RamKishan Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='chantiabbai' timestamp='1381950045' post='1304424179'] ma vaadiki kooda mundu nuyya venakki goyya.... 5 yrs paatu ammai parents oppukole... ippudu ammai parents oppukunne sariki veediki pelli set ayyi poyindii... endo e torture... ippudu ammai suicide tokka antundi... what as friend i am with him but deep down i want him to marry his fiance... time is the only soution..konta time ayyaka anta maamul ayyipoddi..iavvani manam byta undi boldu chaptamm face chese vaalaki telustadi....any wyas thanks for a constructive response [/quote] ilantivi vall family matters.. Actual nuvu better pakaku tapuukunte anukuntuna..kodiga hard ga undchu adhe fact...Asalu mee vodi parents ke telusaaa.....first mee vode parents tho ee vishayamu matladali...then situation prakaramu vellasindhe...mee vode finance middle class ayithe matramu..e pelli cancel ayithe matramu..a ammayiki kodiga tough untadi. next pelli sambandhala chusukuney vishayamuloo...chala think cheyalisi vastundi..
ICANWIN Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='JabardasthJakkanna' timestamp='1381950474' post='1304424225'] What I feel is, mee friend thana fiance ki call chesi....unna situation antha proper ga expplain chesi....emotional ga kaakunda...practical ga undettu ga explain cheyyali....and then convince cheyyali....(though it is little tough, but possible). Okka sari ammai convince ayyindante, valla intlo thane cheppesthundi, valla aprents ki ela cheppalo, em cheppalo thana kanna baaga mee vaadiki theleedu kada... Ishtam lekunda pelli chesukuni life long iddaru happy ga undakapovadam kante, may be max 6 mons, aa ammai n valla amily badha paduthundemo....but ee generations lo engagements cancel avvadam, is not rare. I that happens or good, then cancel avvadam ee manchidi...fiance ki konni rojulu aagaka malli sambandhaalu choostharu and pelli avutundi... Ee process kaastha kashtam....but possible ee...mee friend ki valla Fiance ni convince cheyyagala capacity unte...! [/quote] Mana happiness and immaturity ki inko family suffer ayina parle anukodam correct a dude? mana tappu ki evaro paruvu and badha enduku padali just because respectable family ani namminanduka? mana intlo ammayiki ilane jarugute ilane alochistava? parle inko match chuddam parvu emundi feeling emundi betrayal emundi ani?
JabardasthJakkanna Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381950734' post='1304424245'] Mana happiness and immaturity ki inko family suffer ayina parle anukodam correct a dude? mana tappu ki evaro paruvu and badha enduku padali just because respectable family ani namminanduka? mana intlo ammayiki ilane jarugute ilane alochistava? parle inko match chuddam parvu emundi feeling emundi betrayal emundi ani? [/quote] Nu antunna angle lo chooosthe, nu 100% correct, no doubt at all. Idi emotional angle. But mana parents genration varaku baane undedi ee angle, but nu oka sari alochisthe, ippudunna janalu, they are more practical than emotional. Practical angle lo alochisthe, nenu annadi neeku inkola artham avuthundi. Inkoti, mana chelli ko akka ko ilaane jarigithe ela untadi ante, aa abbai ki ishtam lekunna force pelli chesthe mana akka or chelle kada badha padedi....life long....kontha mandi antaru eventuallu things will settle ani, settle ayyedaaka narakam ee kada? in case settle avvakapothe ?? Engagement cancel ayithe badha untundi ...paruvu pothundi ante nenu oppukonu....mana thathalu or parents laga alochisthe definte ga paruvu poinatte anipisthundi... at the end of the day, maa chelli or akka santhoshanga undalani anukunta nenu...2-3 mons badha untundemo ippudu....but better than life long kada? 1
