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what is your take on it ?

 

 

endukalaga ?

 

 

:(

 

please no jokes and spamming.. i need genuine replies :(

 

 

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Reply 1: westernization

reply 2: gatham lo ammailu compormise ayye vallu ippudu avadam ledu..

Reply 3: 

  • understanding lepotam
  • ego
  • parents involvement
  • adjust avvalsina time lo avvakapovatam..
  • influence of other cultures 
  • etc...

Reply 4:

 

chinnappudu father ante devudiki ichhinantha respect ichhi anni vishayallo yield ayyi undevallu mothers.. ippudu phone lift cheyyakapothe alagadam..office ki velleppudu  byeee cheppakapothe alagadam... pakkinti vallu cinemaki velthe alagadam... kura lo uppu yekkuva ayyindante alagadam.. individuality perigindi ammaialaki chaduvu udyagam tho batu.

 

 

 

Reply 5: ammayilu compromise avvatledu.....abbayilu adjust avvatledu  :D

 

reply 6: High expectations 

daaniki thodu..india lo mostly arranged marriages...engagement ki pelli ki 3 months time unna..em telsuthadi oka abbai/ammai gurinchi antha short span of time lo.

 

so a time lo chala expectations tho married life loki enter avutharu..gradual ga kotha vishayalu telusthai..good or bad

 

Reply 7 : Main reason: Why women are not compromising

okappudu Divorce aina ammai unte...society lo bhayapadtu bratikedi..

 

now-a days.....u leave a husband or boy friend...other 10 cho chweet guys are ready to take u up....earlier it wasnt the case...

.financialy independent..bratakagalam ane nammakam..

 

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I know a case, this is not case of divorce... my friend is a vet docotr who was working on opt...

he married a girl who dont look appealing.. i mean i dont decide a beauty of a girl.. but in this case i have to explain how her look matters too.. she is from a village .. ofocurse most of us are.. she is dirt poor and her parents are poor farmers who survive on cattle and goats...

 

but she studied degree in a remote college and on request of guys professor he married her.. 

 

this guy respect his professor.. so without saying no he told he will marry her..

 

the marriage expenses was paid by my friend

 

and he paid for the loans of girl he is marrying.. only because he thought he is helping a girl in trouble who dont look good wont get married because he promised his professor..

 

now he took her to usa.. he taught her proper english and work culture.. and he got her h1b..

 

she got job and survived and doing full time ..

 

now my friend mean while had some h1b issues and was job less for 6 months.. during this time his wife didnt allow him to drive her suv.. because she told it is a new car he wont handle fine..

he taught her driving. but money to car is paid by his wife

 

she also didnt let him speak or adivce.. she used to shout at him if he talks before she finish her sentence :-o :3D_Smiles:

 

my freinds brohter is very tall over 6 5 and he cannot drive  regular sedan.. so he asked to drive suv .. she didnt let him to sit in the car  :15_3_321:

 

 

Nuuvu cheppindi nijamithe....Daniki moguditho pani ledu inka....SUV gear rod pettukomanu

Posted

manasu kottadanam korukuntundi dude....

kottadam korukuntundhi ....:(
Posted

Simple, men changed their mind set... Okappudu ladies ni gouravinchey vallu but ippudu ledu

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Simple, men changed their mind set... Okappudu ladies ni gouravinchey vallu but ippudu ledu

ammayilaki balupu peragaledu antavu? brahmam_style17_0.gif?1290369245

Posted

what is your take on it ?

 

 

endukalaga ?

 

 

:(

 

please no jokes and spamming.. i need genuine replies :(

 

 

==============

Reply 1: westernization

reply 2: gatham lo ammailu compormise ayye vallu ippudu avadam ledu..

Reply 3: 

  • understanding lepotam
  • ego
  • parents involvement
  • adjust avvalsina time lo avvakapovatam..
  • influence of other cultures 
  • etc...

