Telugu community in Seattle learn some basic manners

[kevinUsa]

To the Telugu community in Seattle I want to share my experience and why I feel some of you need to learn some basic manners. Living in the USA and owning a GC does not mean we own the place. We need to respect everyone around us especially elders.

I had taken my 70-year-old parents to the temple for Krishna Janmashtami celebrations. After the aarti we went for Prasad. My parents waited patiently for others to finish before taking a seat. When they finally sat my mother got up for a moment to get a glass of water that was kept a little far. In that short time a Telugu lady (~30-35 year old) dragged my mother’s chair away and sat down. No asking, no talks just dragged out of no where. My mother almost fell but luckily I was vigilante. The lady did not even apologized , she just smiled like a devil and started eating. Out of respect for the temple and the festival we did not say anything and quietly left after my parents finished their food. I know she was Telugu because she started talking to her friends in that language and I can tell as I have lived in Hyderabad for a few years and can differentiate between South Indian languages.

There were other things too which left a bad impression. In the Prasad line everyone will get their turn so please respect the queue instead of bringing your whole neighborhood in front. Even in parking there is a system. It is first come first serve. You do not get a spot just because your friend is already parked there.

I have lived in Hyderabad and have many Telugu friends and colleagues. I never felt such behavior there. But here in Seattle I have started getting a very negative vibe from such experiences.Please learn some manners and etiquettes in public .

[RoyalQ]

Very bad

[akkum_bakkum]

53 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

To the Telugu community in Seattle I want to share my experience and why I feel some of you need to learn some basic manners. Living in the USA and owning a GC does not mean we own the place. We need to respect everyone around us especially elders.

I had taken my 70-year-old parents to the temple for Krishna Janmashtami celebrations. After the aarti we went for Prasad. My parents waited patiently for others to finish before taking a seat. When they finally sat my mother got up for a moment to get a glass of water that was kept a little far. In that short time a Telugu lady (~30-35 year old) dragged my mother’s chair away and sat down. No asking, no talks just dragged out of no where. My mother almost fell but luckily I was vigilante. The lady did not even apologized , she just smiled like a devil and started eating. Out of respect for the temple and the festival we did not say anything and quietly left after my parents finished their food. I know she was Telugu because she started talking to her friends in that language and I can tell as I have lived in Hyderabad for a few years and can differentiate between South Indian languages.

There were other things too which left a bad impression. In the Prasad line everyone will get their turn so please respect the queue instead of bringing your whole neighborhood in front. Even in parking there is a system. It is first come first serve. You do not get a spot just because your friend is already parked there.

I have lived in Hyderabad and have many Telugu friends and colleagues. I never felt such behavior there. But here in Seattle I have started getting a very negative vibe from such experiences.Please learn some manners and etiquettes in public .

Aamathranike….maa dallas lo gisuntiyyi masthaithai antunna locals.

[BattalaSathi]

55 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

To the Telugu community in Seattle I want to share my experience and why I feel some of you need to learn some basic manners. Living in the USA and owning a GC does not mean we own the place. We need to respect everyone around us especially elders.

I had taken my 70-year-old parents to the temple for Krishna Janmashtami celebrations. After the aarti we went for Prasad. My parents waited patiently for others to finish before taking a seat. When they finally sat my mother got up for a moment to get a glass of water that was kept a little far. In that short time a Telugu lady (~30-35 year old) dragged my mother’s chair away and sat down. No asking, no talks just dragged out of no where. My mother almost fell but luckily I was vigilante. The lady did not even apologized , she just smiled like a devil and started eating. Out of respect for the temple and the festival we did not say anything and quietly left after my parents finished their food. I know she was Telugu because she started talking to her friends in that language and I can tell as I have lived in Hyderabad for a few years and can differentiate between South Indian languages.

There were other things too which left a bad impression. In the Prasad line everyone will get their turn so please respect the queue instead of bringing your whole neighborhood in front. Even in parking there is a system. It is first come first serve. You do not get a spot just because your friend is already parked there.

I have lived in Hyderabad and have many Telugu friends and colleagues. I never felt such behavior there. But here in Seattle I have started getting a very negative vibe from such experiences.Please learn some manners and etiquettes in public .

donkey egg em kaadhu.."we are like this only" antunna tejams.

[Marsmangalodu]

Enti okka telugu lady chesthe mottam community ni antadi..ee north galla athi oka range lo untadi malla manaki neethulu cheptunnaru

[2024]

Ee north Indians lavada batch eppudu south meda *** crying chestunee untaru 

[nenu_meeku_telusa]

We want other side of story antunna db 35 years youth 

[DallasKarreBaluu]

2 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

To the Telugu community in Seattle I want to share my experience and why I feel some of you need to learn some basic manners. Living in the USA and owning a GC does not mean we own the place. We need to respect everyone around us especially elders.

