Papam pellijoduku

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

#c20971

 

"My Last Resort: An Appeal for a Reason

This is my story. I was set to get married on October 24th, but all of a sudden, the wedding was called off. My fiancée eloped with her lover the day before Diwali. She has blocked everyone on WhatsApp, Instagram, and all other channels.

My Background

I am a 30-year-old man working as a Mechanical Design Lead at Valeo. I earn around 13 LPA. I am an only child; both my parents are retired and receive a combined pension of around 30,000 per month. We live in a rented house in Chennai, and we also own a piece of land (3,600 sqft) in Thalambur. Due to my family situation, I focused intensely on my studies. During college, I took on part-time jobs—catering, valet parking, and room service—to support myself. As a mechanical engineer in a core R&D field, I've had minimal interaction with women, which is why I've been single and, to be honest, I'm still a virgin.

Her Family Background

She is from my native place. She is the eldest of three siblings. Her father passed away when she was in the 8th grade, and her mother single-handedly raised her and her siblings. Her younger sister is currently pursuing her Master's in Electronics and Communication, and her younger brother is working at CTS.

Our Engagement & My Efforts

When we were discussing marriage, I was completely transparent. I asked her about her preferences, career goals, post-marriage responsibilities, and financial management.

She was also open about her past relationships, including physical intimacy with two different men (a college senior and a classmate from TCS).

Despite her past, I was ready to commit. Before the engagement, I specifically asked her: Are you truly ready for this arranged marriage? Do you love anyone else? I even told her that if she did love someone, I was willing to speak to both families to get them married—I have successfully helped another girl do this in the past.

She firmly stated she was not in any relationship and told me everything about her past. I believed she was being honest and deserved a good future. We got engaged four weeks later.

Knowing her family's struggle, 

 

I took on the entire burden of the wedding expenses. We booked the marriage hall, catering service, purchased the Thali and saree, and printed invitations for both families. We did not expect a single rupee from her side. All we asked was for her to come to the hall and marry me. I spent around 11.8 lakhs in total and had started distributing the invitations.

My Plea

The money is not the issue; I can cancel a few things and get refunds.

My only question is: WHY?

We discussed everything. You could have told me this earlier. Have you thought about your mother's situation? You have brought deep embarrassment to both families. Your single mother struggled immensely to raise you, but with one simple, selfish act, you have brought everything down.

Do you know how much pain your mother is in when she hears people say, ""அப்பா இல்லாம வளர்ந்த பொண்ணு இப்படித்தான் இருக்கும்"" (A girl raised without a father will be like this)?

I just need a reason.

WHY? WHAT HAPPENED ALL OF A SUDDEN?"

[ranku_mogudu]

VUUUUUU

[BattalaSathi]

2 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

 

Despite her past, I was ready to commit. Before the engagement, I specifically asked her: Are you truly ready for this arranged marriage? Do you love anyone else? I even told her that if she did love someone, I was willing to speak to both families to get them married—I have successfully helped another girl do this in the past.

 

veedi peru ThyagaRajo edho ayi undaali.  Leka Mouna Ragam Mohan, mana enni telugu cinemallo Nagio/Venkio/Srikanth ittanti roles konni vandalu vesinattu gurthu.  

[Thokkalee]

3 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

#c20971

 

"My Last Resort: An Appeal for a Reason

This is my story. I was set to get married on October 24th, but all of a sudden, the wedding was called off. My fiancée eloped with her lover the day before Diwali. She has blocked everyone on WhatsApp, Instagram, and all other channels.

My Background

I am a 30-year-old man working as a Mechanical Design Lead at Valeo. I earn around 13 LPA. I am an only child; both my parents are retired and receive a combined pension of around 30,000 per month. We live in a rented house in Chennai, and we also own a piece of land (3,600 sqft) in Thalambur. Due to my family situation, I focused intensely on my studies. During college, I took on part-time jobs—catering, valet parking, and room service—to support myself. As a mechanical engineer in a core R&D field, I've had minimal interaction with women, which is why I've been single and, to be honest, I'm still a virgin.

Her Family Background

She is from my native place. She is the eldest of three siblings. Her father passed away when she was in the 8th grade, and her mother single-handedly raised her and her siblings. Her younger sister is currently pursuing her Master's in Electronics and Communication, and her younger brother is working at CTS.

Our Engagement & My Efforts

When we were discussing marriage, I was completely transparent. I asked her about her preferences, career goals, post-marriage responsibilities, and financial management.

She was also open about her past relationships, including physical intimacy with two different men (a college senior and a classmate from TCS).

Despite her past, I was ready to commit. Before the engagement, I specifically asked her: Are you truly ready for this arranged marriage? Do you love anyone else? I even told her that if she did love someone, I was willing to speak to both families to get them married—I have successfully helped another girl do this in the past.

