For All Gals In Db

[sitaraZahir]

For all the women out here, sharing excerpts from my observations.. Share yours too ..,
lets flourish !

1. Be self sufficient:
You don't néed a man to buy you diamonds.
We have the brains (if we wanna apply !). Add hardwork and am sure we will flourish.

2. Love yourself first:
We donn need a man to complete ourselves.
Lets be a complete woman and the best man will find you.
After all, If you can't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?
If you do not know how to love or respect yourself, how can you love or respect your man in the first place?
Don't ask a man to love you, if you love yourself, everyone else will. If you wanna ask, ask respect, not by words but with your behavior.

3. Have a good dress sense:
Respect should be earned, can't be demanded.
Tight fits are trendy but we should realize our bodies first before wearing one.
When you express a thought,its subject to criticism. Same way, our body talks too, whatever we expose, are subject to criticism, we don't have a right to rule out criticism, after all when you have a conversation, we can't ask the listener to shut up!
If you are confident and have the body to carry, go gals ! Be trendy

4. Never ignore parents:
Don't let your man or his family or anyone else for that matter, to disrespect your parents.
You are what your parents have made you and it's just not your brothers responsibility to take care of them.
Same way you have long term plans for yourself, have plans for your parents well being too...

5. Be safe:
Donn expect safety at wee hours of the day, at any place.
No place is safe, be it for men or women.
Take necessary measures and never trust anyone, when it comes to your safety.

6. Marriage doesn't define your life:
Life isn't meant only to get married and nor it ends if it fails or makes you unhappy.
Have your desires and work towards them and be happy.
Marriage is not the end of life, there is so much to explore in life.
Never waste your life for a man, if it demands you to.

7. Don't waste your tears:
Never waste your tears on any situation or even a man.
Respect yourself and walk out of a situation or a man, if its troubling you.
Life is too short and precious to waste on tears.

8. Heart is a fiction:
Heart is a fiction, be practical. It's harmones that drive your mind, not heart.
So donn waste your mind in the name of love or unnecessary emotions.
There is no weak heart, it's just your mind that is weak.
Doesn't mean that you should never love, it should be mutual and should help both you and your man to be progressive in your lives.

9. You are beautiful:
Don't abuse or downgrade yourself by thinking that you are not beautiful or by comparing to others.
After all, your mom made you and moms are always right
If you wanna be beautiful, looks wise, then just be healthy and happy. Beauty will explode from within !

[kiladi bullodu]

Gp

[puli raaja]

mari DKCs ki [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi02.gif?1377272460[/img]

[faf]

aa link edo padeyochu ga,,, intha kastapadala..

[@Shadow@]

hmm

[Geeta]

I disagree., follow the heart not the mind.
If I neglect my husband now,
later . brother or parents won't be there for life long.

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='faf' timestamp='1378011199' post='1304190966']
aa link edo padeyochu ga,,, intha kastapadala..
[/quote]

Not from any link sir...
A club of my inspirations and own thoughts ...

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='Geeta' timestamp='1378012313' post='1304190977']
I disagree., follow the heart not the mind.
If I neglect my husband now,
later . brother or parents won't be there for life long.
[/quote]

I never intend to say not to neglect your hubby.. Just saying be a dutiful daughter too besides being a dutiful wife

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='puli raaja' timestamp='1378010994' post='1304190962']
mari DKCs ki [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi02.gif?1377272460[/img]
[/quote]

DKC ante?

[puli raaja]

[quote name='sitaraZahir' timestamp='1378012774' post='1304190981']
DKC ante?
[/quote]


neeku enka telusukune time vundi le [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi02.gif?1377272460[/img]

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='puli raaja' timestamp='1378012887' post='1304190984']



neeku enka telusukune time vundi le [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi02.gif?1377272460[/img]
[/quote]

Parledhu chepandi

[Yuva Nataratna]

naakenduko neeku oka 28+ years untadhi age anipistundi... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi02.gif?1377272460[/img]

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='Yuva_Nataratna' timestamp='1378013167' post='1304190988']
naakenduko neeku oka 28+ years untadhi age anipistundi... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/pfdb_brahmi02.gif?1377272460[/img]
[/quote]

Nopes
Anyways that's not of any importance though...

May be coz of books I read and nice n varied set of frens I have !

[Teluguammayi]

5 th point .... gud

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='shruthi_teluguammayi' timestamp='1378013416' post='1304190993']
5 th point .... gud
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