Blackberry Posted May 30 Report Posted May 30 20 hours ago, Konebhar6 said: Over a period of time, observing people and knowing myself, I realized most cases, a person gets 90% Father+Mother traits, both GOOD and BAD. Most people I saw seem to dislike some qualities in their parents, but cannot recognize the same in themselves. Same with kids. Life becomes a lot easy if we recognize these and put a plan to get over the traits we don't like. Any one observed similar? Nuvvu matram gajji pulka vi Quote
usetime63 Posted May 30 Report Posted May 30 43 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said: 90% may be an exaggeration, but we do see a lot of our traits in our parents. Ignoring the % part, being aware of common bad traits and working on them is imp. For e.g. My friend talks a lot about his father how he is dominating, does not let his mom talk, etc etc. He does not realize that he is exact same. Does same to his wife. When we are aware, we put a plan to correct them and become a better person for people around us. Yeah , naku a experience eppudu avaledu, at least with me or someone I know, I know people who are quite opposites also. But either way knowing one self really helps either they get from parents or not. 1 Quote
Konebhar6 Posted May 30 Author Report Posted May 30 1 hour ago, Blackberry said: Nuvvu matram gajji pulka vi I told you in your previous ID to stop obsessing about me. Apparently you cannot. Quote
Blackberry Posted May 30 Report Posted May 30 13 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said: I told you in your previous ID to stop obsessing about me. Apparently you cannot. LOL ninnu chala mandi esinattu unnaru ga Quote
Konebhar6 Posted May 30 Author Report Posted May 30 32 minutes ago, Blackberry said: LOL ninnu chala mandi esinattu unnaru ga Hopefully, this topic and your posts will prompt you to self-introspect and discover that the things you accuse others of are actually within yourself. The truth is in your posts. Check them out. Get well. Quote
Spartan Posted May 30 Report Posted May 30 One trait I can think of is...living frugal no matter how much u are making...... got it from grandpa... i dont see it in my other siblings. 1 Quote
Konebhar6 Posted May 30 Author Report Posted May 30 7 minutes ago, Spartan said: One trait I can think of is...living frugal no matter how much u are making...... got it from grandpa... i dont see it in my other siblings. My sister and I are very different people. I see a few of her traits in my mom. As for me, I got traits equally from both parents. 1 Quote
Blackberry Posted June 1 Report Posted June 1 On 5/30/2025 at 1:42 PM, Konebhar6 said: Hopefully, this topic and your posts will prompt you to self-introspect and discover that the things you accuse others of are actually within yourself. The truth is in your posts. Check them out. Get well. lol first you get well from your kg Quote
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