She firmly stated she was not in any relationship and told me everything about her past. I believed she was being honest and deserved a good future. We got engaged four weeks later.

Knowing her family's struggle, 

 

I took on the entire burden of the wedding expenses. We booked the marriage hall, catering service, purchased the Thali and saree, and printed invitations for both families. We did not expect a single rupee from her side. All we asked was for her to come to the hall and marry me. I spent around 11.8 lakhs in total and had started distributing the invitations.

My Plea

The money is not the issue; I can cancel a few things and get refunds.

My only question is: WHY?

We discussed everything. You could have told me this earlier. Have you thought about your mother's situation? You have brought deep embarrassment to both families. Your single mother struggled immensely to raise you, but with one simple, selfish act, you have brought everything down.

Do you know how much pain your mother is in when she hears people say, ""அப்பா இல்லாம வளர்ந்த பொண்ணு இப்படித்தான் இருக்கும்"" (A girl raised without a father will be like this)?

I just need a reason.

WHY? WHAT HAPPENED ALL OF A SUDDEN?"

Don’t let her actions stop you from taking care of her mother and her family.. they need support in this difficult situation.. both morally and financially.. asale pedda kuthuru lechipoindi.. 

[Jaggadonga]

3 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

#c20971

 

"My Last Resort: An Appeal for a Reason

This is my story. I was set to get married on October 24th, but all of a sudden, the wedding was called off. My fiancée eloped with her lover the day before Diwali. She has blocked everyone on WhatsApp, Instagram, and all other channels.

My Background

I am a 30-year-old man working as a Mechanical Design Lead at Valeo. I earn around 13 LPA. I am an only child; both my parents are retired and receive a combined pension of around 30,000 per month. We live in a rented house in Chennai, and we also own a piece of land (3,600 sqft) in Thalambur. Due to my family situation, I focused intensely on my studies. During college, I took on part-time jobs—catering, valet parking, and room service—to support myself. As a mechanical engineer in a core R&D field, I've had minimal interaction with women, which is why I've been single and, to be honest, I'm still a virgin.

Her Family Background

She is from my native place. She is the eldest of three siblings. Her father passed away when she was in the 8th grade, and her mother single-handedly raised her and her siblings. Her younger sister is currently pursuing her Master's in Electronics and Communication, and her younger brother is working at CTS.

Our Engagement & My Efforts

When we were discussing marriage, I was completely transparent. I asked her about her preferences, career goals, post-marriage responsibilities, and financial management.

She was also open about her past relationships, including physical intimacy with two different men (a college senior and a classmate from TCS).

Despite her past, I was ready to commit. Before the engagement, I specifically asked her: Are you truly ready for this arranged marriage? Do you love anyone else? I even told her that if she did love someone, I was willing to speak to both families to get them married—I have successfully helped another girl do this in the past.

She firmly stated she was not in any relationship and told me everything about her past. I believed she was being honest and deserved a good future. We got engaged four weeks later.

Knowing her family's struggle, 

 

I took on the entire burden of the wedding expenses. We booked the marriage hall, catering service, purchased the Thali and saree, and printed invitations for both families. We did not expect a single rupee from her side. All we asked was for her to come to the hall and marry me. I spent around 11.8 lakhs in total and had started distributing the invitations.

My Plea

The money is not the issue; I can cancel a few things and get refunds.

My only question is: WHY?

We discussed everything. You could have told me this earlier. Have you thought about your mother's situation? You have brought deep embarrassment to both families. Your single mother struggled immensely to raise you, but with one simple, selfish act, you have brought everything down.

Do you know how much pain your mother is in when she hears people say, ""அப்பா இல்லாம வளர்ந்த பொண்ணு இப்படித்தான் இருக்கும்"" (A girl raised without a father will be like this)?

I just need a reason.

WHY? WHAT HAPPENED ALL OF A SUDDEN?"

You are the reason. 13 lpa e kalam ammailaki jujubi. 

[Junior_]

Nuvvu inni chesavu ante definite ga konda muchchu laaga undi untavu. Konchem atuside nunchi kuda commitment undali.

[nokia123]

“She was also open about her past relationships, including physical intimacy with two different men (a college senior and a classmate from TCS)”

entha peddha manasu maccha needhi…

[JonSnowUSA]

4 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

#c20971

 

"My Last Resort: An Appeal for a Reason

This is my story. I was set to get married on October 24th, but all of a sudden, the wedding was called off. My fiancée eloped with her lover the day before Diwali. She has blocked everyone on WhatsApp, Instagram, and all other channels.

