutual friends, I know that his wife is here, they have a baby, and theyāre living a happy life. Iām also settled nowāmarried and expecting a child. My husband knows about my past, but he doesnāt like discussing it. Still, I carry a deep fear of karma. Even though I wasnāt the one cheating, I was part of itāand I knew he was married. Sometimes, when I lie in bed at night, this incident flashes in my mind, and guilt consumes me. I was raised with strong values, and this was never something I imagined myself doing. I worry that I caused someone else pain and that I knowingly repeated the mistake. Is there any way I can calm my mind and clear my karma? Quote
FrustratedVuncle Posted April 15 Report Posted April 15 1 hour ago, lollilolli2020 said: Hi All, We live in Dallas. I am on H1B and got a job offer after a recent lay off and would need to relocate to Bentonville. We bought a house last year and my kid goes to Kindergarten here in Dallas. My wife is on H1B as well and works remotely. Trying to decide if it is a good idea to sell the house and move the whole family to Bentonville. Looking for experiences from people that commute from Bentonville to Dallas on a biweekly or monthly basis. Is this manageable? aa walmart ki 2 days /week chaalu annadu friend gadu. Just communte until you find another job in Dallas.Ā Quote
lollilolli2020 Posted April 15 Author Report Posted April 15 2 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said: aa walmart ki 2 days /week chaalu annadu friend gadu. Just communte until you find another job in Dallas.Ā ekkada vunnai anna Dallas lo jobs.Ā andaru last names ki suffixes chustunnaru avi lekapotey kastam ani telling Dallas area lo.Ā Quote
kevinUsa Posted April 15 Report Posted April 15 1 hour ago, tennisluvrredux said: Mari Monday night hotel lo stay aah hotel stay enduku they will live in Fayetteville with ms students and save money if possible anything can happenĀ Quote
pakeer_saab Posted April 15 Report Posted April 15 1 hour ago, lollilolli2020 said: Hi All, We live in Dallas. I am on H1B and got a job offer after a recent lay off and would need to relocate to Bentonville. We bought a house last year and my kid goes to Kindergarten here in Dallas. My wife is on H1B as well and works remotely. Trying to decide if it is a good idea to sell the house and move the whole family to Bentonville. Looking for experiences from people that commute from Bentonville to Dallas on a biweekly or monthly basis. Is this manageable? high risk with so much driving, all it takes is one bad second driving for long is not a long term solution Ā Quote
kevinUsa Posted April 15 Report Posted April 15 1 minute ago, pakeer_saab said: high risk with so much driving, all it takes is one bad second driving for long is not a long term solution Ā risk anutnnav mari em cheyali cheppu Quote
pakeer_saab Posted April 15 Report Posted April 15 3 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: risk anutnnav mari em cheyali cheppu move to Bentonville, his wife is remote wanly right kids daycare eeh kada not UT Dallas right ?? local jobs are nearly impossible in dallas at this time, move out where jobs areĀ zara dallas ni vadileyandi ra babu.. Quote
citizenofIND Posted April 15 Report Posted April 15 1 hour ago, Sucker said: Ee time lo h1 meedha Job poyi malli ventaneĀ vavhindhu chudu ventane adhi success ante mkgathavi will follow slow ga by orderĀ Many positions in Texas uncle. Local candidates preferred these days.Ā Quote
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.