Reply 4:

 

chinnappudu father ante devudiki ichhinantha respect ichhi anni vishayallo yield ayyi undevallu mothers.. ippudu phone lift cheyyakapothe alagadam..office ki velleppudu  byeee cheppakapothe alagadam... pakkinti vallu cinemaki velthe alagadam... kura lo uppu yekkuva ayyindante alagadam.. individuality perigindi ammaialaki chaduvu udyagam tho batu.

 

 

 

Reply 5: ammayilu compromise avvatledu.....abbayilu adjust avvatledu  :D

 

reply 6: High expectations 

daaniki thodu..india lo mostly arranged marriages...engagement ki pelli ki 3 months time unna..em telsuthadi oka abbai/ammai gurinchi antha short span of time lo.

 

so a time lo chala expectations tho married life loki enter avutharu..gradual ga kotha vishayalu telusthai..good or bad

 

Reply 7 : Main reason: Why women are not compromising

okappudu Divorce aina ammai unte...society lo bhayapadtu bratikedi..

 

now-a days.....u leave a husband or boy friend...other 10 cho chweet guys are ready to take u up....earlier it wasnt the case...

.financialy independent..bratakagalam ane nammakam..

 

----

 

I know a case, this is not case of divorce... my friend is a vet docotr who was working on opt...

he married a girl who dont look appealing.. i mean i dont decide a beauty of a girl.. but in this case i have to explain how her look matters too.. she is from a village .. ofocurse most of us are.. she is dirt poor and her parents are poor farmers who survive on cattle and goats...

 

but she studied degree in a remote college and on request of guys professor he married her.. 

 

this guy respect his professor.. so without saying no he told he will marry her..

 

the marriage expenses was paid by my friend

 

and he paid for the loans of girl he is marrying.. only because he thought he is helping a girl in trouble who dont look good wont get married because he promised his professor..

 

now he took her to usa.. he taught her proper english and work culture.. and he got her h1b..

 

she got job and survived and doing full time ..

 

now my friend mean while had some h1b issues and was job less for 6 months.. during this time his wife didnt allow him to drive her suv.. because she told it is a new car he wont handle fine..

he taught her driving. but money to car is paid by his wife

 

she also didnt let him speak or adivce.. she used to shout at him if he talks before she finish her sentence :-o :3D_Smiles:

 

my freinds brohter is very tall over 6 5 and he cannot drive  regular sedan.. so he asked to drive suv .. she didnt let him to sit in the car  :15_3_321:

mahila lokam mari intha munduku potae kastham aeeebrahmam_style17_0.gif?1290369245

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no personal things please

stats kooda veyyi appudu ok idea vasthundhi unkl Brahmi+GIF.gif

Posted

Simple, men changed their mind set... Okappudu ladies ni gouravinchey vallu but ippudu ledu

Brahmi+GIF.gifokappudu ladies..kitchen kae parimitham ayyaru...mari ippudu...chala change ayyi...just cuz u r a women u dont have dont be super feminist..!!

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ammayilaki balupu peragaledu antavu? brahmam_style17_0.gif?1290369245

koddiga control lo matladithey andariki manchidi kadha? Nenu anagalanu abbayla balupu valley ivi ani but enduku analedu naku samskaram undi
Posted

Brahmi+GIF.gifokappudu ladies..kitchen kae parimitham ayyaru...mari ippudu...chala change ayyi...just cuz u r a women u dont have dont be super feminist..!!

so inka life long kitchen loney undali antav anthey na? Nenu agree ammaylu indepent ga untunnaru vati valla egos vacchay ani but inni years maga valla domination ey undi kadha ippudu thaggithey thappenti?
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so inka life long kitchen loney undali antav anthey na? Nenu agree ammaylu indepent ga untunnaru vati valla egos vacchay ani but inni years maga valla domination ey undi kadha ippudu thaggithey thappenti?

ee rojullo taggi undaedhi maa maga gents ae...adi alusugu teesukoni mee aada ladies rechipothu untar...its a fact...!!

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