My Background

I am a 30-year-old man working as a Mechanical Design Lead at Valeo. I earn around 13 LPA. I am an only child; both my parents are retired and receive a combined pension of around 30,000 per month. We live in a rented house in Chennai, and we also own a piece of land (3,600 sqft) in Thalambur. Due to my family situation, I focused intensely on my studies. During college, I took on part-time jobs—catering, valet parking, and room service—to support myself. As a mechanical engineer in a core R&D field, I've had minimal interaction with women, which is why I've been single and, to be honest, I'm still a virgin.

Her Family Background

She is from my native place. She is the eldest of three siblings. Her father passed away when she was in the 8th grade, and her mother single-handedly raised her and her siblings. Her younger sister is currently pursuing her Master's in Electronics and Communication, and her younger brother is working at CTS.

Our Engagement & My Efforts

When we were discussing marriage, I was completely transparent. I asked her about her preferences, career goals, post-marriage responsibilities, and financial management.

She was also open about her past relationships, including physical intimacy with two different men (a college senior and a classmate from TCS).

Despite her past, I was ready to commit. Before the engagement, I specifically asked her: Are you truly ready for this arranged marriage? Do you love anyone else? I even told her that if she did love someone, I was willing to speak to both families to get them married—I have successfully helped another girl do this in the past.

She firmly stated she was not in any relationship and told me everything about her past. I believed she was being honest and deserved a good future. We got engaged four weeks later.

Knowing her family's struggle, 

 

I took on the entire burden of the wedding expenses. We booked the marriage hall, catering service, purchased the Thali and saree, and printed invitations for both families. We did not expect a single rupee from her side. All we asked was for her to come to the hall and marry me. I spent around 11.8 lakhs in total and had started distributing the invitations.

My Plea

The money is not the issue; I can cancel a few things and get refunds.

My only question is: WHY?

We discussed everything. You could have told me this earlier. Have you thought about your mother's situation? You have brought deep embarrassment to both families. Your single mother struggled immensely to raise you, but with one simple, selfish act, you have brought everything down.

Do you know how much pain your mother is in when she hears people say, ""அப்பா இல்லாம வளர்ந்த பொண்ணு இப்படித்தான் இருக்கும்"" (A girl raised without a father will be like this)?

I just need a reason.

WHY? WHAT HAPPENED ALL OF A SUDDEN?"

Nv manchodivi ayithe saripodu nitho vundali anukune vallu kuda manchiga vundali..... L@n*a pina invest chesi pativrata ga marchalevu... Intimacy ani cheppinaka kuda danni etla pelli chesukundam anukuntunnav ra pichi nayala? 

R@ndi is always randi.... desperate ga vunnadu pillagadu

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

42 minutes ago, nokia123 said:

She was also open about her past relationships, including physical intimacy with two different men (a college senior and a classmate from TCS)”

😂 MANASU OKATE KADU BRO BAYI KODA PEDADHI AYI VUNTADHI I THINK

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

23 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Nv manchodivi ayithe saripodu nitho vundali anukune vallu kuda manchiga vundali..... L@n*a pina invest chesi pativrata ga marchalevu... Intimacy ani cheppinaka kuda danni etla pelli chesukundam anukuntunnav ra pichi nayala? 

R@ndi is always randi.... desperate ga vunnadu pillagadu

Do you have choice now a days?

a amayi  vopukondi, migatha vallu bayata padaru anthe theda

[mustang302]

2 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Don’t let her actions stop you from taking care of her mother and her family.. they need support in this difficult situation.. both morally and financially.. asale pedda kuthuru lechipoindi.. 

so papa lechipoina, just cuz ee pilla no engagement chesukunnadhuku nalipesthara ee babu ni.

society is so cruel vuncle.

 

[nokia123]

1 hour ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Nv manchodivi ayithe saripodu nitho vundali anukune vallu kuda manchiga vundali..... L@n*a pina invest chesi pativrata ga marchalevu... Intimacy ani cheppinaka kuda danni etla pelli chesukundam anukuntunnav ra pichi nayala? 

R@ndi is always randi.... desperate ga vunnadu pillagadu

Adhe kadha 

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

4 hours ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Nv manchodivi ayithe saripodu nitho vundali anukune vallu kuda manchiga vundali..... L@n*a pina invest chesi pativrata ga marchalevu... Intimacy ani cheppinaka kuda danni etla pelli chesukundam anukuntunnav ra pichi nayala? 

R@ndi is always randi.... desperate ga vunnadu pillagadu

Whats wrong with this society

all the mens 99% are randadu only going to strip club and all then why its not wrong why this is wrong?

[JonSnowUSA]

7 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

Do you have choice now a days?

a amayi  vopukondi, migatha vallu bayata padaru anthe theda

bongu emi kadu... job vundali full earn cheyali... itla filter out chesukuntu pothe migiledi R@ndis.... Paisa mida vunna drushti pilla mida ledu...