I had taken my 70-year-old parents to the temple for Krishna Janmashtami celebrations. After the aarti we went for Prasad. My parents waited patiently for others to finish before taking a seat. When they finally sat my mother got up for a moment to get a glass of water that was kept a little far. In that short time a Telugu lady (~30-35 year old) dragged my mother’s chair away and sat down. No asking, no talks just dragged out of no where. My mother almost fell but luckily I was vigilante. The lady did not even apologized , she just smiled like a devil and started eating. Out of respect for the temple and the festival we did not say anything and quietly left after my parents finished their food. I know she was Telugu because she started talking to her friends in that language and I can tell as I have lived in Hyderabad for a few years and can differentiate between South Indian languages.

There were other things too which left a bad impression. In the Prasad line everyone will get their turn so please respect the queue instead of bringing your whole neighborhood in front. Even in parking there is a system. It is first come first serve. You do not get a spot just because your friend is already parked there.

I have lived in Hyderabad and have many Telugu friends and colleagues. I never felt such behavior there. But here in Seattle I have started getting a very negative vibe from such experiences.Please learn some manners and etiquettes in public .

matter in 2 lines lo chepu ra

[nenu_meeku_telusa]

1 minute ago, DallasKarreBaluu said:

matter in 2 lines lo chepu ra

The writer shares a bad experience at a Seattle temple where their elderly mother was disrespected by a fellow Telugu attendee, highlighting a lack of courtesy. They urge the Telugu community to practice basic manners—respecting elders, queues, and parking rules—when in public.

[DallasKarreBaluu]

1 minute ago, nenu_meeku_telusa said:

The writer shares a bad experience at a Seattle temple where their elderly mother was disrespected by a fellow Telugu attendee, highlighting a lack of courtesy. They urge the Telugu community to practice basic manners—respecting elders, queues, and parking rules—when in public.

They don't have a right to tell  and can suggest them to move to Dallaspuram for gaining back the respect

[vegasvegas]

While I agree that behaviour is bad.

 

ilanti eeripuvvu behaviour temples lo ekkuva chesedhi north indians

[Redarya]

3 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

To the Telugu community in Seattle I want to share my experience and why I feel some of you need to learn some basic manners. Living in the USA and owning a GC does not mean we own the place. We need to respect everyone around us especially elders.

I had taken my 70-year-old parents to the temple for Krishna Janmashtami celebrations. After the aarti we went for Prasad. My parents waited patiently for others to finish before taking a seat. When they finally sat my mother got up for a moment to get a glass of water that was kept a little far. In that short time a Telugu lady (~30-35 year old) dragged my mother’s chair away and sat down. No asking, no talks just dragged out of no where. My mother almost fell but luckily I was vigilante. The lady did not even apologized , she just smiled like a devil and started eating. Out of respect for the temple and the festival we did not say anything and quietly left after my parents finished their food. I know she was Telugu because she started talking to her friends in that language and I can tell as I have lived in Hyderabad for a few years and can differentiate between South Indian languages.

There were other things too which left a bad impression. In the Prasad line everyone will get their turn so please respect the queue instead of bringing your whole neighborhood in front. Even in parking there is a system. It is first come first serve. You do not get a spot just because your friend is already parked there.

I have lived in Hyderabad and have many Telugu friends and colleagues. I never felt such behavior there. But here in Seattle I have started getting a very negative vibe from such experiences.Please learn some manners and etiquettes in public .

Thanks for forwarding a hate message. 
 

To be frank Telugollu chala better. Those gujju Punjabi Delhi northies are more arrogant. They start a sentence with you Southwest when they start a conversation.

Telugode telugodiki enemy. Manollalo manam kottukonna unite against others

[thokkalobokkalo]

3 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

To the Telugu community in Seattle I want to share my experience and why I feel some of you need to learn some basic manners. Living in the USA and owning a GC does not mean we own the place. We need to respect everyone around us especially elders.

I had taken my 70-year-old parents to the temple for Krishna Janmashtami celebrations. After the aarti we went for Prasad. My parents waited patiently for others to finish before taking a seat. When they finally sat my mother got up for a moment to get a glass of water that was kept a little far. In that short time a Telugu lady (~30-35 year old) dragged my mother’s chair away and sat down. No asking, no talks just dragged out of no where. My mother almost fell but luckily I was vigilante. The lady did not even apologized , she just smiled like a devil and started eating. Out of respect for the temple and the festival we did not say anything and quietly left after my parents finished their food. I know she was Telugu because she started talking to her friends in that language and I can tell as I have lived in Hyderabad for a few years and can differentiate between South Indian languages.

There were other things too which left a bad impression. In the Prasad line everyone will get their turn so please respect the queue instead of bringing your whole neighborhood in front. Even in parking there is a system. It is first come first serve. You do not get a spot just because your friend is already parked there.

I have lived in Hyderabad and have many Telugu friends and colleagues. I never felt such behavior there. But here in Seattle I have started getting a very negative vibe from such experiences.Please learn some manners and etiquettes in public .

I used to be just like you until I reached a point where I realized my folks were not happy internally when they saw me adjusting here with culture things. Then the following onwards, I got my Bhaisa (my native place version of me) out. if they are 30-35 and not 21 year old letha MS pillakalu, I would have politicized and made such a mess there, lanjallu educhukunta 10 days lockdown lo savali. 

[thokkalobokkalo]

following outing*

[nizambadnarsingyadav]

Dallas:Hold my Beer