Discussion On Friendship

[manmadudhu]

[quote name='DaVinci' timestamp='1349898724' post='1302606403']
Routine story.
5 years ago naaku ilanti oka friend vundey vaadu. Athadiki oka ammayee tho close friendship vunde. Kaani aame koncham koncham ga athadini ignore cheyadam start chesindi. Daaniki vaadu full depress ayyevaadu. Oka stage vachaka aame get loss anesindi. Naa friend full depress ayyi edise vaadu kooda.

The fact of the matter is that the guy always has some feelings for the girl. On the surface everyone says we are just friends ani, but subconscious mind begins to expect more than that. Which is why when she begins to ignore, you begin to feel pain.

So the moral of the story is "STOP LYING WITH YOURSELF". For you she is not just a friend, its more than that. Also understand that if you break everything right away, then you will suffer little pain. But if you pursue more, you will end up with more unbearable pain.

The battle is already lost, accept it and back off. I might sound harsh, but its the only right solution now.
[/quote]
perfect and it doesnt happen with everyone....... def ga feeling undhi kabbate protective ga undatam....edhi cheyataniki aina ready annatu untaru.......

inka explanation waste........ poosa guchinattu cheppav baa.......well said........

[Terminator II]

[quote name='innovative' timestamp='1349899356' post='1302606465']
That so called EXPECTATIONS emi lenappudu .. dont expect and plz dont feel bad ...
and i completely agree with the below lines from DaVinci's post "STOP LYING WITH YOURSELF". For you she is not just a friend, its more than that"
[/quote]

baga cheppav.. [img]http://gifsoup.com/webroot/animatedgifs4/1137038_o.gif[/img]

[innovative]

[quote name='pournami' timestamp='1349899677' post='1302606494']

[/quote]

[pournami]

[quote name='chittimallu4' timestamp='1349899698' post='1302606497']
Raavalamma raavali....inka raavali....advices ivvali babu ki..... <brahmi megaphoje gif>
[/quote]
ela unnaru chittimalli garu

[veerudu]

[quote name='Shran' timestamp='1349898122' post='1302606313']
Hi Andhariki,
Naaku Oka Close friend undi(Female), Nenu Male.
Ame naaku Friend matram ea. Not anything more than that( [b]Munde chepthunna, Thappu ga ardham chesukovadu Please, memu Just Friends Matram ea[/b])
Memu anni Problems(Regarding Family and Job) Share chesukuntam.
But, Nenu ameku ichinnatha imp naaku ame ivvadu. Serously Ame ea help adigina, nenu kadu annakuda chestha, She also does the same thing anuko..She is a really a good girl and kind hearted.
Kani, I feel like talking to her daily or message her daily. But she dont feel the same. Emaina ante, Busy unde antundi. Ee madhya Once in a week kadu atleast once in two weeks kuda sariga matladukuntalem. Is she really busy or trying to ignore me ha ani i am not understanding. Or Am i Expecting a lot from her? But whenever she calls she talks properly.
Girls evarina ee discussion lo unte reply, i wanted to know from girls prospective.
[/quote]

Your expecting too much and same time she may be thought that you will propose her anytime near future , so she is ignoring you.

[Terminator II]

[quote name='pournami' timestamp='1349899677' post='1302606494']

[/quote]

[img]http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii178/tejaprince/king/belluehh.gif[/img] nuvvu kuda edo okati cheppu..

[Shran]

[quote name='manmadudhu' timestamp='1349899559' post='1302606484']
dont be over protective wit gals...chaaala mandhi amayilaki adhi nachadu.......... mananu istam ani...entha aina cheyataniki ready ga untam.......bt thy will let u into thr life (either be frnd or lover) only if thy feel it........so ekuva feel ayyi burrra paadu chesukoku.....stop thinmking fr somedays.......let her hv own space fr few days......calls chesinapudu mataladadu special ga call cheyaku......thn u will feel the difference
[/quote]




Masthu Cheppinav Bhayya.. i will follow ur Suggestion

[veerudu]

[quote name='DaVinci' timestamp='1349898724' post='1302606403']
Routine story.
5 years ago naaku ilanti oka friend vundey vaadu. Athadiki oka ammayee tho close friendship vunde. Kaani aame koncham koncham ga athadini ignore cheyadam start chesindi. Daaniki vaadu full depress ayyevaadu. Oka stage vachaka aame get loss anesindi. Naa friend full depress ayyi edise vaadu kooda.

The fact of the matter is that the guy always has some feelings for the girl. On the surface everyone says we are just friends ani, but subconscious mind begins to expect more than that. Which is why when she begins to ignore, you begin to feel pain.

So the moral of the story is "STOP LYING WITH YOURSELF". For you she is not just a friend, its more than that. Also understand that if you break everything right away, then you will suffer little pain. But if you pursue more, you will end up with more unbearable pain.

The battle is already lost, accept it and back off. I might sound harsh, but its the only right solution now.
[/quote]

[manmadudhu]

[quote name='Shran' timestamp='1349899920' post='1302606523']




Masthu Cheppinav Bhayya.. i will follow ur Suggestion
[/quote]
all the best baaaa........

[pournami]

[quote name='kevkekaa' timestamp='1349899834' post='1302606518']

[img]http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii178/tejaprince/king/belluehh.gif[/img] nuvvu kuda edo okati cheppu..
[/quote]
cheppanuga paina post chudu

[irukupaalem]

naakuda oka frnd undi...ippudu tanaki pellai potuntee naku entoola undi...mari danemantaru...

[andhrausa]

seems ur too sensitive...but if she is not expecting form u ...y do u do so ?

she might got a bf ? anduke antaga meto mataldataniki time spend cheyalekapotundemo ??

else ila kuda anukune chance undi - if she is not married, intlo tanaku matches chustunte may be valla parents to yekkuva time spend chestundemo

u don know kada

[chittimallu4]

[quote name='pournami' timestamp='1349899814' post='1302606515']

ela unnaru chittimalli garu
[/quote]baagunna mastaru...meerela unnaru

[chittimallu4]

[quote name='irukupaalem' timestamp='1349900043' post='1302606538']
naakuda oka frnd undi...ippudu tanaki pellai potuntee naku entoola undi...mari danemantaru...
[/quote]kurchi kindha dhaakkovadam antaru

[Shran]

[quote name='DaVinci' timestamp='1349898724' post='1302606403']
Routine story.
5 years ago naaku ilanti oka friend vundey vaadu. Athadiki oka ammayee tho close friendship vunde. Kaani aame koncham koncham ga athadini ignore cheyadam start chesindi. Daaniki vaadu full depress ayyevaadu. Oka stage vachaka aame get loss anesindi. Naa friend full depress ayyi edise vaadu kooda.

The fact of the matter is that the guy always has some feelings for the girl. On the surface everyone says we are just friends ani, but subconscious mind begins to expect more than that. Which is why when she begins to ignore, you begin to feel pain.

So the moral of the story is "STOP LYING WITH YOURSELF". For you she is not just a friend, its more than that. Also understand that if you break everything right away, then you will suffer little pain. But if you pursue more, you will end up with more unbearable pain.

The battle is already lost, accept it and back off. I might sound harsh, but its the only right solution now.
[/quote]


I do accept ur Suggestions Bhayya..
Kani i am not expecting much from her, nenu Expect chesedi enti ante, Just bit care from her anthe. (Phone chesi Bagunnava, Em chesthunav ani anduguthe challu) Antha kanna Em ledu. Bhayya...