My Love Problem

[sujitha]

[quote author=Gangaram link=topic=130602.msg1446819#msg1446819 date=1291776072]
nuvvu cheppindi right ee.. but how correct is it to hurt parents... family lo oka situation choosaka ee parents aina ela chestharu? practical thinking imp kada..

future lo telsii ante naaku telisi ee rojullo love story leni ammai ante rare aipoyaru..

i give importance to parents..


asala ee penta gola untundi ane nenu love ee seyyaledu..  ~"! ~"! ~"!
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but how correct is to hurt a girl?ammai ki propose chesinapudu entha confidence ga intlo opinchagalanu anukunavo anthe confidence ga mari opinchataniki try chei,,,but dont raise ur hands by saying cant do anything...ela aina opinchu,,,thanu niku kavali anukunte edirinchi aina naludu tittlu titinchukoni aina sare...kopadi aina sare intlo valani ela aina opinchu...use all the ways

[sombarey]

[quote author=sujitha link=topic=130602.msg1447618#msg1447618 date=1291784747]
but how correct is to hurt a girl?ammai ki propose chesinapudu entha confidence ga intlo opinchagalanu anukunavo anthe confidence ga mari opinchataniki try chei,,,but dont raise ur hands by saying cant do anything...ela aina opinchu,,,thanu niku kavali anukunte edirinchi aina naludu tittlu titinchukoni aina sare...kopadi aina sare intlo valani ela aina opinchu...use all the ways
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*=: you rock how long can a gal wait then

and anni efforts pettina intlo vallu oppukooka pothe emi cheyamantav sujitha

[keko_keka]

you rock you rock you rock

[quote author=anticastepolicy link=topic=130602.msg1446918#msg1446918 date=1291777190]
  sHa_clap4 sHa_clap4  *=: *=:
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[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote author=sujitha link=topic=130602.msg1447618#msg1447618 date=1291784747]
but how correct is to hurt a girl?ammai ki propose chesinapudu entha confidence ga intlo opinchagalanu anukunavo anthe confidence ga mari opinchataniki try chei,,,but dont raise ur hands by saying cant do anything...ela aina opinchu,,,thanu niku kavali anukunte edirinchi aina naludu tittlu titinchukoni aina sare...kopadi aina sare intlo valani ela aina opinchu...use all the ways
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Ennallu aina thana kosam wait chesi....maa parents ni oppinchataniki nenu ready....but valla parents thondara paduthunnaru....thana marriage cheyataniki  sSa_j@il

[sujitha]

[quote author=Nellore Pedda reddy link=topic=130602.msg1446830#msg1446830 date=1291776256]
@ALL

Ee idea lu naku eppudo vachayi....Pelli chesesukuni silent ga....tarvatha cheppochu ani...but antha manchi avakasam ichina vallani (deepu parents), Valla kuthurini (Deepu sis) baadha pettadam ishtam leka aagam

Deepu sis ki matches choosthunnappudu...ee ammayi valla akkega lechipoyindi ani ante...thanaki prob raada mari

annee try chesam....and even maa iddariki physical relation undi ani kuda abaddam cheppa sSa_j@il 

and parents oppukokapovatam kadu ikkada prob....thana chelli pelli ki prob avthundani....and moreover maa akka pelli kuda avvaledu....Ippudu mem pelli chesukunte andariki chedu chesina vallam avtham  sSa_j@il   

and cheppaga ee madhya jarigina incident tho vere caste ante samasya ledu....oppukoru   

I know my parents better than anyone....vere caste ante ela react avtharo naku ardam ayindi 

Deepu valla bava unnadu ga....vaadu pressure teesukosthunnadu valla parents tho....vadu ikkade doctor   

and deepu valla parents kuda tvaraga cheyyali ane aalochisthunnaru...inko 1 week lope naku cal ravochu...ye vishayam telchamani...valla parents nunch....Deepu sis cheppindi....roju ide discussion anta intlo    sSa_j@il
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first of all dont avoid her,,,and avoid her calls,,,first miru idharu dairyamga vundandi,,edavadhu..
ni girl ki matches chusthunaru ok but ni girl ok chepanidhe parents ok cheyaru kadha?then endhuku edusthunaru...ye match vachina ni girl ni edho vaka reason tho vadhu ani chepamanu....then mi akka mariage aipoina tarvatha start asking ur parents...asalu first of all miru edavakunda idharu manchiga matladukunte manchi alochanalu vasthai,,,

[sujitha]

