bhayya, meru cheppina dantlo ammayi tappu ayithe emi kanipitledhu...but i dont know why ur friend is still worrying...piana andharu cheppinattu, trust is the main part of a relationship, so if you lose that you will lose that relation..so decide chesukomanu mee frnd ni...

anumanam penubhootam..wife and husband okari meeda okariki nammakam undali vaay...ipudu chadivistunadu future lo job cheyistadu...ila anumanalu unde vadu house wife kinde peteskovali wife ni...nammakam leni chota evi kudaravu

Anthae anthae

Anthae anthae

nuv matladak...galeez fellow

hello everyone,

 

My best friend is suffering from psychological pain. He is my best friend and asked for my suggestion about this issue. May be this story is little bit long but, please give your views to help my friend.

 

His wife doing MS and she took help in home work from a guy in her class. She didn't tell my friend that she is taking help from him instead she used a group (plural) is helping her. For this purpose she did texting to that guy late nights. One day my friend saw her texting him about home work at 10pm because it was due next day morning. He didn't ask her anything left that situation casually.

 

And a couple of days later my friend asked his wife about a project she supposed to do at the end of the sem. She said, it requires two people for it and she couldn't find any one in the class so she picked a guy. She didn't mention his name and didn't even tell my friend that he is the same guy who was helping in home work.

 

My friend was curious, so he saw her messages in whatsapp. There were messages exchanged between them regarding home work only. My friend loves his wife so much and they are a good couple. She is like a sister to me. Few months back they were blessed with a baby. 

 

My friend doesn't have any doubt on her, but he doesn't know her classmate. He is worrying that if that guy tries to exploit her, what will be the consequences? 

 

Now problem for my friend is, he doesn't know how to tell/ask his wife regarding this issue.

If suppose he asks her, and if she thinks like my friend had doubted her, he is not sure how she reacts after that. Or by asking this, he might be creating new ideas to her. 

 

My friend is undergoing psychological stress, not able to concentrate on his work. He is not able to face his wife by keeping all this in his mind. And that innocent lady not able to find his situation, she is thinking that my friend might have some issues at his work.

 

Could you please respond to tackle this situation. 

 

He definitely doubted her man

mosapoye amayakathvam vunte evari chethilo aina mosapotharu...

anumaninche budhi vunte evaritho matladina anumanistharu...

 

nee fren ki anumanam kante bhayam ekuvala vundhi...

ippudu classmate gurinchi bhayapaduthunadu...repu colleagues gurinchi bhayapadathadu...

 

ask him to invite her frens/acquantices/classmates whoever she is close to... to family lunch ... vallanu chusthe mee fren ki doubts pothayi kadha... okavela emana anumaninche aspect kanipisthe, appudu direct ga wife tho discuss cheyochu... as he has already met him/them ... nee fren naku nachaledhu ano or jagratha no or watever...

 GP

msg lo anni study related unnappudu inka doubt enduku, chakkaga open ga matladukomanu anthey, manasulo okati unchukoni bayata oka la untey athanikey problem. lite teesukomanu.

antha anumanam unte master's endhuku cheyisthunattu? intlo kurcho pettamanu...master's tharuvatha repu job lo join ayyaka e anumanam ekkuva avuthundi...okavela travelling project vasthe inka mee vadi sangathi ento?

msg lo anni study related unnappudu inka doubt enduku, chakkaga open ga matladukomanu anthey, manasulo okati unchukoni bayata oka la untey athanikey problem. lite teesukomanu.

matladinaka dooram peruguthundi baa...ithanidi just anumanam...wife inthantho manchiga undi oka baby puttaka...ila doubts petukodam tappu.,asalu ithaniki vela relation meeda nammakam lenapudu ee topic discuss chesina oka ardam undi...wife gurinchi ani manchigane chepukuntu vadevadoo exploit cheste emey vadiki longi pothundi ani enduku anukuntunademo ardam avatam ledu...just for the sake of assignments or course work..ye ammai thana family life ni spoil cheskodu..until unless thana husband ameni fees meedano inka denikina bayapetti intha karchu antha karchu kabati nuvu money waste cheyakunda cheyyali adi idi anthe tappithe...husband side nunchi manchi support unapudu..she wudnt spoil her life.

msgs chadhivi clarify chesukunnadu ga,,,,inkendhuku anumanam,,,inka anumaaniste life antha ila lolopala edhedho ooohinchukuntooo pothadu man,,,,,

 

 

 GP

thanks :)

plan a vacation with her and spend some time happily.. or if he wants to know that guy arrange a get to gether to all of their friends and ask her to invite him as he is helping and see if he has a family a wife.. and try to communicate with him professionally.. may be he gets an idea and also try and communicate with his family (wife) thanking her because even she lets her hubby chat at night.. ;) if not simply trust ur partner and share wht u feel definitely she wont mind..

ekkuva think cheyyakunda undatam better ani cheppu mee friend ki...... tell him to show more love on her than before.... 

well said

well said

vinuu

vinuu

hi salvidi......naaku salividi thinalanipisthundi nee peru chusinapudu ala............:(