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Pichekkistha Posted August 26, 2013 Author Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1377346920' post='1304158354'] Dude...if you both are in love its okay to get married. If the girl is not happy and wants divorce nuvvu tanu preminchukoni pelli chesukuntunnaru adi okay but just ni manasakshi ni okasari e questions adukko nuvvu evariki answer cheyaku ni manasuku cheppuko if u still feel u r right emo alochinchuko...in any case u should now marry her leda nuvvu human ve kavu 1. Nuvve lekapote a ammayi divorce tesukuneda enta guts undeva? How much your relationship or u influenced on this divorce ( Atleast 10%? Adavallaki Bf unte kontha guts dhairyam mamulu vatilone perugutundi ala kontaina undi untundi ga) ? 2. NIjamga wife nd husband problem aey anukundam alano divorce tesukundam anukuntunnaru mari mi iddaru why didnt you inform husband that u love from long time and want to marry after divorce? hide deniki cheyali and involvement enduku avvadu anukuntunnav? 3. NIjamga a ammayi ki husband anta padaledane anukundam nuvvu oka character unnatte teelkunda nitto ala undadam tappu kada? atleast divorce varuku kottukukoni chachina husband ki truthful ga wife undakkarleda? i am in love with some one else nuvvu ivvaleni happiness inko chota dorukutondi ani enduku cheppaledu? 4. Mi eddaru open ga vadi mundu enduku tiragaledu? 5 . Oka pelli ayina ammayi mida prema ane thought correct anipistonda? Don't we have married sisters, mother and brothers? Ide repeat ayite mana intlo family enta devastated ayipotundi? 6. Secretive ga ni deggara anandam vetukunna ammayi inko sari alane cheste ni life enti? 7. Did you think how it impacts your parents? Kani penchi anni chesaru oka ammayi kosam valla asalu enni yrs penchukunna paruvu oka saraina alochinchava? 8. U are a human being how could u cheat a guy so badly being with his wife? Mana bro ki ide jarugute tala ekkada pettukuntam? 9.Nuvvu miru pelli chesukuntaru ane alochistunnav enni rojulanunchi wife cheat chesindi ante enta emotional impact untundi a husband ki though he doesn't love her? Its not just about compatibility and love...avi lekapoyina humanity, trust, honesty and loyalty anevi e lokam lo evariki undavu anentha virakthi rada adavalla mida? 10. How does this impact him in future? malla adadanini pellam ni nammagalada? Mana culture chala goppadi...Chaduvu perige koddi value system peragali basic elements of humanity pokudadu...Selfish ga undachu dude not to the extent that it will impact others life...not to the extent one looses hope on human beings with our behavior....Dammu unte open ga cheyali ala cheste ila unna actually tappu em ledu ...badhapadina comment chesina evadi lifes antha ga effect avvavu..nammaka droham manishiki manavatvam mida nammakame pogadutundi. NIjamga anta prema unte open ga a relation maintain cheyalsindi from day 1..love marriages lo chestunnara antavemo love marriages lo two independent decisions but ikkada married woman..legally and physically she belongs to her husband...secrecy akkada undo bayata padalekapovadam nuvvu involvement lekunda solve avvalanukovadam ivanni ni manasu ki nuvvu tappu padi mandi mecharu ani telusu anduke adi niku pressure ayyindi.. I am really dude...i have no right to question you so tittali anukunte abuse cheyali anukunte nannu cheseyi paduta but society ila ayipotunte react avvaddu anukunna react ayipotunna...oka vishayam dude ammayilu chala easy ga mould ayipotaru enta godavalunna prema unte adjust ayipogalaru evarito ayina men aey konnitlo flexible kadu she might have adjusted compromised after a while emo ...anyways ur life ur wish...make sure u reach her expectations other wise this can repeat as some women ki with time sink avutundi reality expect chesinattu pelli ayyaka husband and wife relation ala undadani...i have seen couples fighting and almost went to divorce and adjusted after 10 yrs of married life..eppudu vallu okalani vadili okallu one day kuda undaru... i gave u enough lecture.. about tthat ..niku okkadikane cheppaledu people who are thinking otherwise aspect lo cheppa... anyways e stage lo all i can say is good luck [/quote] First of all thanks for taking time to explain everything.. Bayya...nenu parichayam ayyi around 1 yr ayyindi...aaa ammayiki anthaka mundu mrg ayyi 2 yrs ayyindi.... RIght from 1st week, it dint go well with each other.... I heard from her...he always says he married a wrong kind of person...(he dint mean by character...but by attitude) ...also he always wants him as a higher hand even in a small argument. He also ridicules her opinion and makes fun of her ideas and opinons all the time...and over time this became worse.... ee story chepthey choosey vaallu naa vallaney godavalu vachaayanukuntaaru......but the reality is... if not today they gona part their ways in a few months or a year later...the only difference i made is to make it quicker which is good for her.... I understand loving a married woman is not acceptable...but thats not something i chose...it just happened...It doesn't take too much of time to become emotionally together... My only problem is my parents....donno how they are going to handle it...i was supposed to tell them last weekend...but scared....shud try next weekend...