chantiabbai Posted October 16, 2013 Author Report Posted October 16, 2013 Class Ayyipoyinda tammudu.. Ippudu velli sakkaga Manchi nellu taagi paduko.. Oka 3-4 yrs back IDE DB neenu kooda ilanti classulu boldu peeka.. Neeku vishayam mottam telidu kaani rangu sooda taagi ra po [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381950446' post='1304424223'] endi vayya cinemala influence a? oka chello akko undi ade ayite emavutundo alochinchara? enta chaduvukoni em labham...a ammayi parents opukoledani vella parents mata vinnadu so e ammayi option...a ammayi parnets oppukunnaru kabatti ippudu she is his option....ilanti valla valle abbayilante nammakam lekunda potondi and butulu tittukuntunnaru mana generation confused ani... US lo undi enni veshalanna veyachu india lo society pressure chala untundi...repu pelli agipote a ammayi & valla parents badha padatam aey kadu andaru jali chupinchi odarchi ado topic la matladukoni vallani inka torture chestaru though not intentionally...selfish ga undadam tappu ledu andarilo untundi selfishness but a selfishness valla vere vallu edche level lo undakudadu.....adapilla ki pelli chala senstive issue a ammayi shoes lo alochinchu keeping ur family member then u will know enta stupid alochana and post oo... [/quote]
RamKishan Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 Mee vodu chala love chala sincere ayithe intha varaku vachidi kadu....last minute lo aa ammayi suicide antundi..a ammaiki ayithe telusu kada mee vodiki matches chustunaru ani....So aa ammayi ipati varaku emi chesindi...me frnd meda pressure yepuddo tesukuravilisi unde...idhe yedoo different angle lo unadhi...
ICANWIN Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='JabardasthJakkanna' timestamp='1381951133' post='1304424274'] Nu antunna angle lo chooosthe, nu 100% correct, no doubt at all. Idi emotional angle. But mana parents genration varaku baane undedi ee angle, but nu oka sari alochisthe, ippudunna janalu, they are more practical than emotional. Practical angle lo alochisthe, nenu annadi neeku inkola artham avuthundi. Inkoti, mana chelli ko akka ko ilaane jarigithe ela untadi ante, aa abbai ki ishtam lekunna force pelli chesthe mana akka or chelle kada badha padedi....life long....kontha mandi antaru eventuallu things will settle ani, settle ayyedaaka narakam ee kada? in case settle avvakapothe ?? Engagement cancel ayithe badha untundi ...paruvu pothundi ante nenu oppukonu....mana thathalu or parents laga alochisthe definte ga paruvu poinatte anipisthundi... at the end of the day, maa chelli or akka santhoshanga undalani anukunta nenu...2-3 mons badha untundemo ippudu....but better than life long kada? [/quote] nenu pelli chesukomanatledu but min sense leni idiot vadu antunna....ma cousin was in this situation and ma uncle was admitted in hospital with chest pain and her mom sugar level padipoyi 1 yr depressions lo unnaru and my cousin inti bayatiki kuda raledu and she was BE gold medalist from OU. Chaduvu generation ki oka adapilla sensitivesness ki em relation undadu...they feel bad in same way and would feel bad even after many generations...its matter of having min ethics...we cannot make any one cry or feel low for our selfishness...
ICANWIN Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='chantiabbai' timestamp='1381951279' post='1304424283'] Class Ayyipoyinda tammudu.. Ippudu velli sakkaga Manchi nellu taagi paduko.. Oka 3-4 yrs back IDE DB neenu kooda ilanti classulu boldu peeka.. Neeku vishayam mottam telidu kaani rangu sooda taagi ra po [/quote] nenu taganu at the 1st place ....idi class anukunte ni kharma that is all i can say..vishaym motham telisina vadini mari salaha adagakunda why did u post in DB? public forum lo adugute ilane untayi answers....chesinde oka bewarse pani daniko support...