[quote author=sujitha link=topic=130602.msg1447649#msg1447649 date=1291785166]
first of all dont avoid her,,,and avoid her calls,,,first miru idharu dairyamga vundandi,,edavadhu..
ni girl ki matches chusthunaru ok but ni girl ok chepanidhe parents ok cheyaru kadha?then endhuku edusthunaru...ye match vachina ni girl ni edho vaka reason tho vadhu ani chepamanu....then mi akka mariage aipoina tarvatha start asking ur parents...asalu first of all miru edavakunda idharu manchiga matladukunte manchi alochanalu vasthai,,,
[/quote]typing mistake paina.....dont avoid her and dont avoid her calls

[sujitha]

[quote author=robo link=topic=130602.msg1446840#msg1446840 date=1291776444]
adi telisedi NPR ki matrame andhuke 'anukunte' ani chepa
kani intlo opichukoleva ba adi kuda cheyani vadivi repu aa amai ni kapadagalava velli opichu love chesi calm ga undadam kadu istam atunav ga velli try chei
[/quote]good suggestion

[keko_keka]

you rock you rock

[quote author=anticastepolicy link=topic=130602.msg1447268#msg1447268 date=1291780464]
chaala sensible ga cheppaav ba  you rock you rock
*=: *=:
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[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote author=sujitha link=topic=130602.msg1447649#msg1447649 date=1291785166]
first of all dont avoid her,,,and avoid her calls,,,first miru idharu dairyamga vundandi,,edavadhu..
ni girl ki matches chusthunaru ok but ni girl ok chepanidhe parents ok cheyaru kadha?then endhuku edusthunaru...ye match vachina ni girl ni edho vaka reason tho vadhu ani chepamanu....then mi akka mariage aipoina tarvatha start asking ur parents...asalu first of all miru edavakunda idharu manchiga matladukunte manchi alochanalu vasthai,,,
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Valla parents ki kuda pressure undi....Valla mom, dad valla siblings andarilo Deepu ye first ammayi....so valla relatives andari nunchi pressure undi  sSa_j@il

and maa parents oppukokapovataniki kuda strong resaons unnai....ilage close relatives iddaru....chesukunnaru inter-caste.....tht too....2 yrs wait chesi....oppinchi

but vallu divorce ayyaru (both couples...after 2 & 3 yrs respectively)  sSa_j@il

[sujitha]

[quote author=nice link=topic=130602.msg1446854#msg1446854 date=1291776662]
koduku premani artham chesukoni parents elaa important avutaaru. evari reasons vaallaki untaai. anthee.
[/quote]correct ....try to convince ur parents,,,def ga pilala istam ni parents guravistharu..first lo no ani chepina def they will if do ur best to convince them...but plzz dont leave the girl..bcoz thanu kooda ninnu love chetshundhi ani chepthunav kadha...and also nuvu ipudu ni girl ni love chesav ,,mi parents vadhu annaru ani vadhilesthe next arrange mariage cheuskuntav,,,apudu nuvu a girl ni happy ga chusukuntava?chusukuna kooda nuvu mosam chesinattte kadha a ammai ni bcoz u already had love on one girl...

[keko_keka]

looks like you are trying to escape from this situation.....ammayini edipinchina vaadu eppatiki baagu padadu........ammayi pelli valla doctor bava tho ayyindani matram future lo post veyyaku.....sorry I might have been a little too harsh and all the best for your future

[manmadudhu]

[quote author=Nellore Pedda reddy link=topic=130602.msg1447680#msg1447680 date=1291785633]
Valla parents ki kuda pressure undi....Valla mom, dad valla siblings andarilo Deepu ye first ammayi....so valla relatives andari nunchi pressure undi  sSa_j@il

and maa parents oppukokapovataniki kuda strong resaons unnai....ilage close relatives iddaru....chesukunnaru inter-caste.....tht too....2 yrs wait chesi....oppinchi

but vallu divorce ayyaru (both couples...after 2 & 3 yrs respectively)  sSa_j@il
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mama indaka kooda adhe chepanu mama.......inka mana vallu chaala mandhi echaru ee suggestion........u guys get stable sit together and go to india and let them know mama.......it is not so easy u stay at one place.....shez at another.....me parents india...lo.......plz make a visit and then let them know that u cannot be separate.......and sujatha chepindhi rite...dont avaoid her calls......she needs ur support rather than the other way around,........okati mama......amailu alanti situ lo chala depressed aipotaru and if u do that now they cant come out of the shell.......gals nijam ga premincharu ante valla jeevitham aa manam anukuntaru anduke vallu epudu general ga mana parents ni tidutu untaru ardham chesukoru ani.......dat doesnt mean that she doesnt like ur parents.............be supportive mama,,,,....nuvve ala chesthe epudu....oka vella nijam meeru future pelli chesukunna..........tana oka rakam aina free ness kolipotundhi..........vallu bayapadataru malli valla bada express cheyataniki manam inka ekada avoid chestamo ani..............plz dont do that...........talk to her n understand her..........