Pichekkistha Posted August 26, 2013 Author Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='MUSTANG302' timestamp='1377486501' post='1304163535'] [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi42.gif?1377272905[/img]sakkaga use chasukoni vadileyyakaa..aendhuku vay medaki tagilinchukuntunnav...!! P.S idi na opinion n suggestion matramae...!! [/quote] Its not $ex all the time Bro....I love her truly... Ikkada chaala mandi divorce ippinchadamey thappantunnaru.....mari nuvvu cheppinadaaniki emantaaro alochinchuko...
ILAQAT_MUFLIYA Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='Pichekkistha' timestamp='1377526506' post='1304164828'] First of all thanks for taking time to explain everything.. Bayya...nenu parichayam ayyi around 1 yr ayyindi...aaa ammayiki anthaka mundu mrg ayyi 2 yrs ayyindi.... RIght from 1st week, it dint go well with each other.... I heard from her...he always says he married a wrong kind of person...(he dint mean by character...but by attitude) ...also he always wants him as a higher hand even in a small argument. He also ridicules her opinion and makes fun of her ideas and opinons all the time...and over time this became worse.... ee story chepthey choosey vaallu naa vallaney godavalu vachaayanukuntaaru......but the reality is... if not today they gona part their ways in a few months or a year later...the only difference i made is to make it quicker which is good for her.... I understand loving a married woman is not acceptable...but thats not something i chose...it just happened...It doesn't take too much of time to become emotionally together... My only problem is my parents....donno how they are going to handle it...i was supposed to tell them last weekend...but scared....shud try next weekend... [/quote] mayya what if ur parents say no??
Pichekkistha Posted August 26, 2013 Author Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='loveindia' timestamp='1377490384' post='1304163741'] Babu origina poster of this thread.. nuvvu ye state lo untav??? cheppavantey aa state chuttu pakkala kuda kaapuram pettanu.. idem sadism asala... okavela idi nijam aitey edo cheskoni saavakunda ikkada ee gola endi? relations anteney chiraku vachey stage ki vellelaa undi mee valla... [/quote] Bayya...nenu aa ammayini touch kuda cheyyaledu....situation ni advantage theesukoledu eppudoo...infact ala evvarithonu cheyyaledu life lo.... I am jus trying to make her life and my life better.....
Pichekkistha Posted August 26, 2013 Author Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='ILAQAT_MUFLIYA' timestamp='1377526789' post='1304164840'] mayya what if ur parents say no?? [/quote] I will not marry any one....I am sure they gona accept over time...hopefully with in a year..
ILAQAT_MUFLIYA Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='Pichekkistha' timestamp='1377526951' post='1304164853'] I will not marry any one....I am sure they gona accept over time...hopefully with in a year.. [/quote] accept over time ante manasaru champukoni they will give a go ahead coz ur such an ass.. anthena ?
Pichekkistha Posted August 26, 2013 Author Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='ILAQAT_MUFLIYA' timestamp='1377527008' post='1304164856'] accept over time ante manasaru champukoni they will give a go ahead coz ur such an ass.. anthena ? [/quote] Yes...and thats ok for me...