chantiabbai Posted October 16, 2013 Author Report Posted October 16, 2013 IDE hospital situation suicide etc ma vaadi lover family ki voste? [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381951420' post='1304424295'] nenu pelli chesukomanatledu but min sense leni idiot vadu antunna....ma cousin was in this situation and ma uncle was admitted in hospital with chest pain and her mom sugar level padipoyi 1 yr depressions lo unnaru and my cousin inti bayatiki kuda raledu and she was BE gold medalist from OU. Chaduvu generation ki oka adapilla sensitivesness ki em relation undadu...they feel bad in same way and would feel bad even after many generations...its matter of having min ethics...we cannot make any one cry or feel low for our selfishness... [/quote]
JabardasthJakkanna Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381951420' post='1304424295'] nenu pelli chesukomanatledu but min sense leni idiot vadu antunna....ma cousin was in this situation and ma uncle was admitted in hospital with chest pain and her mom sugar level padipoyi 1 yr depressions lo unnaru and my cousin inti bayatiki kuda raledu and she was BE gold medalist from OU. Chaduvu generation ki oka adapilla sensitivesness ki em relation undadu...they feel bad in same way and would feel bad even after many generations...its matter of having min ethics...we cannot make any one cry or feel low for our selfishness... [/quote] Ila example nenu koooda naa point of view ki support chesthu ivvagalanu....okko situation okko la untundi...manushulu kooda diferent valla mentalities different....naa first reply cheppa...in case valla friend thana fiance ni convince cheyyagaligithe.....she will take care of her family.... Chaduvuki emotions ki sambandham ledu....but ee generation lo paristhithulu veru....mee parents 25 years ki choosina prapanchama veru....nuvvu 25 yrs ki chooosina prapancham veru.....neeku prapancham ekkuva telisthe, enno rakala janalu valla behaviors chooosthav....entho mandhi tho interact avutav....daaanthoi mentality lo change vasthundi...nee way of looking at things lo kooda.... When u r in rome, be a roman annaru....idi alaage...ee gen lo ilaa undi antunna practical ga....emotional angle lo alochisthe, practical angle artham chesukune chance raadu neeku...!
chantiabbai Posted October 16, 2013 Author Report Posted October 16, 2013 Neenu situation ni analyse chayyamanale letter ela raaste baguntundi ani adiga.. Analysis sangati maaku vadilay vanda mandi vanda rakaluga chaptaaru.. Donga tappu ani nuvve neenu chaptaam..akalitho chachipotunte dongatanam chesa ani donga chaptaadu this is a just a situation![quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381951532' post='1304424305'] nenu taganu at the 1st place ....idi class anukunte ni kharma that is all i can say..vishaym motham telisina vadini mari salaha adagakunda why did u post in DB? public forum lo adugute ilane untayi answers....chesinde oka bewarse pani daniko support... [/quote]
ICANWIN Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='chantiabbai' timestamp='1381951758' post='1304424324'] IDE hospital situation suicide etc ma vaadi lover family ki voste? [/quote] A ammayi father ki heart attack vaste?
ICANWIN Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 [quote name='chantiabbai' timestamp='1381951980' post='1304424347'] Neenu situation ni analyse chayyamanale letter ela raaste baguntundi ani adiga.. Analysis sangati maaku vadilay vanda mandi vanda rakaluga chaptaaru.. Donga tappu ani nuvve neenu chaptaam..akalitho chachipotunte dongatanam chesa ani donga chaptaadu this is a just a situation! [/quote] Enni restrictions lo salaha DB lo kadu telisina vallani adugu...akkada sagam mandi letter rayalo cheppale...titti dobbaru..denine society antaru....oka public forum lo elanti questions veste negative comments ki prepared ga undu leda adakku ...
tiger_sathi Posted October 16, 2013 Report Posted October 16, 2013 endhi vayya idhi.. pelli set ayyaka cheda kodithe... atu vipuu ammayi sanghathi enti...thokka lo force.. endhuku oppukunnadu anta first.... ???? endhi vayya idhi...finally evaro okari life hurt avvalsindhe....edhi chesina
chantiabbai Posted October 16, 2013 Author Report Posted October 16, 2013 Good question:ippudu unna situation lo kharma kaali iddari families ki aa paristiti vachetattu undi so whom will you support you family/ friend or outsider? [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381952107' post='1304424365'] A ammayi father ki heart attack vaste? [/quote]
chantiabbai Posted October 16, 2013 Author Report Posted October 16, 2013 Good question:ippudu unna situation lo kharma kaali iddari families ki aa paristiti vachetattu undi so whom will you support you family/ friend or outsider? [quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1381952107' post='1304424365'] A ammayi father ki heart attack vaste? [/quote]
.thumb.gif.343fe49c7e1c507ae0056326bd8cf77e.gif)
Recommended Posts