[lingam.mama]

[quote author=Nellore Pedda reddy link=topic=130602.msg1447680#msg1447680 date=1291785633]
Valla parents ki kuda pressure undi....Valla mom, dad valla siblings andarilo Deepu ye first ammayi....so valla relatives andari nunchi pressure undi  sSa_j@il

and maa parents oppukokapovataniki kuda strong resaons unnai....ilage close relatives iddaru....chesukunnaru inter-caste.....tht too....2 yrs wait chesi....oppinchi

but vallu divorce ayyaru (both couples...after 2 & 3 yrs respectively)  sSa_j@il
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meeriddaroo vidi poyi vere vaallani chesukuntee divorce chances levaa baa?

it all depends on how one understands other person. it doesnt matter whether same cast or different.

how come we all friends become so close and live together for years? some friends go away from our life too. marriage and living under one roof needs lot of commitment and patience to understand other person. Then everything becomes piece of cake.

Nowadays, girls are educated and became independent which is also pushing for more divorces.

mana illalloo relatives illallo parents ki enni godavalu chooda ledhu? its just that they learn to live that way and/or female ki indendent gaa brathikee avakasham undedhi kaadhu old days loo.

godavalanevi love marriage ainaa arranged marriage ainaa ee caste ainaa untaai.

but love marriages loo godavalu ayyee chances ekkuva. endukantee they become very close and love loo unnappudu one tries to hide week points from other but they are exposed after marriage once start living under one roof.

[mba]

baa antha manche jaruguthundhi...

neeku plus point enti ante deepu valla parents artham chesukuntaru.. you will definitely get ample time to convince your parents..
ammayi abbayi strong gaa vunnanatha varaku failure ane maate vundadhu
try in whatever ways you can think of...
time to stand up to the expectations of your parents and love...
good luck baa  sHa_high5ing sHa_fr1ends

[anticastepolicy]

[quote author=nice link=topic=130602.msg1447722#msg1447722 date=1291786192]
meeriddaroo vidi poyi vere vaallani chesukuntee divorce chances levaa baa?

it all depends on how one understands other person. it doesnt matter whether same cast or different.

how come we all friends become so close and live together for years? some friends go away from our life too. marriage and living under one roof needs lot of commitment and patience to understand other person. Then everything becomes piece of cake.

Nowadays, girls are educated and became independent which is also pushing for more divorces.

mana illalloo relatives illallo parents ki enni godavalu chooda ledhu? its just that they learn to live that way and/or female ki indendent gaa brathikee avakasham undedhi kaadhu old days loo.

godavalanevi love marriage ainaa arranged marriage ainaa ee caste ainaa untaai.

but love marriages loo godavalu ayyee chances ekkuva. endukantee they become very close and love loo unnappudu one tries to hide week points from other but they are exposed after marriage once start living under one roof.
[/quote]nenu already idhantha cheppa ba manoodi ki oka sari .. malli adhee maatalu chepthaadu ..  !q# !q#
[quote author=manmadudhu link=topic=130602.msg1447717#msg1447717 date=1291786127]
mama indaka kooda adhe chepanu mama.......inka mana vallu chaala mandhi echaru ee suggestion........u guys get stable sit together and go to india and let them know mama.......it is not so easy u stay at one place.....shez at another.....me parents india...lo.......plz make a visit and then let them know that u cannot be separate.......and sujatha chepindhi rite...dont avaoid her calls......she needs ur support rather than the other way around,........okati mama......amailu alanti situ lo chala depressed aipotaru and if u do that now they cant come out of the shell.......gals nijam ga premincharu ante valla jeevitham aa manam anukuntaru anduke vallu epudu general ga mana parents ni tidutu untaru ardham chesukoru ani.......dat doesnt mean that she doesnt like ur parents.............be supportive mama,,,,....nuvve ala chesthe epudu....oka vella nijam meeru future pelli chesukunna..........tana oka rakam aina free ness kolipotundhi..........vallu bayapadataru malli valla bada express cheyataniki manam inka ekada avoid chestamo ani..............plz dont do that...........talk to her n understand her..........
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