ILAQAT_MUFLIYA Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='Pichekkistha' timestamp='1377527106' post='1304164859'] Yes...and thats ok for me... [/quote] hmmm neek artham kale what I meant.. parents ki cheppu ... aa ammayini me parents ni kalipinchu see how they like her... nuv just ila oka ammayi undi nen aa ammayine pelli cheskunte oppukunte oppukondi lepothe I wont marry anyone ala aithe inkenduk vayya chep[padam... if ur parents mean anything to u and looks like this girl means something to you try to make arrangements so that they can have some time and see and like her and then appatiki nachaledu ante apudu alochinchachu... but I dont like the idea of u just calling them up and telling them abt her and want them to accept her..
Pichekkistha Posted August 26, 2013 Author Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='ILAQAT_MUFLIYA' timestamp='1377527429' post='1304164875'] hmmm neek artham kale what I meant.. parents ki cheppu ... aa ammayini me parents ni kalipinchu see how they like her... nuv just ila oka ammayi undi nen aa ammayine pelli cheskunte oppukunte oppukondi lepothe I wont marry anyone ala aithe inkenduk vayya chep[padam... if ur parents mean anything to u and looks like this girl means something to you try to make arrangements so that they can have some time and see and like her and then appatiki nachaledu ante apudu alochinchachu... but I dont like the idea of u just calling them up and telling them abt her and want them to accept her.. [/quote] Thanks bayya...sounds like a nice process...
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dotnetrockz Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='loveindia' timestamp='1377490384' post='1304163741'] Babu origina poster of this thread.. nuvvu ye state lo untav??? cheppavantey aa state chuttu pakkala kuda kaapuram pettanu.. idem sadism asala... okavela idi nijam aitey edo cheskoni saavakunda ikkada ee gola endi? [size=6][color=#ff0000]relations anteney chiraku vachey stage ki vellelaa undi mee valla..[/color][/size]. [/quote] [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/-DikGbYx9DvA/URXIdPoVhGI/AAAAAAAAJ3Y/9oq4yKLmC1Y/s150/VM-2.gif[/img]
dotnetrockz Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='ILAQAT_MUFLIYA' timestamp='1377527429' post='1304164875'] hmmm neek artham kale what I meant.. parents ki cheppu ... aa ammayini me parents ni kalipinchu see how they like her... nuv just ila oka ammayi undi nen aa ammayine pelli cheskunte oppukunte oppukondi lepothe I wont marry anyone ala aithe inkenduk vayya chep[padam... [size=6][color=#ff0000]if ur parents mean anything to u [/color][/size]and looks like this girl means something to you try to make arrangements so that they can have some time and see and like her and then appatiki nachaledu ante apudu alochinchachu... but I dont like the idea of u just calling them up and telling them abt her and want them to accept her.. [/quote] [img]http://lh5.ggpht.com/-DvZ6Eo7sre0/UUezL4wWP0I/AAAAAAAAKqM/EOiYcbIGLoo/s150/CN-5.gif[/img]
ILAQAT_MUFLIYA Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 [quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1377529063' post='1304164980'] [img]http://lh5.ggpht.com/-DvZ6Eo7sre0/UUezL4wWP0I/AAAAAAAAKqM/EOiYcbIGLoo/s150/CN-5.gif[/img] [/quote] Hello nissan mayya ..
losser Posted August 26, 2013 Report Posted August 26, 2013 mi family lo vallaki ela jarujuthey ardamanithadi man niku nuvvu amey nundi duranga vellipo appudu valle set aytharu you are the one who is making your and there life's worst ippudey baney untadi tharvatha anubavisthav just think man wife and husband antey sardukupovali ila undi ani divorse ithey repati nadu amey ninnu dominate chesthundi nuvvu ameni dominate cheyavu ani namakam endi its just ne attraction anthey thanu valla husband tho 100% set aypothadi if you are not between them just move away and find your partner valla life's padu cheyaku
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